#fawning — Public Fediverse posts
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""While not all fawners find themselves dating sociopaths, my experience illustrates the self-abandonment that happens so seamlessly in this trauma response. it shows the power I believed I held in moments when I was actually in danger. For so long in my life, my desire to help people who were hurting me seemed like my only defense.
Like many fawners, I couldn't act upon red flags because they were on-ramps to my helpfulness, which was essentially my currency. In the lens and language of trauma, my safety." (123)
Fawning, by Ingrid Clayton
I literally have hundreds of quotes copied down from this book. I could use an app that is just popping random quotes from this book at me every day to process and try to internalize.
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""While not all fawners find themselves dating sociopaths, my experience illustrates the self-abandonment that happens so seamlessly in this trauma response. it shows the power I believed I held in moments when I was actually in danger. For so long in my life, my desire to help people who were hurting me seemed like my only defense.
Like many fawners, I couldn't act upon red flags because they were on-ramps to my helpfulness, which was essentially my currency. In the lens and language of trauma, my safety." (123)
Fawning, by Ingrid Clayton
I literally have hundreds of quotes copied down from this book. I could use an app that is just popping random quotes from this book at me every day to process and try to internalize.
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RE: https://mastodon.online/@streetartutopia/116515291379924975
Nationalize Amazon, SpaceX, and Star Link. Tax billionaires out of existence.
#UBI #universal #basic #income #housing #crisis #ban #investment #bank #SingleFamily #home #ownership #progressive #taxation #USA #late #stage #capitalism #fascist #policies #oligarchy #MET #gala #garish #millionaire #RedCarpet #fawning #conservative #press #glorify #wealth #hoarding -
RE: https://mastodon.online/@streetartutopia/116515291379924975
Nationalize Amazon, SpaceX, and Star Link. Tax billionaires out of existence.
#UBI #universal #basic #income #housing #crisis #ban #investment #bank #SingleFamily #home #ownership #progressive #taxation #USA #late #stage #capitalism #fascist #policies #oligarchy #MET #gala #garish #millionaire #RedCarpet #fawning #conserivative #press #glorify #wealth #hording -
RE: https://mastodon.online/@streetartutopia/116515291379924975
Nationalize Amazon, SpaceX, and Star Link. Tax billionaires out of existence.
#UBI #universal #basic #income #housing #crisis #ban #investment #bank #SingleFamily #home #ownership #progressive #taxation #USA #late #stage #capitalism #fascist #policies #oligarchy #MET #gala #garish #millionaire #RedCarpet #fawning #conservative #press #glorify #wealth #hoarding -
RE: https://mastodon.online/@streetartutopia/116515291379924975
Nationalize Amazon, SpaceX, and Star Link. Tax billionaires out of existence.
#UBI #universal #basic #income #housing #crisis #ban #investment #bank #SingleFamily #home #ownership #progressive #taxation #USA #late #stage #capitalism #fascist #policies #oligarchy #MET #gala #garish #millionaire #RedCarpet #fawning #conservative #press #glorify #wealth #hoarding -
RE: https://mastodon.online/@streetartutopia/116515291379924975
Nationalize Amazon, SpaceX, and Star Link. Tax billionaires out of existence.
#UBI #universal #basic #income #housing #crisis #ban #investment #bank #SingleFamily #home #ownership #progressive #taxation #USA #late #stage #capitalism #fascist #policies #oligarchy #MET #gala #garish #millionaire #RedCarpet #fawning #conservative #press #glorify #wealth #hoarding -
Dere DLF geht wieder ab: #Hexenverfolgung #Kampfroboter #Fawning
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Dere DLF geht wieder ab: #Hexenverfolgung #Kampfroboter #Fawning
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Power multiplies flatterers, and flatterers multiply our delusions by hiding us from ourselves.
Charles Caleb "C. C." Colton (1780-1832) English cleric, writer, aphorist
Lacon: Or, Many Things in Few Words, Vol. 2, § 25 (1822)More about this quote: wist.info/colton-charles-caleb…
#quote #quotes #quotation #qotd #cccolton #asskissing #bootlicker #brownnose #coterie #deception #delusion #fawning #flatterers #flattery #lickspittle #power #selfabsorption #selfapproval #selfawareness #selfconfidence #selfdelusion #selfesteem #selfglorification #selfknowledge #selfregard #sycophant #toady #toadying #yesman
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Power multiplies flatterers, and flatterers multiply our delusions by hiding us from ourselves.
