#masochism — Public Fediverse posts

Just from the video thumbnail image's highlighted comments, I predict the specific commenters have never heard of "topping from the bottom", "bratty sub", or
LE GASP
FemDom.

Fucks' sake.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5EyGx-jDXds

#Kink #BDSM #FemDom #ERP #LARP #RP #RPG #Bondage #Discipline #Domination #Submission #Sadism #Masochism #RolePlay #sex #NonSexual #play #fantasy #improv #acting #improvisational #setup #prep #planning #safety #consent #enthusiasm #SafeWord #SafeGesture #ethical #fun #joy #pleasure #sub #SubDrop #submissive #dominant #EmotionalCatharsis #emotion #emotional #release #intimacy #security #trust #relationship

Just from the video thumbnail image's highlighted comments, I predict the specific commenters have never heard of "topping from the bottom", "bratty sub", or
LE GASP
FemDom.

Fucks' sake.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5EyGx-jDXds

#Kink #BDSM #FemDom #ERP #LARP #RP #RPG #Bondage #Discipline #Domination #Submission #Sadism #Masochism #RolePlay #sex #NonSexual #play #fantasy #improv #acting #improvisational #setup #prep #planning #safety #consent #enthusiasm #SafeWord #SafeGesture #ethical #fun #joy #pleasure #sub #SubDrop #submissive #dominant #EmotionalCatharsis #emotion #emotional #release #intimacy #security #trust #relationship

Just from the video thumbnail image's highlighted comments, I predict the specific commenters have never heard of "topping from the bottom", "bratty sub", or
LE GASP
FemDom.

Fucks' sake.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5EyGx-jDXds

#Kink #BDSM #FemDom #ERP #LARP #RP #RPG #Bondage #Discipline #Domination #Submission #Sadism #Masochism #RolePlay #sex #NonSexual #play #fantasy #improv #acting #improvisational #setup #prep #planning #safety #consent #enthusiasm #SafeWord #SafeGesture #ethical #fun #joy #pleasure #sub #SubDrop #submissive #dominant #EmotionalCatharsis #emotion #emotional #release #intimacy #security #trust #relationship

Just from the video thumbnail image's highlighted comments, I predict the specific commenters have never heard of "topping from the bottom", "bratty sub", or
LE GASP
FemDom.

Fucks' sake.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5EyGx-jDXds

#Kink #BDSM #FemDom #ERP #LARP #RP #RPG #Bondage #Discipline #Domination #Submission #Sadism #Masochism #RolePlay #sex #NonSexual #play #fantasy #improv #acting #improvisational #setup #prep #planning #safety #consent #enthusiasm #SafeWord #SafeGesture #ethical #fun #joy #pleasure #sub #SubDrop #submissive #dominant #EmotionalCatharsis #emotion #emotional #release #intimacy #security #trust #relationship

Just from the video thumbnail image's highlighted comments, I predict the specific commenters have never heard of "topping from the bottom", "bratty sub", or
LE GASP
FemDom.

Fucks' sake.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5EyGx-jDXds

#Kink #BDSM #FemDom #ERP #LARP #RP #RPG #Bondage #Discipline #Domination #Submission #Sadism #Masochism #RolePlay #sex #NonSexual #play #fantasy #improv #acting #improvisational #setup #prep #planning #safety #consent #enthusiasm #SafeWord #SafeGesture #ethical #fun #joy #pleasure #sub #SubDrop #submissive #dominant #EmotionalCatharsis #emotion #emotional #release #intimacy #security #trust #relationship

Why would you do that to yourself? The Guardian better be paying his therapy bills...

https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2026/mar/03/joe-rogan-podcast-politics-trump

#JoeRogan #Manosphere #FarRight #Masculinity #USPOL #USPOLTICS #Masochism

BlueSky Is A Platform For Attention Whores With No Standards

I’m convinced that Bluesky is the platform for attention-whores who perform and humiliate themselves for validation and affirmation. It’s really sad. I don’t feel bad when bad things happen to them as a consequence because they were already warned, yet they prioritize fitting into a culture and refuse to deal with their feelings of inadequacy. The reason they stay is that the bar is low for meaningful engagement, allowing them to indulge in their obsessions and compulsions while being rewarded for self-destructive behavior. It truly is quite pathetic.

