#genderquestioning — Public Fediverse posts

#collages #themed #guiltypleasures #guiltypleasure #pleasure #food #foodies #foodie #foodporn #lgbt #lgbtqia #pansexual #genderquestioning #thirdsex

Treats, not tricks...

There is no trickery in these fatty foods, lol. Whatcha see sure is whatya get, I.e. clogged arteries, heart attack, or stroke 😆

Bahahaha!

#ADNotam #expressions #amateurselfies #lgbt #lgbtqia #genderquestioning

Sometimes our mistakes are kinda cute ☺️

Coming to grips with being nonbinary is difficult and it's a process that rarely has a clear end point.

But a deeper knowledge and acceptance of yourself will help you build a better life.

And when your life does get better, then you will have earned it.

#NonBinaryPositivity #NonBinaryPride #NonBinary #genderquestioning

Bigots will say that you are simultaneously too young and too old to learn that your are nonbinary.

But really you are always the perfect age to realize that you are nonbinary.

All ages are perfect for this profound journey of self discovery.

#NonBinaryPositivity #NonBinaryPride #GenderQuestioning #ageism

Nonbinary people will be pressured to be logical when understanding their own gender or lack of it. Much of the time you can do this, but sometimes logic may fail to help you.

That's ok. There is much in this world that strains at the seams of logic, but there can still be truth beyond it.

#NonBinaryPositivity #GenderQuestioning

Sorry, not a kinky stuff

PSA: if you ever used Feeld dating app, you need to know that all your data was available for virtually anyone for *very long time*.

This includes messages, photos, one-time messages, dating profile, likes and etc. But not just that, it was possible to impersonate you and send messages to anyone

This issue was found two times by two independent parties so most likely malicious/state actors knew about this. If someone manages to scrape this data, it might pop up somewhere for sale.

Worst part is that Feeld is silent about this.

Please, be safe and prepared as this data can be used for sextortion or worse.

It would help a lot if you’ll share this with people who might’ve been using Feeld. I’m posting about this because Feeld is popular in some places among the LGBTQA+.

https://fortbridge.co.uk/research/feeld-dating-app-nudes-data-publicly-available/

https://mjg59.dreamwidth.org/70061.html

#lesbian #gay #bisexual #pansexual #trans #queer #intersex #asexual #genderqueer #agender #genderquestioning #graysexual

Sorry, not a kinky stuff

PSA: if you ever used Feeld dating app, you need to know that all your data was available for virtually anyone for *very long time*.

This includes messages, photos, one-time messages, dating profile, likes and etc. But not just that, it was possible to impersonate you and send messages to anyone

This issue was found two times by two independent parties so most likely malicious/state actors knew about this. If someone manages to scrape this data, it might pop up somewhere for sale.

Worst part is that Feeld is silent about this.

Please, be safe and prepared as this data can be used for sextortion or worse.

It would help a lot if you’ll share this with people who might’ve been using Feeld. I’m posting about this because Feeld is popular in some places among the LGBTQA+.

https://fortbridge.co.uk/research/feeld-dating-app-nudes-data-publicly-available/

https://mjg59.dreamwidth.org/70061.html

#lesbian #gay #bisexual #pansexual #trans #queer #intersex #asexual #genderqueer #agender #genderquestioning #graysexual

Sorry, not a kinky stuff

PSA: if you ever used Feeld dating app, you need to know that all your data was available for virtually anyone for *very long time*.

This includes messages, photos, one-time messages, dating profile, likes and etc. But not just that, it was possible to impersonate you and send messages to anyone

This issue was found two times by two independent parties so most likely malicious/state actors knew about this. If someone manages to scrape this data, it might pop up somewhere for sale.

Worst part is that Feeld is silent about this.

Please, be safe and prepared as this data can be used for sextortion or worse.

It would help a lot if you’ll share this with people who might’ve been using Feeld. I’m posting about this because Feeld is popular in some places among the LGBTQA+.

https://fortbridge.co.uk/research/feeld-dating-app-nudes-data-publicly-available/

https://mjg59.dreamwidth.org/70061.html

#lesbian #gay #bisexual #pansexual #trans #queer #intersex #asexual #genderqueer #agender #genderquestioning #graysexual

Sorry, not a kinky stuff

PSA: if you ever used Feeld dating app, you need to know that all your data was available for virtually anyone for *very long time*.

This includes messages, photos, one-time messages, dating profile, likes and etc. But not just that, it was possible to impersonate you and send messages to anyone

This issue was found two times by two independent parties so most likely malicious/state actors knew about this. If someone manages to scrape this data, it might pop up somewhere for sale.

Worst part is that Feeld is silent about this.

Please, be safe and prepared as this data can be used for sextortion or worse.

