#igotout — Public Fediverse posts

I think I'm currently in a phase of recovery where outside circumstances got better and now my brain is letting go of some more of that sweet sweet denial and struggling to find a balance of brain chemicals and hormones and the lack of acute trauma feels... boring, mundane, meaningless, sad, unimportant. As though I was suddenly unimportant. I had some hints of mania previously, sometimes more and sometimes less, and that was the medicine my own brain produced to protect me and get me through alive. Now it's missing and everything seems "bleh".

Plus, more trauma material is coming up. But that's as usual.

Plus, cycling through self doubts and thought hangups that I thought I already dealt with like "how can I live without the logical fallacies I had brainwashed into me my entire life, it seems so hard to live without black and white thinking and us versus them!" (even though I had long ago swapped out who was in which category, because I wanted to be an sjw, woke etc)

#CultRecovery #IGotOut

I think I'm currently in a phase of recovery where outside circumstances got better and now my brain is letting go of some more of that sweet sweet denial and struggling to find a balance of brain chemicals and hormones and the lack of acute trauma feels... boring, mundane, meaningless, sad, unimportant. As though I was suddenly unimportant. I had some hints of mania previously, sometimes more and sometimes less, and that was the medicine my own brain produced to protect me and get me through alive. Now it's missing and everything seems "bleh".

Plus, more trauma material is coming up. But that's as usual.

Plus, cycling through self doubts and thought hangups that I thought I already dealt with like "how can I live without the logical fallacies I had brainwashed into me my entire life, it seems so hard to live without black and white thinking and us versus them!" (even though I had long ago swapped out who was in which category, because I wanted to be an sjw, woke etc)

#CultRecovery #IGotOut

"First, it was church history. Then doctrine. Then the finances. Then the hypocrisy.” – Doc Bob

This is a spotlight on a profile shared at wasmormon.org. These are just the highlights, so please find the full story at https://wasmormon.org/profile/docbob49/. There are stories of Mormon faith journeys contributed by hundreds of users like you. Come check them out and consider sharing your own story at wasmormon.org!

#Mormon #exmormon #exmo #lds #ldschurch #church #iwasamormon #iGotOut #Mormonism #exlds

The Mormon Church exhibits traits commonly associated with cult-like behavior. The BITE™ Model of Authoritarian control is a framework to identify and analyze the ways cults and other high-control groups manipulate their members with mind control or undue influence. BITE stands for Behavior, Information, Thought, and Emotional control.

https://wasmormon.org/mormonism-and-the-cult-bite-model/

#mormon #lds #church #cult #bitemodel #exmormon #iwasamormon #igotout

Kevin W. Pearson, Holy Ghost Not Active For Doubters or Apostates

https://wasmormon.org/kevin-w-pearson-holy-ghost-not-active-for-doubters-or-apostates/

#exmormon #Mormonism #ldschurch #lds #ldsquote #iwasamormon #igotout #Mormon

After being ghosted by the Holy Ghost, Jana found the strength to detach herself from the confines of Mormonism, choosing instead to create a life where she could be true to herself and find genuine happiness.

This is a spotlight on a profile shared at wasmormon.org. Full story at https://wasmormon.org/profile/the-last-tapircorn/

#Mormon #Mormonism #ldschurch #lds #religion #exmormon #iwasamormon #igotout #mormonstory #exmo #exmormonbecause #exlds #faithcrisis #deconstruction

Have you seen the #shinyhappypeople docuseries exposing the #Duggars & the #IBLP #Gothard #cult? It is important because it exposes #conservative #evangelical #christianity in the #USA and how long plans have been in motion to basically take over all levels of government - but especially the #scotus . Here’s my B4 & after fundie, Gothardesque pic. #iGotOut

Have you seen the #shinyhappypeople docuseries exposing the #Duggars & the #IBLP #Gothard #cult? It is important because it exposes #conservative #evangelical #christianity in the #USA and how long plans have been in motion to basically take over all levels of government - but especially the #scotus . Here’s my B4 & after fundie, Gothardesque pic. #iGotOut

Have you seen the #shinyhappypeople docuseries exposing the #Duggars & the #IBLP #Gothard #cult? It is important because it exposes #conservative #evangelical #christianity in the #USA and how long plans have been in motion to basically take over all levels of government - but especially the #scotus . Here’s my B4 & after fundie, Gothardesque pic. #iGotOut

Have you seen the #shinyhappypeople docuseries exposing the #Duggars & the #IBLP #Gothard #cult? It is important because it exposes #conservative #evangelical #christianity in the #USA and how long plans have been in motion to basically take over all levels of government - but especially the #scotus . Here’s my B4 & after fundie, Gothardesque pic. #iGotOut

Have you seen the #shinyhappypeople docuseries exposing the #Duggars & the #IBLP #Gothard #cult? It is important because it exposes #conservative #evangelical #christianity in the #USA and how long plans have been in motion to basically take over all levels of government - but especially the #scotus . Here’s my B4 & after fundie, Gothardesque pic. #iGotOut

Every time a woman leaves her abuser, a unicorn gets its wings.

