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  1. DATE: August 17, 2026 at 02:00PM
    SOURCE: PSYPOST.ORG

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    TITLE: Sexually assertive individuals tend to be more satisfied with their relationships, study finds

    URL: psypost.org/sexually-assertive

    An online survey in Italy found that sexually assertive individuals tend to be more satisfied with their relationships. Sexual esteem was associated with both body appreciation and sexual assertiveness. The paper was published in Behavioral Sciences.

    Satisfaction in romantic relationships refers to how positively people evaluate the quality of their partnership and their feelings toward their partner. High relationship satisfaction is consistently associated with greater happiness, better mental and physical health, lower stress, and even longer life expectancy.

    Relationship satisfaction is shaped by many factors. Sexuality is one of them. It contributes to relationship quality not only in terms of sexual activity but also in how openly partners can communicate about their desires, needs, and boundaries. One concept that captures this ability is sexual assertiveness, which includes being able to initiate wanted sexual activity, refuse unwanted activity, communicate preferences, and negotiate safer sex.

    Another important concept is sexual esteem—the extent to which people view themselves as worthy, competent, and confident sexual partners. Body appreciation, i.e., a positive attitude towards one’s body, which means accepting, respecting, and valuing it despite perceived imperfections, can also be important for relationship quality.

    Study author Marco Rizzo and his colleagues conducted a study in which they examined the associations between body appreciation, sexual assertiveness, sexual esteem, and relationship satisfaction. They hypothesized that higher body appreciation would be associated with higher sexual assertiveness and sexual esteem, and that both sexual esteem and sexual assertiveness would be associated with better relationship satisfaction.

    These authors analyzed responses from 473 participants from a larger study who declared that they were in a romantic relationship and heterosexual. Participants’ average age was 23 years. 97% of them were Italian citizens. 82% resided in central Italy. 50% were men. The average length of their relationship was 3 years.

    This analysis used data from assessments of sexual assertiveness (the Sexual Assertiveness Questionnaire), body appreciation (the Body Appreciation Scale), sexual esteem (the Sexual Esteem Subscale of the Multidimensional Sexuality Scale), and relationship satisfaction (the Dyadic-Familiar Relationship Satisfaction Scale) that participants completed. They also used the demographic data.

    Results showed that men tended to report greater body appreciation and sexual esteem than women. Participants with higher sexual assertiveness tended to report higher relationship satisfaction. While initial data showed weak links between relationship satisfaction and both body appreciation and sexual esteem, the final statistical model revealed that sexual esteem and body appreciation were not directly associated with relationship satisfaction.

    Study authors tested a statistical model proposing that body appreciation leads to better sexual esteem and sexual assertiveness, and that these psychological characteristics would, in turn, lead to better relationship satisfaction. Results showed that body appreciation may indeed lead to better sexual esteem, and, through this link, to better sexual assertiveness. Higher sexual assertiveness could, according to this model, lead to better relationship satisfaction, although sexual esteem itself did not directly predict relationship satisfaction.

    “These findings underscore a process through which sexual assertiveness and body appreciation can enhance relational well-being and inform educational programs aimed at promoting healthy romantic relationships,” study authors concluded.

    The study contributes to the scientific knowledge about romantic relationships. However, the design of the study does not allow any causal inferences to be derived from the results. Additionally, all data came from self-reports, leaving room for reporting bias to have affected the results.

    The paper, “Satisfaction in Romantic Relationships: The Role of Body Appreciation, Sexual Esteem and Sexual Assertiveness,” was authored by Marco Rizzo, Camilla Matera, Daniela Caso, Anna Rosa Donizzetti, Caterina Grano, Amanda Nerini, and Chiara Rollero.

    URL: psypost.org/sexually-assertive

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    #psychology #counseling #socialwork #psychotherapy @psychotherapist @psychotherapists @psychology @socialpsych @socialwork @psychiatry #mentalhealth #psychiatry #healthcare #depression #psychotherapist #SexualAssertiveness #RelationshipSatisfaction #BodyAppreciation #SexualEsteem #RomanticRelationships #RelationshipWellbeing #SexualityResearch #DatingTips #MentalHealthAndRelationships #BehavioralSciences

  2. Most guys fail when making a move because they hesitate. When you hesitate, she subconsciously builds up reservations. Your hesitation = Her reservation. 💯

    Stop guessing. Discover "The Kiss Technique"—a psychological guide that combines Triangular Gazing and natural Mirroring to read body language and build mutual chemistry smoothly. 🧠🎯

    Read the full step-by-step dating guide here: 👇
    wondrer.com/how-to-make-out-wi

    #DatingAdvice #DatingTips #Confidence #BodyLanguage #Psychology #Wondrer

  3. DATE: August 3, 2026 at 11:31AM
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    TITLE: Love Bombing Can Be a Sign of Abuse

    URL: nytimes.com/2026/08/03/well/mi

    Sometimes over-the-top affection in a new romance can be a precursor to emotional abuse.

    URL: nytimes.com/2026/08/03/well/mi

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    #psychology #counseling #socialwork #psychotherapy @psychotherapist @psychotherapists @psychology @socialpsych @socialwork @psychiatry #mentalhealth #psychiatry #healthcare #depression #psychotherapist #LoveBombing #EmotionalAbuse #HealthyRomance #RelationshipAdvice #RedFlags #DatingTips #AbuseAwareness #Healthy Boundaries #KnowTheSigns #RomanceSafety

  4. Konnichiwa,

    I was planning on remaining a divorced bachelor for life.

    Now, I have decided to throw my name in the dating pool.

    I am a 55 year old, Indian American, in Tokyo.