It would help a lot if you’ll share this with people who might’ve been using Feeld. I’m posting about this because Feeld is popular in some places among the LGBTQA+.

https://fortbridge.co.uk/research/feeld-dating-app-nudes-data-publicly-available/

https://mjg59.dreamwidth.org/70061.html

#lesbian #gay #bisexual #pansexual #trans #queer #intersex #asexual #genderqueer #agender #genderquestioning #graysexual

You don't need to have somehow "known" that you were nonbinary as a child if that's not how things went for you.

There are many ways to learn about yourself, and all of them are legitimate.

Some flowers bloom in the spring, others in the summer, and some can even push up through the snow.

You have (and will) change and learn in your own time, which is always going to be the right time.

#nonbinarypositivity #nonbinarypride #nonbinary #questioning #genderquestioning

Don't be afraid to claim the nonbinary label just because you might need to change that later on.

You are not "invading" anyone's space. You won't hurt nonbinary people by changing that label as you need. I believe that this nonbinary community is welcoming and kind before all else, especially to people questioning.

We've all been (or currently are) where you are now. Do what you need to do. We understand.

#nonbinarypositivity #nonbinarypride #nonbinary #genderquestioning

It's possible for the joy in finding a good label to come later. Taking the label "nonbinary" may simply be less agonizing than wearing the false one you used before.

It's often scary, saddening, and lonely to learn that you're fundamentally different in a way that you can't change, and there are no shortcuts through this pain.

While the label might feel like a burden you didn't ask to carry right now, it'll be a shield you wear with pride in the future.

#nonbinarypositivity #nonbinarypride #nonbinary #genderquestioning

For every question that amounts to "can I be nonbinary if-", there will be conflicting answers. The word "nonbinary" is flexible, rigid, general, and specific depending on who uses it and why.

But the most important factor is if you find joy in identifying as nonbinary. If the label makes you happy and feels right, then that's all you need.

Details can come later, if ever.

#nonbinarypositivity #nonbinarypride #nonbinary #genderquestioning

The catalyst for your nonbinary journey is important no matter who or what it might've been.

It might seem silly, "problematic," or strange to everyone but you. Nevertheless, that person, character, song, place, or whatever else led you to your true self.

Inspiration usually arrives as a surprise.

#nonbinarypositivity #nonbinarypride #nonbinary #genderquestioning

It's okay to change your labels even after years of identifying a certain way.

You could be new to the idea of being nonbinary. You might have understood yourself as nonbinary for decades, but realized that the specifics are different now.

Change is normal and difficult, too. It'll be alright.

#nonbinarypositivity #nonbinarypride #nonbinary #genderquestioning #labels

With all the pressure we are under to conform to the gender binary, it’s easy to wonder if we are right about being nonbinary. But you didn’t start down this path for no reason.

You questioned your gender because you felt you must. You chose “nonbinary” as a label because you thought it worked where other labels failed you. And if it turns out that “nonbinary” isn’t for you, you can always turn around on this path and go back.

There’s no need to worry.

#nonbinarypositivity #nonbinarypride #nonbinary #genderquestioning

Remember when you didn’t question if you were cis because it seemed like there were no other options?

You’ve come a long way. It’s as if you were told that the universe is only what you could see with the naked eye, and you built a telescope. You might be confused, afraid, and lost right now, but remember how far you’ve come.

Whether you’ve been out as not cis for years or you have just started asking yourself those hard questions, always remember that you have gone further than anyone could have expected.

#nonbinarypositivity #genderqueerpositivity #transpositivity #genderquestioning

Remember when you didn’t question if you were cis because it seemed like there were no other options?

You’ve come a long way. It’s as if you were told that the universe is only what you could see with the naked eye, and you built a telescope. You might be confused, afraid, and lost right now, but remember how far you’ve come.

Whether you’ve been out as not cis for years or you have just started asking yourself those hard questions, always remember that you have gone further than anyone could have expected.

#nonbinarypositivity #genderqueerpositivity #transpositivity #genderquestioning

Remember when you didn’t question if you were cis because it seemed like there were no other options?

You’ve come a long way. It’s as if you were told that the universe is only what you could see with the naked eye, and you built a telescope. You might be confused, afraid, and lost right now, but remember how far you’ve come.

Whether you’ve been out as not cis for years or you have just started asking yourself those hard questions, always remember that you have gone further than anyone could have expected.

#nonbinarypositivity #genderqueerpositivity #transpositivity #genderquestioning

Remember when you didn’t question if you were cis because it seemed like there were no other options?

You’ve come a long way. It’s as if you were told that the universe is only what you could see with the naked eye, and you built a telescope. You might be confused, afraid, and lost right now, but remember how far you’ve come.

