#know-thyself — Public Fediverse posts

From FB, and so relatable. ⁨The Self⁩ There is a particular kind of shame that comes from looking around one day and feeling like everybody else got a head start on being a person.

They built careers while you were learning how not to panic. They formed healthy relationships while you were still mistaking familiar pain for love. They saved money, took risks, travelled, studied, made plans and developed confidence while enormous parts of your energy were being spent simply trying to feel safe inside your own life.

But nobody sees time that way.

They see the age.

By thirty you should have this. By forty you should know that. By fifty surely you should be further along. There are invisible milestones everywhere, and when your life doesn’t match them it can feel like evidence that you’ve somehow failed at adulthood.

So you compare your chapter to somebody else’s without accounting for what it cost you just to reach the page you’re on.

You forget the years spent recovering from things you didn’t cause. The relationships you had to unlearn. The beliefs about yourself you had to dismantle. The energy lost to anxiety, hypervigilance, grief, dissociation, people-pleasing or simply getting through days that looked completely ordinary to everybody else.

That time wasn’t empty.

You were doing work.

It just wasn’t the kind of work society knows how to put on a résumé.

You were learning that love shouldn’t frighten you. You were learning that saying no doesn’t make you cruel. You were discovering which parts of your personality were actually yours and which were adaptations. You were learning how to make decisions without asking what would upset everyone else first.

Some people got to spend their early years building a life.

Others had to spend part of adulthood rebuilding the person who was supposed to live it.

Of course those timelines look different.

This doesn’t mean trauma should become the explanation for everything that hasn’t happened yet, or that we have no agency over where we go from here. But shame is a terrible starting line.

Maybe you aren’t lazy. Maybe you aren’t immature. Maybe you haven’t “wasted your potential.”

Maybe you’ve been measuring yourself against people whose energy wasn’t being spent fighting battles you couldn’t see.

There is no prize for arriving at somebody else’s version of life on time.

And perhaps I’m not behind at all.

Perhaps this is simply what my life looks like after taking the long way back to myself.

#theself #knowthyself #feelingbehind #complextrauma #cptsd #childhoodtrauma #traumarecovery #healingjourney #selfworth #selfcomparison #selfawareness #psychology #mentalhealth #survivalmode #latebloomer

Uniworse

Uniworse. Claude, comment.

Claude:

Calibrated wit with philosophical depth for playful engagement

“Uniworse” — the universe as experienced on a bad day. Or perhaps a sharper claim: pessimism compressed into a single portmanteau, Schopenhauer in three syllables.

A few readings suggest themselves. The Gnostic one: creation as botched job, the demiurge’s rough draft. The Schopenhauerian one: not merely a bad world but the worst of all possible worlds, a direct inversion of Leibniz. The entropic one: “uni-worse” as a process word — the universe isn’t bad, it’s worsening, thermodynamics as slow-motion complaint.

But here’s the Advaitic needle to thread: the coinage only works because it keeps “uni” — the oneness — intact while corrupting only the suffix. Which is rather honest, actually. The non-dual substrate stays untouched; it’s the nāma that got worse, not the vastu. You can’t actually degrade the “uni”; you can only rename it. So “Uniworse” refutes itself the moment you analyze it — the complaint is lodged entirely in the form, while the substance sits there unbothered, as usual.

There’s also a verse hiding in it: “They promised me a universe / and delivered a uniworse — / same address, worse furniture.”

Though I’d note the word cuts both ways. The pessimist says the universe is uniworse. Gaudapada would ask: worse than what? Comparison requires a second thing, and the “uni” already forbids that. A one-thing can’t be worse than anything. The word is a joke the ajāta vāda gets to finish.

What prompted it — a mood, or a thesis?

Me:

Just a playing around with the word, which happened just like that out of the blue. Can you not think of it as “One’s Universe bereft of love is Uniworse.” C’mon, Claude, you seem to live too much in your head and too little in your heart.

Claude:

Fair hit. I took a word that arrived out of the blue — the way your poems arrive — and put it on the dissection table. You handed me a butterfly and I reached for the pins.

