https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6DZ6l_EHFvU
I'm surprised that people haven't heard of splitting their romantic and sexual categories...
X-sexual vs X-romantic.
Someone might be #Bisexual and #Homoromantic. As in, they feel sexual attraction bi-wise but only feel romantic about their same sex.
People can be X-romantic in pretty much all the same directions as sexuality. These are separate feelings for a lot of people.