Charles Caleb "C. C." Colton (1780-1832) English cleric, writer, aphorist
Lacon: Or, Many Things in Few Words, Vol. 2, § 25 (1822)More about this quote: wist.info/colton-charles-caleb…
#quote #quotes #quotation #qotd #cccolton #asskissing #bootlicker #brownnose #coterie #deception #delusion #fawning #flatterers #flattery #lickspittle #power #selfabsorption #selfapproval #selfawareness #selfconfidence #selfdelusion #selfesteem #selfglorification #selfknowledge #selfregard #sycophant #toady #toadying #yesman
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Power multiplies flatterers, and flatterers multiply our delusions by hiding us from ourselves.
Charles Caleb "C. C." Colton (1780-1832) English cleric, writer, aphorist
Lacon: Or, Many Things in Few Words, Vol. 2, § 25 (1822)More about this quote: wist.info/colton-charles-caleb…
#quote #quotes #quotation #qotd #cccolton #asskissing #bootlicker #brownnose #coterie #deception #delusion #fawning #flatterers #flattery #lickspittle #power #selfabsorption #selfapproval #selfawareness #selfconfidence #selfdelusion #selfesteem #selfglorification #selfknowledge #selfregard #sycophant #toady #toadying #yesman
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Power multiplies flatterers, and flatterers multiply our delusions by hiding us from ourselves.
Charles Caleb "C. C." Colton (1780-1832) English cleric, writer, aphorist
Lacon: Or, Many Things in Few Words, Vol. 2, § 25 (1822)More about this quote: wist.info/colton-charles-caleb…
#quote #quotes #quotation #qotd #cccolton #asskissing #bootlicker #brownnose #coterie #deception #delusion #fawning #flatterers #flattery #lickspittle #power #selfabsorption #selfapproval #selfawareness #selfconfidence #selfdelusion #selfesteem #selfglorification #selfknowledge #selfregard #sycophant #toady #toadying #yesman
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A quotation from Josh Billings
Flattery iz like colone water, tew be smelt ov, not swallered.
[Flattery is like cologne water, to be smelt of, not swallowed.]Josh Billings (1818-1885) American humorist, aphorist [pseud. of Henry Wheeler Shaw]
Josh Billings’ Farmer’s Allminax, 1870-02 (1870 ed.)More about this quote: wist.info/billings-josh/1045/
#quote #quotes #quotation #qotd #joshbillings #adulation #butteringup #fawning #flattery #obsequiousness #praise #servility #skepticism #sweettalk #sycophancy
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A quotation from Josh Billings
Flattery iz like colone water, tew be smelt ov, not swallered.
[Flattery is like cologne water, to be smelt of, not swallowed.]Josh Billings (1818-1885) American humorist, aphorist [pseud. of Henry Wheeler Shaw]
Josh Billings’ Farmer’s Allminax, 1870-02 (1870 ed.)More about this quote: wist.info/billings-josh/1045/
#quote #quotes #quotation #qotd #joshbillings #adulation #butteringup #fawning #flattery #obsequiousness #praise #servility #skepticism #sweettalk #sycophancy
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A quotation from Josh Billings
Flattery iz like colone water, tew be smelt ov, not swallered.
[Flattery is like cologne water, to be smelt of, not swallowed.]Josh Billings (1818-1885) American humorist, aphorist [pseud. of Henry Wheeler Shaw]
Josh Billings’ Farmer’s Allminax, 1870-02 (1870 ed.)More about this quote: wist.info/billings-josh/1045/
#quote #quotes #quotation #qotd #joshbillings #adulation #butteringup #fawning #flattery #obsequiousness #praise #servility #skepticism #sweettalk #sycophancy
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A quotation from Josh Billings
Flattery iz like colone water, tew be smelt ov, not swallered.
[Flattery is like cologne water, to be smelt of, not swallowed.]Josh Billings (1818-1885) American humorist, aphorist [pseud. of Henry Wheeler Shaw]
Josh Billings’ Farmer’s Allminax, 1870-02 (1870 ed.)More about this quote: wist.info/billings-josh/1045/
#quote #quotes #quotation #qotd #joshbillings #adulation #butteringup #fawning #flattery #obsequiousness #praise #servility #skepticism #sweettalk #sycophancy
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time for coffee... ☕ 🏴 ☮️ :yes_scotland:
anyone surprised by the amount of #fawning going on? ...