    Can be a bit shy, and nerdy at first, since I got married early, and have never been on the dating scene.

    I speak some Japanese.
    Looking for a sweet Japanese wife. No idea how to approach this. Please offer tips for gaikokujin looking for love on Japan.

    Here's my artistic creations:

    linktr.ee/purrperl

    Arigatou gozaimashita.

    #Personals #Dating #DatingTips #Tokyo

  5. A book I wrote two years ago Consistently Swiping Left , A very satirical, very British deep dive into dating and relationships. Free copy to whoever comments and gives the worst reason they've been given for being dumped by a partner #datingadvice #dating #relationships #datingtips #books #humour #author #dumped

  6. Ich so *an_den_Tresen_trödel* in der KaffeeBar.

    Das Barmädel wartet wohl auf meine Bestellung *anguck*, dann so:
    "Du nimmst immer Milchkaffee ☕ mit Hafermilch, gell?"

    Ich so:
    "Ne, is nach 3h, dann kein Kaffee mehr, sonst kann der alte Mann nicht schlafen"

    Sie so:
    "Wenn de'nich schlafen kannst ... heute ist hier Tanzabend, 80er 90er Musik"

    Ich so:
    "Kommste auch?"

    Sie so:
    "Klar doch"

    Ähm ... ich glaub ich hab 'n Date 💟

    #dating
    #DatingTips
    #tanzen
    #fridaynightvibes

  7. Master the art of the first impression. ✍️✨

    Your dating profile is your story. Learn how to highlight your personality while navigating disability disclosure with confidence.

    ✅ Profile bio tips ✅ Photo advice ✅ Disclosure strategies

    includate.com/how-to-write-a-d

    #disability #disabilityCrowdfund #DatingTips #InclusiveDating #Accessibility #DatingProfile

  8. Tired of boring dating app openers? 😴

    Try this instead! ✨

    "What's the best thing that happened to you this week?"

    Works 10x better. Trust me! 👇
    #disability #dating #datingTips

  9. Looking for love as a disabled dater in 2026? Finding connections can feel tricky, but planning accessible dates, communicating honestly, and setting your own pace makes it possible to build respectful, comfortable relationships.
    #Disability #InclusiveDating #DatingTips #includate includate.com/disabled-dating-

  10. Navigating a first date with a disability doesn’t have to be awkward or stressful — the right choices in venue, pacing, and communication can make all the difference. This article shares practical tips on what actually helps make disabled first dates easier and more comfortable, from accessible plans to setting your own pace.
    #Disability #DisabledDating #DatingTips
    includate.com/disabled-first-d

  11. I just published The #1 Sign He'll Never Marry You (He Still Uses Your WiFi Password as "Guest123"). Discover the hilariously obvious signs your boyfriend will never marry you, from WiFi passwords to his mom's basement dwelling habits. Warning: truth ahead!

    medium.com/@coaching_13901/the

    #relationships, #dating, #marriage, #commitment, #redflags, #selfhelp, #humor, #satire, #relationshipadvice, #datingtips, #lifehacks, #selflove, #comedy, #wit, #modernlove, #relationshipgoals

  12. 🚨 Are you dating a bully? 🚨 Learn the 10 warning signs of toxic behavior, from emotional manipulation to physical abuse. It's crucial to recognize these red flags early! Protect your mental health and take control of your life. #HealthyRelationships #DatingTips #SelfCare

    paminy.com/are-you-dating-a-bu

  13. Welcome to the first issue of Joëls Dating Tips!

    okcupid is only using some after-effect (css/js, idk) in the browser to pixelate the photos on the page with the people that liked your profile. just press F12 (dev tools) and inspect those images. they are already on your computer.

    #dating #datingtips #DatingGame #datingtrend

  14. If you swipe right on 10 people and no one responds, there should be a requirement SOMEONE tells you what the hell is wrong with you. #Dating #DatingTips #OnlineDating #DstingWoes

  15. When you invite me over to your place to sleep there, the next morning it'd be courteous to prepare some breakfast. Not a feast, toast is fine. Even if it's made from that pre-sliced horror. It shows you at least made some effort.
    Waiting for the pizza to arrive after you realise your fridge is empty drops a 10 ton truck on our bossoming relationship.

    #DatingTips

  16. Pro tip for anyone who wants to freak a potential love interest out within 24 hours of contact and before you’ve even met them:

    1. Tell them they are beautiful, gorgeous, handsome, etc at EVERY opportunity.

    2. Tell them you want to be with them forever.

    3. Demand lots of photos of them.

    4. Talk about moving you and your child/ren to the other side of the planet to be with them.

    5. Tell them how much you missed them even though you spoke less than 12 hours ago.

    Oh, sorry … that’s pro tips for catfish and scammers. My bad.

    #ProTip #DatingTips #catfish #scammer #RomanceScam #scam #WhereAreTheGenuineGuys

  17. It seems to me there are two types of couples: those who met under cosmic fairytale circumstances and those who had to work on finding their significant other.

    Seeing as how Scott and Zelda aren’t inviting me to any first class parties, I have to put in some work. If you’re a couple in this second group, what did you do to meet? I’d love to hear it all, from the basic to the unconventional.

    #Dating #DatingAdvice #DatingTips

  18. Gentle reminders to everyone taping an audition, submitting o a journal or a festival, applying for a job, trying to land a grant, or going on a date:

    You're not a good judge of yourself or your work;
    Do your best, put yourself out there;
    There's no way to predict who'll say yes;
    How they respond is about them & not you.

    It really is a numbers game.

    Do your best & let go of the outcome. 💋

    #Submissions #LitMags #FilmFestivals #Auditions #DatingAdvice #DatingTips #JobApplications #Dating