I initially joined Bluesky for the sexual content because people on Mastodon have little interest in sex and much more elaborate norms around sexuality. Contrary to what people think of me, I don’t actually use social media in the conventional way most people do. I view it on an abstract, non-algorithmically served layer via my network analysis tools, and I interact with YouTube in a very constrained way. So, I wasn’t aware of how bad things were until I started using Bluesky conventionally. The men on Bluesky are just plain repulsive to me. Desperation, neediness, lack of independence, and obsessively posting about a single topic (like sex, religion, or politics), instead of developing a genuine hobby that demonstrates skill, progress, and mastery, are major turn-offs. I find a lack of standards absolutely disgusting.

For example, if someone abhorrent gives you a compliment, you don’t accept it. If an abhorrent person follows you, you block them. Yet what I see are men posting sexual content and seeking attention and validation from anyone, regardless of who it’s coming from. If I look through someone’s activity and see nothing but low-effort posts interacting with nothing but sexual content or obsessive engagement with that type of content, I lose interest immediately.

A reason why my husband has held my attention for over a decade is that there is always something new with him. He is always randomly looking into developing a new skill. One day, he started randomly speaking Mandarin to me, which I did not know he knew how to speak. He had told me he had been learning Mandarin. Yes, my husband is neurodivergent and his interests are cars, but that doesn’t displace all other things. Another reason why my husband holds my attention is that he can keep a conversation going and match anyone’s changes. It’s not one ritualistic or compulsive thing every single fucking day.

A very real consequence of the lack of standards in gay sexual spaces, especially given that many misogynistic, homophobic far-right men suppress their homosexual attractions, is that many of the fetishes in gay sexual spaces are reminiscent of manosphere content. Because of what I do for a living, I have access to audience segmentation metrics and social embeddings of how content is served. Manosphere content clusters with homoerotic content that men consume. At some point, obsession became so normalized that people stopped realizing it was problematic.

Unless gay men set boundaries and tell manosphere bros, “we’re not having that,” you’ll see what I see on Bluesky. I’m actually very sexual myself, and I frequently go to bathhouses—those that have very explicit rules—sex parties, and orgies.

The funny thing is that I have had plenty of really deep philosophical conversations sitting in the hot tub of a bathhouse with naked gay men. Because of health codes and all that, you can’t do sexual things in the pool or the hot tub, so those areas were places for genuine play and conversation, while spots like the saunas were the fuck spots. I recall a particularly interesting conversation I had with an older gay man who had been going to that bathhouse since the ’80s. He explained to me the social context of the HIV epidemic and how, basically, no one knew it was sexually transmitted, so everyone was still barebacking at that exact same bathhouse we were in.

The issue here is people who fuck and sexually perform for awful people who want to murder them because they have absolutely no fucking standards and are so emotionally needy that they forgo all forms of self-preservation. I’m a computer scientist, so I have access to a lot of data tools. I can tell you for a fact that there is a strong correlation between men who want to murder gay men and trans people and the ones liking, engaging in parasocial dynamics with, and commenting in their replies. You’re willing to take sexual attention from people who want to kill you, and that blows my mind.

In their minds, Bluesky is better if it is not a Nazi strip bar but a Nazi BDSM-furry-kink club? What the ever-loving fuck?! Honestly, I watch a lot of feminist content that rips manosphere content apart, so much so that I can instantly recognize coded things. The “fuck no!” moment for me is when I saw manosphere-coded things being fetishized in the ego networks of large gay adult content creators and OnlyFans creators in social network embeddings. It’s not like it is insidious. If I see it, everyone else sees it; they are just ignoring it because they are prioritizing sexual validation and their obsessions.

BlueSky Is A Platform For Attention Whores With No Standards

I’m convinced that Bluesky is the platform for attention-whores who perform and humiliate themselves for validation and affirmation. It’s really sad. I don’t feel bad when bad things happen to them as a consequence because they were already warned, yet they prioritize fitting into a culture and refuse to deal with their feelings of inadequacy. The reason they stay is that the bar is low for meaningful engagement, allowing them to indulge in their obsessions and compulsions while being rewarded for self-destructive behavior. It truly is quite pathetic.

I initially joined Bluesky for the sexual content because people on Mastodon have little interest in sex and much more elaborate norms around sexuality. Contrary to what people think of me, I don’t actually use social media in the conventional way most people do. I view it on an abstract, non-algorithmically served layer via my network analysis tools, and I interact with YouTube in a very constrained way. So, I wasn’t aware of how bad things were until I started using Bluesky conventionally. The men on Bluesky are just plain repulsive to me. Desperation, neediness, lack of independence, and obsessively posting about a single topic (like sex, religion, or politics), instead of developing a genuine hobby that demonstrates skill, progress, and mastery, are major turn-offs. I find a lack of standards absolutely disgusting.