#agentorange...
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time for coffee... ☕ 🏴 ☮️ :yes_scotland:
anyone surprised by the amount of #fawning going on? ...
#agentorange...
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time for coffee... ☕ 🏴 ☮️ :yes_scotland:
anyone surprised by the amount of #fawning going on? ...
#agentorange...
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time for coffee... ☕ 🏴 ☮️ :yes_scotland:
anyone surprised by the amount of #fawning going on? ...
#agentorange...
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time for coffee... ☕ 🏴 ☮️ :yes_scotland:
anyone surprised by the amount of #fawning going on? ...
#agentorange...
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https://www.europesays.com/uk/406772/ ‘Fawning’ Is A Common Anxious Work Habit Many Of Us Do. Here’s How To Break Out Of It. #ConstantlyWorrying #fawning #Health #Josephson #LaurenAppio #MegJosephson #MentalHealth #UK #UnitedKingdom
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"It is important to note that you cannot process trauma if you are still in an unsafe, traumatic environment. You need to establish physical safety to be able to work through the emotional impact. Once you are safe, you can start healing by seeking professional support, practicing self-compassion, and prioritizing your well-being."
https://www.choosingtherapy.com/fawning/#fawning #trauma #healing #recovery #personalSafety #safety #selfCare #emotions #peace
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"It is important to note that you cannot process trauma if you are still in an unsafe, traumatic environment. You need to establish physical safety to be able to work through the emotional impact. Once you are safe, you can start healing by seeking professional support, practicing self-compassion, and prioritizing your well-being."
https://www.choosingtherapy.com/fawning/#fawning #trauma #healing #recovery #personalSafety #safety #selfCare #emotions #peace
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"It is important to note that you cannot process trauma if you are still in an unsafe, traumatic environment. You need to establish physical safety to be able to work through the emotional impact. Once you are safe, you can start healing by seeking professional support, practicing self-compassion, and prioritizing your well-being."
https://www.choosingtherapy.com/fawning/#fawning #trauma #healing #recovery #personalSafety #safety #selfCare #emotions #peace
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"It is important to note that you cannot process trauma if you are still in an unsafe, traumatic environment. You need to establish physical safety to be able to work through the emotional impact. Once you are safe, you can start healing by seeking professional support, practicing self-compassion, and prioritizing your well-being."
https://www.choosingtherapy.com/fawning/#fawning #trauma #healing #recovery #personalSafety #safety #selfCare #emotions #peace
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"It is important to note that you cannot process trauma if you are still in an unsafe, traumatic environment. You need to establish physical safety to be able to work through the emotional impact. Once you are safe, you can start healing by seeking professional support, practicing self-compassion, and prioritizing your well-being."
https://www.choosingtherapy.com/fawning/#fawning #trauma #healing #recovery #personalSafety #safety #selfCare #emotions #peace
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Thank you @silverhuang for the link! I am looking it up!
@oisin
Unfortunately "fawning" is a thing and is not much handled (maybe because nobody is proud).What is a bit known is “please and appease”, but it would assume some agency.
#Fawning is an offer of submission triggered by the recall of a past trauma.
To attempt safety, you detach from yourself and emotionally connect to your agressor.If you've ever apologized to someone who has hurt you, you might have fawned.
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Thank you @silverhuang for the link! I am looking it up!
@oisin
Unfortunately "fawning" is a thing and is not much handled (maybe because nobody is proud).What is a bit known is “please and appease”, but it would assume some agency.
#Fawning is an offer of submission triggered by the recall of a past trauma.
To attempt safety, you detach from yourself and emotionally connect to your agressor.If you've ever apologized to someone who has hurt you, you might have fawned.
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Thank you @silverhuang for the link! I am looking it up!
@oisin
Unfortunately "fawning" is a thing and is not much handled (maybe because nobody is proud).What is a bit known is “please and appease”, but it would assume some agency.
#Fawning is an offer of submission triggered by the recall of a past trauma.