(Also, fucking finally. I hope someone is cooking lots of delicious, nourishing meals for her.)

#nxivm #nomorevanguards #igotout

https://frankreport.com/2023/03/27/nicki-clyne-leaves-keith-raniere-her-statement/

Every time a woman leaves her abuser, a unicorn gets its wings.

(Also, fucking finally. I hope someone is cooking lots of delicious, nourishing meals for her.)

#nxivm #nomorevanguards #igotout

https://frankreport.com/2023/03/27/nicki-clyne-leaves-keith-raniere-her-statement/

I asked an AI to write a list of common practices of cults. The list is spot on! But what's even more interesting are the sources it used for information.

Note that I didn't MENTION #JehovahsWitnesses at all.

#ItsACult
#iGotOut
#JWorg
#BestLifeEver

I asked an AI to write a list of common practices of cults. The list is spot on! But what's even more interesting are the sources it used for information.

Note that I didn't MENTION #JehovahsWitnesses at all.

#ItsACult
#iGotOut
#JWorg
#BestLifeEver

Sacred Science: Trust, Suppression, Silencing Doubts, Isolation, Influence, Reinforcement

•Establishes authority
•Establishes goodness
•Establishes the one true way, which…
•…blocks a desire to seek answers outside the system
•Suppresses the ability to ask questions or express doubts about core principles
•Suppresses ability to criticize leadership

#Cults #Cult #IGotOut #Exmo #Exvangelical #ExJW #ReligiousTrauma #HealYourTrauma #SpiritualAbuse #MindControl #CultCounterconditioning

Mind Control Technique #4:

Sacred Science (Closed System of Logic) - The ideology and leader have the one and only truth. Members should only seek answers in group teachings. Doctrinal logic is airtight. The leaders are above criticism and those who question or criticize are immoral.

#Cults #Cult #IGotOut #Exmo #Exvangelical #ExJW #ReligiousTrauma #HealYourTrauma #SpiritualAbuse #AbuseCulture #MindControl #CultCounterconditioning

Deception: Suppression, Trust, Silence Doubts

•Hides negative effects
•Hides challenging "doctrines" which are actually just tighter control methods
•Hides negative history
•Hides atrocities committed by leader & members
•Obfuscates control; makes the member feel in control of her own choices
•Builds trust by not causing reasons for mistrust

#Cults #Cult #IGotOut #Exmo #Exvangelical #ExJW #ReligiousTrauma #HealYourTrauma #SpiritualAbuse #AbuseCulture #MindControl #CultCounterconditioning

Mind Control Technique #3:

Deception - Lies, omissions, and "front" activities cover up flaws or unusual aspects of the group, doctrine, leadership, and history. Some truths will be revealed later when a member is "ready." Many persuasion techniques are only unethical if they're also deceptive.

#Cults #Cult #IGotOut #Exmo #Exvangelical #ExJW #ReligiousTrauma #HealYourTrauma #SpiritualAbuse #AbuseCulture #MindControl #CultCounterconditioning

#igotout Collaborator Fundraiser - I really believe we need to destigmatize the notion that folks who are involved with authoritarian cults are somehow weak or gullible AND we wish to show we former cult members are thrivers!

https://www.gofundme.com/f/igotout-collaborator-fundraiser?utm_campaign=m_pd+share-sheet&utm_content=undefined&utm_medium=social&utm_source=twitter&utm_term=undefined

@JaniceSelbie So true!

This is why PIMI #JehovahsWitnesses remain loyal to the organisation despite the ever-changing doctrine. Devotion to the organisation has superseded devotion to their actual beliefs.

#ExJW
#JWorg
#ItsACult
#iGotOut

@JaniceSelbie So true!

This is why PIMI #JehovahsWitnesses remain loyal to the organisation despite the ever-changing doctrine. Devotion to the organisation has superseded devotion to their actual beliefs.