For example, if someone abhorrent gives you a compliment, you don’t accept it. If an abhorrent person follows you, you block them. Yet what I see are men posting sexual content and seeking attention and validation from anyone, regardless of who it’s coming from. If I look through someone’s activity and see nothing but low-effort posts interacting with nothing but sexual content or obsessive engagement with that type of content, I lose interest immediately.

A reason why my husband has held my attention for over a decade is that there is always something new with him. He is always randomly looking into developing a new skill. One day, he started randomly speaking Mandarin to me, which I did not know he knew how to speak. He had told me he had been learning Mandarin. Yes, my husband is neurodivergent and his interests are cars, but that doesn’t displace all other things. Another reason why my husband holds my attention is that he can keep a conversation going and match anyone’s changes. It’s not one ritualistic or compulsive thing every single fucking day.

A very real consequence of the lack of standards in gay sexual spaces, especially given that many misogynistic, homophobic far-right men suppress their homosexual attractions, is that many of the fetishes in gay sexual spaces are reminiscent of manosphere content. Because of what I do for a living, I have access to audience segmentation metrics and social embeddings of how content is served. Manosphere content clusters with homoerotic content that men consume. At some point, obsession became so normalized that people stopped realizing it was problematic.

Unless gay men set boundaries and tell manosphere bros, “we’re not having that,” you’ll see what I see on Bluesky. I’m actually very sexual myself, and I frequently go to bathhouses—those that have very explicit rules—sex parties, and orgies.

The funny thing is that I have had plenty of really deep philosophical conversations sitting in the hot tub of a bathhouse with naked gay men. Because of health codes and all that, you can’t do sexual things in the pool or the hot tub, so those areas were places for genuine play and conversation, while spots like the saunas were the fuck spots. I recall a particularly interesting conversation I had with an older gay man who had been going to that bathhouse since the ’80s. He explained to me the social context of the HIV epidemic and how, basically, no one knew it was sexually transmitted, so everyone was still barebacking at that exact same bathhouse we were in.

The issue here is people who fuck and sexually perform for awful people who want to murder them because they have absolutely no fucking standards and are so emotionally needy that they forgo all forms of self-preservation. I’m a computer scientist, so I have access to a lot of data tools. I can tell you for a fact that there is a strong correlation between men who want to murder gay men and trans people and the ones liking, engaging in parasocial dynamics with, and commenting in their replies. You’re willing to take sexual attention from people who want to kill you, and that blows my mind.

In their minds, Bluesky is better if it is not a Nazi strip bar but a Nazi BDSM-furry-kink club? What the ever-loving fuck?! Honestly, I watch a lot of feminist content that rips manosphere content apart, so much so that I can instantly recognize coded things. The “fuck no!” moment for me is when I saw manosphere-coded things being fetishized in the ego networks of large gay adult content creators and OnlyFans creators in social network embeddings. It’s not like it is insidious. If I see it, everyone else sees it; they are just ignoring it because they are prioritizing sexual validation and their obsessions.

Watching The Witcher S4.

Incredibly bad scripting and acting.

Why am I doing this?

#masochism

🥳 Who knew #ZFS was moonlighting as a #samurai, slicing through your #data and your sanity with the precision of a butter knife? 🗡️ Apparently, surviving its #encryption gauntlet requires a PhD in #masochism and a #backup #plan involving an abacus and prayer. 🙏
https://sambowman.tech/blog/posts/mind-the-encryptionroot-how-to-save-your-data-when-zfs-loses-its-mind/ #HackerNews #ngated

🎨📏 Behold, the revolutionary Two Slice font: Because reading shouldn't be enjoyable, it's now possible to squint at text that mimics microscopic ants! 🐜🔍 Perfect for masochists who consider 2px tall fonts a design "breakthrough." 🙄🎉
https://joefatula.com/twoslice.html #TwoSliceFont #designFails #readabilityAnts #masochism #typography #HackerNews #ngated

BB6 is #Hard #Antihydra (2024): 🤯 Behold, #mathematical #masochism at its finest! If you enjoy endless sequences that make your #brain perspire and want to brag about it on #Discord, this one's for you. Just remember, the only thing harder than #BB6 is explaining it to your friends without losing them. 🤓💁‍♂️
https://www.sligocki.com//2024/07/06/bb-6-2-is-hard.html #workout #perplexing #puzzles #HackerNews #ngated

New video available for rebill only!