To attempt safety, you detach from yourself and emotionally connect to your agressor.If you've ever apologized to someone who has hurt you, you might have fawned.
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Thank you @silverhuang for the link! I am looking it up!
@oisin
Unfortunately "fawning" is a thing and is not much handled (maybe because nobody is proud).What is a bit known is “please and appease”, but it would assume some agency.
#Fawning is an offer of submission triggered by the recall of a past trauma.
To attempt safety, you detach from yourself and emotionally connect to your agressor.If you've ever apologized to someone who has hurt you, you might have fawned.
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Thank you @silverhuang for the link! I am looking it up!
@oisin
Unfortunately "fawning" is a thing and is not much handled (maybe because nobody is proud).What is a bit known is “please and appease”, but it would assume some agency.
#Fawning is an offer of submission triggered by the recall of a past trauma.
To attempt safety, you detach from yourself and emotionally connect to your agressor.If you've ever apologized to someone who has hurt you, you might have fawned.
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CW: Incest silentiation 🧶
‘Each person is […] bound by different moral commitments towards the aggressor – depending on the position held and the relationship with one or the other’.
‘In the extended family, friendship and professional circles within which incest is reported, some, now adults, have obviously themselves been victims of abuse, others have been or still are abusers. In the vast majority of cases, these incestuous acts, whether suffered or imposed, have not been reported to the courts or made public. These incestuous acts are also known to others, who talk about them, have talked about them or will talk about them in the future. Circles of acquaintance and gossip intersect.’
Léonore Le Caisne (fr) https://blogs.mediapart.fr/leonore-le-caisne/blog/130121/qu-est-ce-que-le-silence-de-l-inceste
#ethology #anthropology #LeCaisne #family #domesticViolence #parenthood #denial #incest #incestCulture #patriarchy #publicHealth #mentalHealth #domesticViolence #aggressions #acquaintance #taboo #community #attachment #fawning #silentiation #silentiate #invisibility #kinship
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CW: Incest silentiation 🧶
‘Each person is […] bound by different moral commitments towards the aggressor – depending on the position held and the relationship with one or the other’.
‘In the extended family, friendship and professional circles within which incest is reported, some, now adults, have obviously themselves been victims of abuse, others have been or still are abusers. In the vast majority of cases, these incestuous acts, whether suffered or imposed, have not been reported to the courts or made public. These incestuous acts are also known to others, who talk about them, have talked about them or will talk about them in the future. Circles of acquaintance and gossip intersect.’
Léonore Le Caisne (fr) https://blogs.mediapart.fr/leonore-le-caisne/blog/130121/qu-est-ce-que-le-silence-de-l-inceste
#ethology #anthropology #LeCaisne #family #domesticViolence #parenthood #denial #incest #incestCulture #patriarchy #publicHealth #mentalHealth #domesticViolence #aggressions #acquaintance #taboo #community #attachment #fawning #silentiation #silentiate #invisibility #kinship
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CW: Incest silentiation 🧶
‘Each person is […] bound by different moral commitments towards the aggressor – depending on the position held and the relationship with one or the other’.
‘In the extended family, friendship and professional circles within which incest is reported, some, now adults, have obviously themselves been victims of abuse, others have been or still are abusers. In the vast majority of cases, these incestuous acts, whether suffered or imposed, have not been reported to the courts or made public. These incestuous acts are also known to others, who talk about them, have talked about them or will talk about them in the future. Circles of acquaintance and gossip intersect.’
Léonore Le Caisne (fr) https://blogs.mediapart.fr/leonore-le-caisne/blog/130121/qu-est-ce-que-le-silence-de-l-inceste
#ethology #anthropology #LeCaisne #family #domesticViolence #parenthood #denial #incest #incestCulture #patriarchy #publicHealth #mentalHealth #domesticViolence #aggressions #acquaintance #taboo #community #attachment #fawning #silentiation #silentiate #invisibility #kinship
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CW: Incest silentiation 🧶
‘Each person is […] bound by different moral commitments towards the aggressor – depending on the position held and the relationship with one or the other’.
‘In the extended family, friendship and professional circles within which incest is reported, some, now adults, have obviously themselves been victims of abuse, others have been or still are abusers. In the vast majority of cases, these incestuous acts, whether suffered or imposed, have not been reported to the courts or made public. These incestuous acts are also known to others, who talk about them, have talked about them or will talk about them in the future. Circles of acquaintance and gossip intersect.’