Whether you’ve been out as not cis for years or you have just started asking yourself those hard questions, always remember that you have gone further than anyone could have expected.

#nonbinarypositivity #genderqueerpositivity #transpositivity #genderquestioning

Remember when you didn’t question if you were cis because it seemed like there were no other options?

You’ve come a long way. It’s as if you were told that the universe is only what you could see with the naked eye, and you built a telescope. You might be confused, afraid, and lost right now, but remember how far you’ve come.

Whether you’ve been out as not cis for years or you have just started asking yourself those hard questions, always remember that you have gone further than anyone could have expected.

#nonbinarypositivity #genderqueerpositivity #transpositivity #genderquestioning

#UK’s first #trans and #nonbinary #domesticviolence #refuge #opens.

The #LovingMe #project aims to provide #emergency #temporary #accommodation for #victims who identify as #trans, #nonbinary, or are #genderquestioning.

#Women #Transgender #LGBTQ #LGBTQIA #UK #LancashireCounty #Homelessness #HousingInsecurity #Representation #Culture

https://www.thepinknews.com/2024/02/22/domestic-violence-refuge-trans-uk/

@jcf
Survey: https://consult.education.gov.uk/equalities-political-impartiality-anti-bullying-team/gender-questioning-children-proposed-guidance/consultation/

Consultation info: https://consult.education.gov.uk/equalities-political-impartiality-anti-bullying-team/gender-questioning-children-proposed-guidance/supporting_documents/Guidance_for_schools_and_colleges_gender_questioning_children_consultation_document%20.pdf

Guidance: https://consult.education.gov.uk/equalities-political-impartiality-anti-bullying-team/gender-questioning-children-proposed-guidance/supporting_documents/Gender%20Questioning%20Children%20%20nonstatutory%20guidance.pdf

Linked in that order on the page linked to by the #UKgov site: https://consult.education.gov.uk/equalities-political-impartiality-anti-bullying-team/gender-questioning-children-proposed-guidance/

#GenderQuestioning #TransRights #UKpol

This past weekend, a group of women invited me to the MET to see the "Women Dressing Women" fashion exhibit.

15 years ago I would have assumed this invitation was a backhanded insult. I've had a very strained relationship with women & femininity throughout my life. I am grateful to have reached a place both where I can trust the amazing women who have recently entered my life, and also explore parts of femininity in a way that feels comfortable for me. 💕

#lgbt #lgbtq #women #fashion #fashiondesign #femme #highfemme #genderquestioning #genderissues #gender #agender #queer #autigender

Don't be afraid to be nonbinary. The peace you can get from self knowledge is worth making it through the fear.

You can be brave enough to be you.

#nonbinarypositivity #nonbinarypride #genderquestioning #nonbinary

There will be times when you wonder if you are really nonbinary. You could misgender yourself, have a dream where you were your agab, respond to your birth name, or the wrong pronouns. Any number of events could spur this self doubt.That’s ok.

Does slipping back into a bad habit on occasion mean you can never break it? Absolutely not. You screwed up, but who doesn’t? Old habits die hard, but they can definitely die.

#nonbinarypositivity #agab #genderquestioning

There will be times when you wonder if you are really nonbinary. You could misgender yourself, have a dream where you were your agab, respond to your birth name, or the wrong pronouns. Any number of events could spur this self doubt.That’s ok.

Does slipping back into a bad habit on occasion mean you can never break it? Absolutely not. You screwed up, but who doesn’t? Old habits die hard, but they can definitely die.

#nonbinarypositivity #agab #genderquestioning

There will be times when you wonder if you are really nonbinary. You could misgender yourself, have a dream where you were your agab, respond to your birth name, or the wrong pronouns. Any number of events could spur this self doubt.That’s ok.

Does slipping back into a bad habit on occasion mean you can never break it? Absolutely not. You screwed up, but who doesn’t? Old habits die hard, but they can definitely die.

#nonbinarypositivity #agab #genderquestioning

There will be times when you wonder if you are really nonbinary. You could misgender yourself, have a dream where you were your agab, respond to your birth name, or the wrong pronouns. Any number of events could spur this self doubt.That’s ok.

Does slipping back into a bad habit on occasion mean you can never break it? Absolutely not. You screwed up, but who doesn’t? Old habits die hard, but they can definitely die.

#nonbinarypositivity #agab #genderquestioning

There will be times when you wonder if you are really nonbinary. You could misgender yourself, have a dream where you were your agab, respond to your birth name, or the wrong pronouns. Any number of events could spur this self doubt.That’s ok.

Does slipping back into a bad habit on occasion mean you can never break it? Absolutely not. You screwed up, but who doesn’t? Old habits die hard, but they can definitely die.