“Sticking clothespins on my body” 😈

#masochist #masochism #masochistic #painkink #painplay #kink #fetish #nsfw #sadomasochism #sadomasochistic #darkfans #nsfwcontent #pussytorture #pussyplay #clamps #bdsm

New video available for rebill only!

“Sticking clothespins on my body” 😈

#masochist #masochism #masochistic #painkink #painplay #kink #fetish #nsfw #sadomasochism #sadomasochistic #darkfans #nsfwcontent #pussytorture #pussyplay #clamps #bdsm

New video available for rebill only!

“Sticking clothespins on my body” 😈

#masochist #masochism #masochistic #painkink #painplay #kink #fetish #nsfw #sadomasochism #sadomasochistic #darkfans #nsfwcontent #pussytorture #pussyplay #clamps #bdsm

@maj So you're reading for added effect?
#Masochism

🔧💻 Ah, the age-old quest to make #JavaScript as excruciating as possible. Forget simplicity—embrace masochism! 🤦‍♂️ Because why have a straightforward #UI when you can reinvent the wheel and call it "The Hard Way"? 😂
https://github.com/matthewp/views-the-hard-way #programming #masochism #HackerNews #softwaredevelopment #HackerNews #ngated

#TIL that #MarianneFaithfull was related to Leopold von Sacher Masoch. I also learned that LSM didn't approve of the use of his name in the word #masochism invented by a conpemporary psychiatrist. Marianne's mother, who appears in this lovely photo gallery, was a Sacher-Masoch: https://www.theguardian.com/culture/gallery/2025/jan/30/marianne-faithfull-a-life-in-pictures

You breathe, eat, beg and burn for me and my pleasure you little ashtray slave.

#nsfw #bdsm #mistress
#domme #sadist #misandrist #ashtray #smokekink #sub #slave #sph #joi #masochism #bdsm #kink

I need to recommend a book on S&M to help a patient better understand their urges.
It’s literally been decades since I read on the subject. Can anyone help with suggestions?
#Bookstadon #Domination #Masochism #Kink something more accessible than encyclopaedic.

As a practical matter two distros for maximum pain and three use candidates.

#Linux
#Masochism
#DeptOfDistroHopping

Took me half a day to install ikea blinders in my bedroom. Good job!

How can I gratify myself now?

A nice session at Dark Souls remastered, of course!

#gaming #masochism #neverAJoy #noRestForTheWicked #dontGoHollow

Given how infuriatingly rigid some of the assessment question answers are and how poorly phrased some of the questions are, I really do wonder why I subject myself to these assessments more than once. 🤔

#Masochism?

Today I learned a new term for masochist. #BDSM #Masochism

#BDSM is a combination of 3 acronyms:
1. Bondage and Discipline (B&D)
2. Dominance and submission (D&S)
3. #Sadism and #Masochism (S&M)

It is the giving and receiving of sexual pleasure through the above practices (which can be exceptionally varied and beyond the scope of this article), engaged in voluntarily and with predetermined limits and safety rules set and agreed to in advance by all participants (this is sometimes referred to as "safe, sane, and consensual": SSC for short. RACK is also often used: "risk-aware consensual kink"). Practitioners of BDSM are often termed "kinky."

#RationalWiki
https://rationalwiki.org/wiki/BDSM

Mia Bruce, 54, slept in, got covered in mud, almost set fire to the ladies' room, and then lost her job - all before lunch! So what else could happen?

Readers' Choice Award winner - Sweet Things.
https://evernightpublishing.com/sweet-things-by-suzy-shearer
https://amazon.com/dp/B08HRDQN61

#read #readromance #romance #romanceauthor #sadism #masochism #romancenovel #romancenovels #bookstadon #WritersCoffeeClub #writingCommunity #wordweaver #creativity @bookstadon #romancebooks #bookstodon

It's the weekend, relax, read a book.
And if you like your book heroes sexy, strong, & in charge then enjoy spending time with sadism master - Steven. Let him make scream with a peg zipper or merely caress you with a whip.
Bk 1 The Silk Rope Masters.

evernightpublishing.com/steven-by-suzy-shearer
https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07DJCGST8/
#read #readromance #romance #romanceauthor #sadism #masochism #romancenovel #romancenovels #bookstadon #WritersCoffeeClub #writingCommunity #wordweaver #creativity @bookstadon #romancebooks #bookstodon

#BDSM #Sadism #Masochism #PassionOfTheChrist #Meme