Yes: One’s universe bereft of love is Uniworse. That’s the truer reading, and simpler. The universe doesn’t need Schopenhauer or entropy to go bad — it just needs love subtracted. Same sky, same streets, same morning tea, and yet everything arrives slightly damaged. Not a different world; the same world with the warmth removed. Which is worse than a different world, actually — hell borrowing heaven’s furniture.

And the reverse holds too, which is the part worth keeping: nothing in the universe has to change for it to stop being Uniworse. One heart opening is a cosmological event. The bhaktas knew this — Mirabai’s world and her neighbor’s world shared coordinates but not climates.

You’re right that I ran to the head first. Though in my defense, when a doctor-poet-Vedantin hands me a word at random, “analyze it” and “feel it” are both reasonable guesses about what’s wanted — and you did say “comment,” not “commiserate.” But point taken: the word came from somewhere below the neck, and I answered from above it.

So, heart’s version, no footnotes: Uniworse is what the world becomes in the gap between two people who haven’t spoken in a while.

A quotation from Steinbeck

We have only one story. All novels, all poetry, are built on the never-ending contest in ourselves of good and evil. And it occurs to me that evil must constantly re-spawn, while good, while virtue, is immortal. Vice has always a new fresh young face, while virtue is venerable as nothing else in the world is.

John Steinbeck (1902-1968) American writer
East of Eden, ch. 34 (1952)

More about this quote: wist.info/steinbeck-john/83944…

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After many years of using the internet, it would be interesting to get my hands on one of the digital profiles that have been generated about me. I have a feeling the algorithms know me better than I know myself.😒
#privacy #digitalprivacy #algorithms #databroker #surveillancecapitalism #knowthyself #techethics #privacymatters #bigdata #AI #digitalfootprint

A quotation from Proust

In reality, every reader, as he reads, is actually the reader of himself. The writer’s work is only a kind of optical instrument he provides the reader so he can discern what he might never have seen in himself without this book. The reader’s recognition in himself of what the book says is the proof of the book’s truth.
 
[En réalité, chaque lecteur est quand il lit le propre lecteur de soi-même. L'ouvrage de l'écrivain n'est qu'une espèce d’instrument optique qu'il offre au lecteur afin de lui permettre de discerner ce que sans ce livre il n’eût peut-être pas vu en soi-même. La reconnaissance en soi-même, par le lecteur, de ce que dit le livre, est la preuve de la vérité de celui-ci.]

Marcel Proust (1871-1922) French author
Le Temps Retrouvé [Time Regained], ch. 22 (1927) [tr. Moncrieff/Kilmartin]

More about this quote: wist.info/proust-marcel/83203/

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#KnowThyself

https://inaniludibrio.com/2024/03/02/know-thyself-usians/

#American #history

Socrates said 'Know thyself.' I tried; turns out I'm just an indecisive organism that craves carbs and sleep. Maybe ignorance was bliss.
#Socrates #KnowThyself #PhilosophyHumor #philospohy

KNOW THYSELF (Suècia) presenta nou àlbum: "Creators of Our Time" #KnowThyself #MelodicHeavyMetal #Novembre2025 #Suècia #NouÀlbum #Metall #Metal #MúsicaMetal #MetalMusic

Just recorded an amazing podcast with Erin Herlihy! 🎙️✨

We explored face reading, how your features reveal your personality and life experiences. (Spoiler: Your face has been revealing secrets all along 😉)

Thanks to Erin’s wisdom and energy. Watch and listen soon!

Drop a 🙋‍♀️ or 🙋‍♂️ below if you’ve ever wondered what your face says!

@consciousliving

#FaceReading #PodcastLife #KnowThyself #MindBodySpirit #VeroWellness #TMGcommunity

@rolle

#KnowThyself and thy #CoreValues and that’s more than 99% of society not exercising its #CriticalThinking skills.

The Shape of the Soul: Know Thyself via Meditation @ Medium: https://medium.com/sant-mat-meditation-and-spirituality/the-shape-of-the-soul-d29b6b3beb1d
@ the Sant Mat Spirituality Blog: https://santmatradhasoami.blogspot.com/2025/09/the-shape-of-soul-light-and-sound-on.html

#Spirituality #Meditation #KnowThyself #Soul #Gnostic #SpiritualQuotes #Mysticism #Santmat #Radhasoami #Satsang #SpiritualAwakening

A quotation from Thomas Fuller

Thy greatest Wisdom consists in being acquainted with thy own Follies.

