#fattgnc — Public Fediverse posts

Me:
Fat people are beautiful.

Them:
You mean inner beauty?

Me:
No, I mean physically beautiful to look at.

Them:
Yeah, but you're actually talking about their personalities?

Me:
No, I mean fat bodies are beautiful on the outside when you look at them.

Them:
Sure, but only on the inside, right?

#fat #fatness #FatTGNC

me:
im fat

them:
nooooooo youre not fat youre sexy and beautiful and gorgeous

😑

#fat #fatness #FatTGNC

🚫no mens comments🚫

Therapy actually wasn't a shit show.

I wanted to talk about the anxiety I was feeling about visiting Greg in January, particularly around food and body image. It's something that I noticed last time I visited - his wife does keto and is very strict about it, and I found that was triggering for me and raising all these fears and anxieties that he would see what I was eating and judge me for that.

We talked about how I can feel the dissonance between what I believe with my logical thoughts and what deep wounds I was carrying from childhood.

We talked about things I can do more short term to help make sure I enjoy my time with Greg, and then also made plans to start EMDR when I get back to reprocess some of the trauma I carry around food and my body.

#MentalHealth #MentalIllness #ChildhoodTrauma #EatingDisorders #fat #fatness #FatTGNC #FatQueer #emdr #therapy #psychology

#fat #fatness #FatTGNC #FatQueer #sex #kink

Maybe I just ordered a crop top that says "im fat because every time i fuck your dad he makes me a sandwich"

But maybe I didn't.

#fat #fatness #FatTGNC #sex #kink

#insta #spam #ShitPost #anarchism #goth #fat #fatness #FatTGNC

Reminder:
Historically we see a rise of weight loss material/obsession with body aesthetic and thinness as a sign of fascism.

Feeling that society hates your fatness more intensely isn't you being paranoid or overreacting, and it's not your fault.

#FatPositivity #fat #fatness #FatTGNC

Your fat friends don't want to hear how terrified you are of getting fat.

Shut the fuck up.

#fat #fatness #FatPositivity #FatTGNC

One of my favourite things to do is to make jokes about my fatness that don't have me/my fatness as the punchline, because it subverts the expectation that fat people should be silent about our bodies.

Like, I commented on a post on Fetlife earlier today and the OP responded "thanks for weighing in". To which I replied "are you calling me fat?".

I mean, I thought it was hilarious.

#ShitPost #fat #fatness #FatPositivity #FatTGNC