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  1. Es gibt etwas neues!

    Eine Gesamtidee für #DeltaChat, für freiwillige #Feuerwehren, schon nachgefragt (weg von Whatsapp wegen #WIBA #BSI #DFV). Jetzt kann jede FFW wirklich einfach und preiswert einen eigenen Sörver aufsetzten, ohne Ärger mit Providern usw. Die Homepage geht auch damit.

    Die Domain *.ffw.red ist dafür da. So.

    Ist für nicht soooo interessant, ich weiß...

    ...aber möglich ist es jetzt.

    So.

  2. Es gibt etwas neues!

    Eine Gesamtidee für #DeltaChat, für freiwillige #Feuerwehren, schon nachgefragt (weg von Whatsapp wegen #WIBA #BSI #DFV). Jetzt kann jede FFW wirklich einfach und preiswert einen eigenen Sörver aufsetzten, ohne Ärger mit Providern usw. Die Homepage geht auch damit.

    Die Domain *.ffw.red ist dafür da. So.

    Ist für nicht soooo interessant, ich weiß...

    ...aber möglich ist es jetzt.

    So.

  3. 8. You don't have to accept abusive behaviour from anyone. Family violence and coercive control is generally due to desire to maintain or establish control over others, an inability to regulate emotions, or inability to communicate needs in a more appropriate manner. In all these cases the responsibility lies with the person using the problematic behaviour.

    Abusers will often use DARVO (Deny, Attack, Reverse Victim and Offender) to blame the recipient for their violence.

    #RCMythBusting #DFV

  4. This time of year can be tough on people for many reasons. If you are struggling or facing violence please reach out, you don't have to handle it alone.

    Below are some numbers for people in Queensland and Australia.

    Beyond Blue 1300 22 4636
    Lifeline 13 11 14
    Emergency Services 000
    1800 RESPECT 1800 737 732
    Mensline 1300 789 978
    QLife 1800 184 527
    Suicide Call Back Service 1300 659 467
    Acute Care Team 1300 642 255

    #MentalHealth #Lonliness #SocialIsolation #Support #Care #DFV

  5. Thanks to #JERAA, #OurWatch and judges for the kudos, and putting up some encouragement for people to report in this extremely difficult area. This is something that really matters, and based on reports in the ABC this morning, there are serious deficiencies in the way major #AustralianNews organisations are covering family violence.

    Big thanks to #TheMandarin and all the experts and editors who contributed to what has become my first (hopefully not last) "Award winning" piece of journalism.

    CW for article - DFV with complicated perspectives. If you're upset by, or interested in further discussion the way something is framed in this article, please get in touch. I'm always trying to do better.

    themandarin.com.au/200964-dv-p

    #dfv #Journalism #news #ViolenceAgainstWomen #culture #CriminalJustice #Award

  6. Thanks to #JERAA, #OurWatch and judges for the kudos, and putting up some encouragement for people to report in this extremely difficult area. This is something that really matters, and based on reports in the ABC this morning, there are serious deficiencies in the way major #AustralianNews organisations are covering family violence.

    Big thanks to #TheMandarin and all the experts and editors who contributed to what has become my first (hopefully not last) "Award winning" piece of journalism.

    CW for article - DFV with complicated perspectives. If you're upset by, or interested in further discussion the way something is framed in this article, please get in touch. I'm always trying to do better.

    themandarin.com.au/200964-dv-p

    #dfv #Journalism #news #ViolenceAgainstWomen #culture #CriminalJustice #Award

  7. Thanks to #JERAA, #OurWatch and judges for the kudos, and putting up some encouragement for people to report in this extremely difficult area. This is something that really matters, and based on reports in the ABC this morning, there are serious deficiencies in the way major #AustralianNews organisations are covering family violence.

    Big thanks to #TheMandarin and all the experts and editors who contributed to what has become my first (hopefully not last) "Award winning" piece of journalism.

    CW for article - DFV with complicated perspectives. If you're upset by, or interested in further discussion the way something is framed in this article, please get in touch. I'm always trying to do better.

    themandarin.com.au/200964-dv-p

    #dfv #Journalism #news #ViolenceAgainstWomen #culture #CriminalJustice #Award

  8. 4. You are NOT owed a relationship. Not from family, not from a partner(s), not from friends. A healthy relationship is one that is mutually beneficial and is an ongoing, ever renewing social commitment. Past consent does not imply nor guarantee future consent. They can choose to end the relationship at any time as can you. It is a choice to remain, and it should be a free and informed choice.

    #RCMythBusting #Relationships #Counselling #DFV #Consent

  9. 3. It is NOT about determining who is to blame. It is about each person in the relationship taking responsibility (distinct from blame) for what they can control and contribute to the relationship. You cannot, and should not, control another person's emotions, behaviour, beliefs. You can take responsibility for your own emotions, behaviour, and beliefs. Your behaviour can influence, coerce, manipulate etc. and you need to be aware and take responsibility for that.

    #RCMythBusting #Emotions #DFV

  10. 2. The Counsellor is NOT there to save your relationship. For one thing, they have no stake in it, why should they take responsibility for something that is not theirs? For another thing, it may not be something worth saving. If it causes one or more of the participants harm and distress then it may be better for it to end. If you feel you want to save it, great, you do the work with the Counsellor's support.

    #RCMythBusting #Counselling #Therapy #Relationships #DFV #Empowerment

  11. CW: Thread regarding unpleasant emotions

    People who use violence often hold the erroneous belief that it is their anger that is the problem and by extension if they can suppress their anger then they won't be violent. However, this is not correct as many people who use violence are not indiscriminate in their use of violence. They will be violent against their partner or children, but not those with more power than them. This indicates they are choosing when and where to use violence.

    #Violence #DFV

  12. Wenn die deutschen Fußball-Frauen Israel empfangen, wird sich eine israelische Spielerin fast wie zu Hause fühlen: die in Deutschland geborene Stürmerin Sharon Beck, die sich entschied, den jüdischen Staat zu vertreten.
    Sharon Beck: Stürmerin zwischen Deutschland und Israel | DW | 25.10.2021
    #Frauenfußball #Deutschland #Israel #DFB-Frauen #Frauenfußball-WM-Qualifikation #DFV #Essen #Länderspiel #SharonBeck #MartinaVoss-Tecklenburg #1FCKöln