#ExJW
#JWorg
#ItsACult
#iGotOut

Destabilization: Suppression, Trust, Isolation, Perpetuation

•Establishes influence through emotion
•Suppresses the self, lowers defenses
•A reward is offered—"We will restabilize you"
•Builds trust
•Fills an ongoing need
•Isolates or targets those who are already isolated
•Creates dependency
•Preys on children
•Puts adults in a regressed, childlike mindset

#Cults #Cult #IGotOut #Exmo #Exvangelical #ExJW #ReligiousTrauma #SpiritualAbuse #AbuseCulture #MindControl #CultCounterconditioning

Mind Control Technique #2:

Destabilizing the Self - Barriers are torn down that would otherwise prevent acceptance of new beliefs. Includes those who have already been destabilized by life situations and the indoctrination of children, who have not yet formed a sense of self.

#Cults #Cult #IGotOut #Exmo #Exvangelical #ExJW #ReligiousTrauma #SpiritualAbuse #AbuseCulture #MindControl #HealYourTrauma #CultCounterconditioning

Love Bombing: Reward, Trust, Group Identification, Perpetuation

•Attracts new members
•Builds trust
•Lowers defenses
•Makes the group seem morally good
•Overcomes resistances to strange ideas, steep learning curve, and doubts
•Establishes that member must seek approval from the group
•Establishes a reward: positive social feedback
•Pulls people back into the fold when they stray

#Cults #Cult #IGotOut #Exmo #Exvangelical #ExJW #ReligiousTrauma #SpiritualAbuse #AbuseCulture #MindControl

Mind Control Technique #1:

Love Bombing - Insincere friendliness, flattery, praise, and affection are used to entice participation and attendance for potential recruits, and to retain members who may be showing less enthusiasm or are thinking of leaving.

#Cults #Cult #IGotOut #Exmo #Exvangelical #ExJW #ReligiousTrauma #SpiritualAbuse #AbuseCulture #MindControl

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Cult News 101 is a blog and daily email newsletter which aggregates news about cults, totalism, authoritarianism, and related topics. It is run by two established cult researches who themselves are former cult members.

https://www.cultnews101.com/

#Cults #Cult #IGotOut #Exmo #Exvangelical #ExJW #ReligiousTrauma #SpiritualAbuse

Written resources are also available for cult survivors, or anyone suffering from Religious Trauma, though some may be limited to ICSA members only (and anyone can join!)

https://www.icsahome.com/memberelibrary

#cults #ICSA #IGotOut #Exmo #ExJW #Exvangelical #ReligiousTrauma #SpiritualAbuse

There's a whole wealth of post-cult recovery videos and other information about cults at https://www.icsahome.com/memberelibrary/recordings

#ICSA #IGotOut #Exmo #ExJW #exvangelical #ReligiousTrauma #SpiritualAbuse #Cult #EducationalVideos

Free Indeed | Excommunication From A Cult (Documentary 2022) Lance Christie shares his experience about the Exclusive Brethren #igotout https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Fdz59Txl6kI

Free Indeed | Excommunication From A Cult (Documentary 2022) Lance Christie shares his experience about the Exclusive Brethren #igotout youtu.be/Fdz59Txl6kI via @YouTube

Free Indeed | Excommunication From A Cult (Documentary 2022) Lance Christie shares his experience about the Exclusive Brethren #igotout youtu.be/Fdz59Txl6kI via @YouTube

I Agreed To An Arranged Marriage With A Stranger. It Turned My Life Upside Down. | HuffPost HuffPost Personal #igotout of the Moon cult too. I was too young to be in mass wedding. I was deprogrammed just before my 22nd birthday

https://www.huffpost.com/entry/arranged-marriage-blessing-moonies-unification-church_n_63629bcce4b0ae77bc20853f

My former cult #igotout of in 1976 is thankfully being exposed in Japan. https://www.japantimes.co.jp/news/2022/11/22/national/unification-church-management-adoptions/

Howdy neighbours, I'm new around these parts 😂

By way of introduction, my name is Riley and I used to be one of #JehovahsWitnesses.

I "toot" about #Cults, #CultRecovery, #Religion #Atheism, #CriticalThinking, and everything in between.

The video below tells my whole story of growing up in a high control religion and then leaving.

#ExJW
#ExChristian
#Exvangelical
#ExFundie
#CultSurvivor
#iGotOut

https://youtu.be/AB7FHqnvyb0

Howdy neighbours, I'm new around these parts 😂

By way of introduction, my name is Riley and I used to be one of #JehovahsWitnesses.

I "toot" about #Cults, #CultRecovery, #Religion #Atheism, #CriticalThinking, and everything in between.

The video below tells my whole story of growing up in a high control religion and then leaving.

#ExJW
#ExChristian
#Exvangelical
#ExFundie
#CultSurvivor
#iGotOut

https://youtu.be/AB7FHqnvyb0