#nonbinarypositivity #agab #genderquestioning

Just when you think that you have your gender situation figured out, you might've discovered something that turned it all on it's head.

But you'll be alright. You made it through gender questioning before.

Existence is change.

#nonbinarypositivity #transpositivity #genderqueerpositivity #genderquestioning

Just when you think that you have your gender situation figured out, you might've discovered something that turned it all on it's head.

But you'll be alright. You made it through gender questioning before.

Existence is change.

#nonbinarypositivity #transpositivity #genderqueerpositivity #genderquestioning

Just when you think that you have your gender situation figured out, you might've discovered something that turned it all on it's head.

But you'll be alright. You made it through gender questioning before.

Existence is change.

#nonbinarypositivity #transpositivity #genderqueerpositivity #genderquestioning

Just when you think that you have your gender situation figured out, you might've discovered something that turned it all on it's head.

But you'll be alright. You made it through gender questioning before.

Existence is change.

#nonbinarypositivity #transpositivity #genderqueerpositivity #genderquestioning

Just when you think that you have your gender situation figured out, you might've discovered something that turned it all on it's head.

But you'll be alright. You made it through gender questioning before.

Existence is change.

#nonbinarypositivity #transpositivity #genderqueerpositivity #genderquestioning

It took time and tremendous work to realize that you are nonbinary.

You know better than anyone the path that lead you here, and your reasons for traversing it.

So, don't let others analyze your gender for you. Don't let others "explain" your motivations and process of self discovery.

You will always know yourself best in this. You are the one living your life, after all.

#nonbinarypositivity #nonbinarypride #genderquestioning #nonbinary ..

I'm very tired of being Learning Material for men on their self-improvement journeys, but I also have no idea how to ✨stop doing it✨

#actuallyautistic #autisticadult #socialanxiety #thingstodiscussintherapy #therapy #genderquestioning #genderdysphoria #AuDHD #agender #bisexual #mpdg

I'm very tired of being Learning Material for men on their self-improvement journeys, but I also have no idea how to ✨stop doing it✨

#actuallyautistic #autisticadult #socialanxiety #thingstodiscussintherapy #therapy #genderquestioning #genderdysphoria #AuDHD #agender #bisexual #mpdg

I'm very tired of being Learning Material for men on their self-improvement journeys, but I also have no idea how to ✨stop doing it✨

#actuallyautistic #autisticadult #socialanxiety #thingstodiscussintherapy #therapy #genderquestioning #genderdysphoria #AuDHD #agender #bisexual #mpdg

I'm very tired of being Learning Material for men on their self-improvement journeys, but I also have no idea how to ✨stop doing it✨

#actuallyautistic #autisticadult #socialanxiety #thingstodiscussintherapy #therapy #genderquestioning #genderdysphoria #AuDHD #agender #bisexual #mpdg

It takes time and personal growth to learn more about yourself. Exploring gender, and coming to accept being nonbinary, is part of that process for some of us.

So, being nonbinary isn't something you grow out of.

It's something you grow into.

#nonbinary #nonbinarypositivity #nonbinaypride #genderquestioning ..

How you came to know that you’re nonbinary is your business, and you don’t have to explain it if you don’t want to.

What matters is that you are here now with a better understanding of yourself.

#nonbinary #nonbinarypositivity #genderquestioning ..

Being nonbinary doesn't have to complicated.

You're not required to have a precise label, certain style, or to have figured it out at a specific time. You don't have to wait to use the label "nonbinary," and you don't have to keep it forever.

These are rules created by cishets and repeated by those who want their approval. All those and similar rules are best forgotten.

If you feel like "nonbinary" fits you, then you are correct to use it.

#genderquestioning #nonbinary #lgbtq #nonbinarypositivity

Even though you may have started questioning  your gender after a friend of yours came out, it's still likely that you would have had to deal with being nonbinary anyway.

The difference is that you embraced a possibility presented to you rather than being left to suffer in ignorance for years on your own.

Learning from each other is an important part of being human, and it's very natural that this tendency would apply to gender questioning, too.

#nonbinary #nonbinarypositivity #lgbtq #genderquestioning

Trying to live as a cis person when you are actually nonbinary is unlikely to make you happier.

I know it's difficult and terrifying to question your gender and to accept the possibility of experiencing (more) oppression.

However, embracing who you are now is more important than the theoretical possibility of happiness if you pretend to be someone else.

Life is full of risk. Taking risks for the right reasons is what matters.

#nonbinarypositivity #genderquestioning #nonbinary

Coming out is not necessarily the only conclusion of questioning your gender.

There are many things we do simply for our own betterment.

Questioning your gender is among them, even if no one ever knows it.

#nonbinarypride #nonbinary #lgbtq #genderquestioning ..