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  1. → Gen Z's biggest fear is laughable at first. But it's quietly wreaking havoc on their lives.
    yahoo.com/lifestyle/family-rel

    “"Cringe" is a relatively new term, but the feeling behind it certainly isn’t. What Gen Z calls "#cringe" is the very human, timeless fear of rejection. What’s changed is the scale at which that #rejection can happen — and how permanent and #public it can feel. Being earnest means to risk #misunderstanding. […] Being #open at all means being evaluated and #judged.”

    #fear

  2. → Gen Z's biggest fear is laughable at first. But it's quietly wreaking havoc on their lives.
    yahoo.com/lifestyle/family-rel

    “"Cringe" is a relatively new term, but the feeling behind it certainly isn’t. What Gen Z calls "#cringe" is the very human, timeless fear of rejection. What’s changed is the scale at which that #rejection can happen — and how permanent and #public it can feel. Being earnest means to risk #misunderstanding. […] Being #open at all means being evaluated and #judged.”

    #fear

  3. @Jaden3

    And remember.

    This is everyone's #history.

    #Black people are #oppressed when #white people act out the #oppression. Oppression isn't something that just happens to people. My forebears built some hefty #systems of oppression, but these systems still need buy-in to keep going.

    In computer systems, we use the word #privilege to describe the level of #access a user has. Whether they can #read a file. Whether they can #update a file.

    Our #government is updated by #elections. By #voters. For most of #USA history, Black people did not have update access to government. This is not Black history, this is #USHistory.

    When you research Black history, remember this is our shared history.

    These are the stories about our #nation. Many of these are like the #family stories that are told in whispers. Bad things that were done by people that we're related to.

    When people say that they don't want this taught because it will make their #children feel bad about themselves, they usually mean one of two things:

    - /they/ feel bad about this #evil themselves, and they feel the kind of #guilt that they want to hide from. They want their kids to remain #innocent about the evil in the world, especially this kind

    or

    - they /don't/ feel bad about these #evils and they do /not/ want to be #judged by their children

  4. Every migration season, the townspeople sprinkle cracked corn over the graves of those who have passed away since the last migration season. It's food for the soul geese.

    If the geese eat corn from a grave, it means they've #judged the soul worthy and will carry the soul with them when they take flight, and the family can rest easy. But if the geese shun the corn laid out--or worse, if a family fails to scatter any--then the soul must linger in the cold earth.

    #wss366 #microfiction

  5. Every migration season, the townspeople sprinkle cracked corn over the graves of those who have passed away since the last migration season. It's food for the soul geese.

    If the geese eat corn from a grave, it means they've #judged the soul worthy and will carry the soul with them when they take flight, and the family can rest easy. But if the geese shun the corn laid out--or worse, if a family fails to scatter any--then the soul must linger in the cold earth.

    #wss366 #microfiction

  6. #DailyCoworkerPhoto: #TFW I’m still making my tea in the kitchen, but my coworker is already at her desk and is glaring accusingly at me for getting such a sluggish start to work. 😫 #WorkFromHome #CatsOfMastodon #Judged

  7. #DailyCoworkerPhoto: #TFW I’m still making my tea in the kitchen, but my coworker is already at her desk and is glaring accusingly at me for getting such a sluggish start to work. 😫 #WorkFromHome #CatsOfMastodon #Judged

  8. ...continued

    Some of it is #fear. We fear being seen the way we know that less empathetic people have seen people in our presence. We fear being #judged by those people.

    Some of it is wanting to be as effective at being a human as possible. This can be driven by a need to be there for others, also a need to not be judged, and it can also be driven by the next thing I'm about to say.

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  9. #TheMetalDogArticleList
    #BLAERMOUTH.N
    CHARLIE BENANTE On Playing With PANTERA: 'I Don't Think I've Ever Been So Judged In My Life By People'
    In a new interview with Knotfest.com, ANTHRAX's Charlie Benante revealed that he sought the advice of EXODUS guitarist Gary Holt before he played his first show with the newly reconfigured PANTERA. For nearly decade,...

    blabbermouth.net/news/charlie-

    #CharlieBenante #Drummer #Pantera #MetalMusic #HeavyMetal #Musicians #RocknRoll #Performance #Judged

  10. ...continued

    Some of it is #fear. We fear being seen the way we know that less empathetic people have seen people in our presence. We fear being #judged by those people.

    Some of it is wanting to be as effective at being a human as possible. This can be driven by a need to be there for others, also a need to not be judged, and it can also be driven by the next thing I'm about to say.

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