#familysystems — Public Fediverse posts

When you learn to read the signals, you stop asking “What’s wrong with them?” and start asking “What is the system showing me through them?” #ProblemChild #FamilySystems #Episkevology #Protyus

https://protyusagendherpoet.wordpress.com/2026/05/16/the-child-who-sees-the-system/?utm_source=mastodon&utm_medium=jetpack_social

This is a compassionate, clarifying framework for understanding children as truth‑tellers. When you learn to read the signals, you stop asking “What’s wrong with them?” and start asking “What is the system showing me through them?” #ProblemChild #FamilySystems #Episkevology #Protyus

https://protyusagendherpoet.wordpress.com/2026/04/28/the-child-who-sees-the-system-2/?utm_source=mastodon&utm_medium=jetpack_social

"Sibling bullying is not only highly prevalent and often unaddressed, it is also uniquely harmful. Sibling bullies are difficult to avoid because you share a living space and your closest relationships with them for years. Siblings contribute to our understanding of how personal relationships work, they influence the identity we develop and convey in our close relationships"

https://psyche.co/ideas/trapped-with-no-escape-the-hidden-problem-of-sibling-bullying

#Sibling #bullying #FamilySystems #manosphere #misogyny #MentalHealth

Afternoon reflection: Today's episode examines how personal boundaries intersect with societal expectations. When family systems rely on your compliance with dysfunction, choosing authenticity becomes radical resistance. https://player.captivate.fm/show/3f74ae30-ed7e-4c5d-853a-b3a0f9ff877c/latest/ #PersonalBoundaries #FamilySystems #AuthenticResistance #ApocalypseAndAvocados

Today's episode examines how personal boundaries intersect with societal expectations. When family systems rely on your compliance with dysfunction, choosing authenticity becomes radical resistance. https://player.captivate.fm/show/3f74ae30-ed7e-4c5d-853a-b3a0f9ff877c/latest/ #PersonalBoundaries #FamilySystems #AuthenticResistance #ApocalypseAndAvocados

"In a narcissistic family system, you are as good as they think you are bad." This bit of wisdom is from Jerry Wise, a licensed mental health counselor. In other words, such a family system works against the differentiation of its members, but growing into one's individuality is a part of maturity. If you are becoming your own person, rather than conforming to the whole in an unhealthy and rigid sense, you will be considered "bad." And that is good! #narcissism #familysystems

Happy Mother's Day to the many, many moms working so hard to break cycles of generational trauma.

What you are doing is the hardest, most important job in the world.🌺

#MothersDay #GenerationalTrauma #FamilySystems