#demifemme — Public Fediverse posts

happy #agenderPrideDay!!! :flag_agender:​ :sparkles_agender:​ :heart_agender:​ :butterfly_agender: :queer_cat_agender:

the label i use most often to describe my gender is #demifemme. :flag_demifemme:​ it means i'm partially feminine and partially #agender! when i first tried to explain this to my (clueless, cishet, but well-meaning) partner, the conversation went like this:

:zerotwo_derp:​ you know how sometimes i'm like YEAH, I'M A WOMAN!!! and other times i'm like... uhhhh, like a... hmmm...
:frog_think:​ ... a potato?
:zerotwo_derp:​ YES, EXACTLY! :ms_100_demifemme:​

well, today just so happens to be one of the more potato (a.k.a. agender) days... so here's my #OOTD, featuring some of the colors on the #librafeminine flag! :flag_librafeminine:​

growing up AFAB, i was self-conscious about my (lack of) booba because of society's silly beauty standards. now that i'm older, free from the gender binary, and suffering from chronic back pain... i'm quite happy with my flat chest!! :giggle:​ :sparkles_demifemme:​

#gender #demigirl #nonbinary #woman #selfie #pride #boostsOK

i really appreciate having a buffet of gender identities. we don't need to pick just one!

i am:
- nonbinary
- genderfluid
- woman
- demi-femme
- bigender/multigender
- agender
‐ boy

some of these genders might seem like they conflict. but in addition to everything listed above, i am autigender! but i am also plural, and different alters express and experience gender in various ways.

but if i wanted to coin a new gender (though it probably has already been coined), i would call myself quantum gender. because my gender usually isn't defined in any given moment unless i am actively thinking about or engaging with it, like a quantum particle which exists in multiple states until the moment it is observed and measured!

#gender #trans #lgbtq #plural #demifemme #nonbinary #genderFluid #autigender #actuallyAutistic