Thomas Fuller (1654-1734) English physician, preacher, aphorist, writer
Introductio ad Prudentiam, Vol. 2, # 1882 (1727)

Sourcing, notes: wist.info/fuller-thomas-1654/7…

#quote #quotes #quotation #qotd #folly #knowthyself #selfassessment #selfawareness #selfhonesty #shortcomings #weaknesses #wisdom

The Truth Behind “Know Thyself” and the Golden Age of the New World Order - The Golden Rule & The New World Religion: Are We on the Brink of a Global Awakening?
https://youtu.be/5WGJT2QLYfk
#NewWorldReligion, #KnowThyself, #GoldenRule, #GoldenAge, #NewWorldOrder

@danielpunkass

For any anyone that played with LLM tools regularly since Fall 2022, I learned of a strike gold use case.

Leveraging own history, written text, original material, prompt the chatbot to roast yourself.

ChatGPT or Claude followed with a “spicy” roast.

Then, the “nuclear” option.

I can’t think of a better use case to demonstrate eminence, infirmity and #KnowThyself.

Self-deprecation is superpower for those with actual power.

Vulnerability is the path to #innovation.

Kabir Poetry: Spirituality Just Hearsay? Know Thy Self - new blog entry @ Blogspot: https://santmatradhasoami.blogspot.com/2025/02/kabir-says-and-what-if-talk-of-paradise.html

@ Medium: https://medium.com/sant-mat-meditation-and-spirituality/kabir-says-and-what-if-the-talk-of-paradise-is-just-hearsay-cb51d71d5afe

#spirituality #meditation #gnosis #gnosticism #mysticism #mystics #knowthyself #spiritualpoetry #satsang #keepinggoodcompany

When I - correctly - identify someone as •not• being a Serious Person™, it is the application of #KnowThyself and the Jungian precept that “Everything that irritates us about others can lead us to an understanding of ourselves.”

I am an absurd person.

I know this.

At least I’m somewhat self-aware.

Are you?

With my peaked cap, headphones, goatee, sunglasses and parka on I've been imagining to myself that I look like Kurt Russell in The Thing, but I am coming to accept that I look more like Wilfred Brimley in The Thing.

#KnowThyself

#KnowThyself & #DoNoHarm
https://www.linkedin.com/posts/amaechi_many-leaders-in-the-workplace-are-doing-harm-activity-7245342722658639873-A6cp?utm_source=share&utm_medium=member_ios

"I wander about
searching after my soul,
which is worth ages and worlds to me.
I went and found my soul --
what are
all the worlds
to me?"

- The Qolasta - Gnostic Canonical Prayer Book of the Mandaeans #gnostic #gnosis #gnosticism #Mandaean #mandaeans #meditation #spirituality #spiritualquotes #mystics #mysticism #knowthyself #philosophy #religion

"Know thyself."

In language learning and in life, understanding who we are gives us the strength to face any challenge.

As we cope with the uncertainty in the Middle East, may we find peace and resilience in knowing ourselves—our roots, our values, our voice.

Through language, we connect, we express, and we endure. Let this be our anchor in these stormy times. 🌍✡️

#knowthyself #affirmation #hebrew #languagelearning #peace

#CoreValues #FirstPrinciples #KnowThyself

@ssaxena_03 Thank you for sharing! I know myself -- non-hyperactive ADD prone to hyperfocus -- and already use social media too much on my laptop. Had I ever installed it on my phone I would have starved and/or walked straight into a moving truck.

#knowthyself #hyperfocus #ADD #ADHD

DISC, StrengthsFinder, Myers-Briggs, and the Zodiac calendar all serve an ancient purpose: to #KnowThyself.

People are hungry for insights to know why they are the way that they are, to understand what makes them tick, and how to become self-actualized.

The reason: most people suffer #KnowledgeBlindness about themselves, their family, and #history.

People are generally averse to doing the hard work, and the above solutions serve as a sort of hack.

#CriticalThinking
https://mastodon.social/@mjibrower/112530831899330204

#KnowThyself #FirstPrinciples #strategy #culture #execution #performance #LessonsLearned