Léonore Le Caisne (fr) https://blogs.mediapart.fr/leonore-le-caisne/blog/130121/qu-est-ce-que-le-silence-de-l-inceste
#ethology #anthropology #LeCaisne #family #domesticViolence #parenthood #denial #incest #incestCulture #patriarchy #publicHealth #mentalHealth #domesticViolence #aggressions #acquaintance #taboo #community #attachment #fawning #silentiation #silentiate #invisibility #kinship
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CW: Incest silentiation 🧶
‘Each person is […] bound by different moral commitments towards the aggressor – depending on the position held and the relationship with one or the other’.
‘In the extended family, friendship and professional circles within which incest is reported, some, now adults, have obviously themselves been victims of abuse, others have been or still are abusers. In the vast majority of cases, these incestuous acts, whether suffered or imposed, have not been reported to the courts or made public. These incestuous acts are also known to others, who talk about them, have talked about them or will talk about them in the future. Circles of acquaintance and gossip intersect.’
Léonore Le Caisne (fr) https://blogs.mediapart.fr/leonore-le-caisne/blog/130121/qu-est-ce-que-le-silence-de-l-inceste
#ethology #anthropology #LeCaisne #family #domesticViolence #parenthood #denial #incest #incestCulture #patriarchy #publicHealth #mentalHealth #domesticViolence #aggressions #acquaintance #taboo #community #attachment #fawning #silentiation #silentiate #invisibility #kinship
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Well diddle me sideways with a fish fork, what a scoop! #UKNews #BBC #Toadies #Lickspittle #Fawning
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Well diddle me sideways with a fish fork, what a scoop! #UKNews #BBC #Toadies #Lickspittle #Fawning
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Well diddle me sideways with a fish fork, what a scoop! #UKNews #BBC #Toadies #Lickspittle #Fawning
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Well diddle me sideways with a fish fork, what a scoop! #UKNews #BBC #Toadies #Lickspittle #Fawning
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Well diddle me sideways with a fish fork, what a scoop! #UKNews #BBC #Toadies #Lickspittle #Fawning
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ALCESTE: The more one loves, the more one should object
To every blemish, every least defect.
Were I this lady, I would soon get rid
Of lovers who approved of all I did,
And by their slack indulgence and applause
Endorsed my follies and excused my flaws.
[Plus on aime quelqu’un, moins il faut qu’on le flatte ;
À ne rien pardonner le pur amour éclate ;
Et je bannirais, moi, tous ces lâches amants
Que je verrais soumis à tous mes sentiments,
Et dont, à tous propos, les molles complaisances
Donneraient de l’encens à mes extravagances.]Molière (1622-1673) French playwright, actor [stage name for Jean-Baptiste Poquelin]
Le Misanthrope, Act 2, sc. 5 (1666) [tr. Wilbur (1954)]
Sourcing, notes, alternate translations: wist.info/moliere/74395/
#quote #quotes #quotation #candor #challenge #complaisance #criticism #fawning #flattery #love #relationship #submission
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#Republicans' #CapitolHill #peprally for #convicted #felon #DonaldTrump's #return to #WashingtonDC was a #flop.
The #GOP may be #giddily welcoming #Trump back after Jan. 6, but their #fawning can't #hide his #unfitness for the office he seeks.
#Women #Transgender #LGBTQ #LGBTQIA #Conservatives #Extremism #Fascism #RepublicanParty #Hypocrisy #SoftOnCrime #ThePartyOfHate
https://www.salon.com/2024/06/14/republicans-capitol-hill-pep-rally-for-return-was-a-flop/
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#Republicans' #CapitolHill #peprally for #convicted #felon #DonaldTrump's #return to #WashingtonDC was a #flop.
The #GOP may be #giddily welcoming #Trump back after Jan. 6, but their #fawning can't #hide his #unfitness for the office he seeks.
#Women #Transgender #LGBTQ #LGBTQIA #Conservatives #Extremism #Fascism #RepublicanParty #Hypocrisy #SoftOnCrime #ThePartyOfHate
https://www.salon.com/2024/06/14/republicans-capitol-hill-pep-rally-for-return-was-a-flop/
