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  1. Nasty Person (after not reading a piece I wrote on how to fight fascism): "I'm not looking for advice from people who don't share basic values like opposing fascism."

    Me (replying in kind): "That's fine. I'm not looking to exchange words with someone who doesn't share basic values like anti-racism, anti-classism, and anti-ableism."

    Nasty Person: "Wow, that's a bad faith reading."

    That is called DARVO. Deny, Attack, Reverse Victim and Offender. You make a bad faith reading, get given back what you gave, and you accuse others of bad faith readings as if these had occurred in a vacuum.

    You're not anti-AI. You're not even advocating for anything. You're just an abuser, Cass. You're abuser, and that's why you're miserable. That's why you feel the need to attack people you don't know.

    And that's why you can't help but lose. I'll pity you until you decide to be more than just another screaming animal aping at being human.

    This post is not meant for its addressee. Instead, it's meant to show the rest of the community how not to behave online in order to avoid being a caricature of virtue signaling brutes that ape being on the left while acting very much like our enemies on the right do.

    To everyone, because they are beasts who live only to hurt others. Justice is not their purpose; their purpose is to use justice as a tool to harm those they feel victimized by. And how is that any different from Neo-Nazis, ICE, and MAGA?

    Not at all different. That's the answer.

    The prescriptive is obvious to anyone with a brain and a heart that are both in relatively good working order. For the rest of you, (using your own narcissism-tainted language) please consider that you are not the main character of the universe, and no one owes you validation for your shitty behavior, thanks.

    #DARVO #BadFaithDiscourse #MirrorRhetoric #InterpersonalAbuseDynamics #Projection #NarcissisticFraming #PerformativeLeftism #VirtueSignaling #CommunityStandards

  2. Nasty Person (after not reading a piece I wrote on how to fight fascism): "I'm not looking for advice from people who don't share basic values like opposing fascism."

    Me (replying in kind): "That's fine. I'm not looking to exchange words with someone who doesn't share basic values like anti-racism, anti-classism, and anti-ableism."

    Nasty Person: "Wow, that's a bad faith reading."

    That is called DARVO. Deny, Attack, Reverse Victim and Offender. You make a bad faith reading, get given back what you gave, and you accuse others of bad faith readings as if these had occurred in a vacuum.

    You're not anti-AI. You're not even advocating for anything. You're just an abuser, Cass. You're abuser, and that's why you're miserable. That's why you feel the need to attack people you don't know.

    And that's why you can't help but lose. I'll pity you until you decide to be more than just another screaming animal aping at being human.

    This post is not meant for its addressee. Instead, it's meant to show the rest of the community how not to behave online in order to avoid being a caricature of virtue signaling brutes that ape being on the left while acting very much like our enemies on the right do.

    To everyone, because they are beasts who live only to hurt others. Justice is not their purpose; their purpose is to use justice as a tool to harm those they feel victimized by. And how is that any different from Neo-Nazis, ICE, and MAGA?

    Not at all different. That's the answer.

    The prescriptive is obvious to anyone with a brain and a heart that are both in relatively good working order. For the rest of you, (using your own narcissism-tainted language) please consider that you are not the main character of the universe, and no one owes you validation for your shitty behavior, thanks.

    #DARVO #BadFaithDiscourse #MirrorRhetoric #InterpersonalAbuseDynamics #Projection #NarcissisticFraming #PerformativeLeftism #VirtueSignaling #CommunityStandards

  3. Nasty Person (after not reading a piece I wrote on how to fight fascism): "I'm not looking for advice from people who don't share basic values like opposing fascism."

    Me (replying in kind): "That's fine. I'm not looking to exchange words with someone who doesn't share basic values like anti-racism, anti-classism, and anti-ableism."

    Nasty Person: "Wow, that's a bad faith reading."

    That is called DARVO. Deny, Attack, Reverse Victim and Offender. You make a bad faith reading, get given back what you gave, and you accuse others of bad faith readings as if these had occurred in a vacuum.

    You're not anti-AI. You're not even advocating for anything. You're just an abuser, Cass. You're abuser, and that's why you're miserable. That's why you feel the need to attack people you don't know.

    And that's why you can't help but lose. I'll pity you until you decide to be more than just another screaming animal aping at being human.

    This post is not meant for its addressee. Instead, it's meant to show the rest of the community how not to behave online in order to avoid being a caricature of virtue signaling brutes that ape being on the left while acting very much like our enemies on the right do.

    To everyone, because they are beasts who live only to hurt others. Justice is not their purpose; their purpose is to use justice as a tool to harm those they feel victimized by. And how is that any different from Neo-Nazis, ICE, and MAGA?

    Not at all different. That's the answer.

    The prescriptive is obvious to anyone with a brain and a heart that are both in relatively good working order. For the rest of you, (using your own narcissism-tainted language) please consider that you are not the main character of the universe, and no one owes you validation for your shitty behavior, thanks.

    #DARVO #BadFaithDiscourse #MirrorRhetoric #InterpersonalAbuseDynamics #Projection #NarcissisticFraming #PerformativeLeftism #VirtueSignaling #CommunityStandards

  4. Nasty Person (after not reading a piece I wrote on how to fight fascism): "I'm not looking for advice from people who don't share basic values like opposing fascism."

    Me (replying in kind): "That's fine. I'm not looking to exchange words with someone who doesn't share basic values like anti-racism, anti-classism, and anti-ableism."

    Nasty Person: "Wow, that's a bad faith reading."

    That is called DARVO. Deny, Attack, Reverse Victim and Offender. You make a bad faith reading, get given back what you gave, and you accuse others of bad faith readings as if these had occurred in a vacuum.

    You're not anti-AI. You're not even advocating for anything. You're just an abuser, Cass. You're abuser, and that's why you're miserable. That's why you feel the need to attack people you don't know.

    And that's why you can't help but lose. I'll pity you until you decide to be more than just another screaming animal aping at being human.

    This post is not meant for its addressee. Instead, it's meant to show the rest of the community how not to behave online in order to avoid being a caricature of virtue signaling brutes that ape being on the left while acting very much like our enemies on the right do.

    To everyone, because they are beasts who live only to hurt others. Justice is not their purpose; their purpose is to use justice as a tool to harm those they feel victimized by. And how is that any different from Neo-Nazis, ICE, and MAGA?

    Not at all different. That's the answer.

    The prescriptive is obvious to anyone with a brain and a heart that are both in relatively good working order. For the rest of you, (using your own narcissism-tainted language) please consider that you are not the main character of the universe, and no one owes you validation for your shitty behavior, thanks.

    #DARVO #BadFaithDiscourse #MirrorRhetoric #InterpersonalAbuseDynamics #Projection #NarcissisticFraming #PerformativeLeftism #VirtueSignaling #CommunityStandards

  5. @r.gilmore

    Xactly, and as white men #darvo everyone with being under attack, when it's only the extent of our connection to #patriarchy--particularly the #whitepatriarchy--reminding is all that we can spot entitlement whenever people feel like they're losing something, when others just demand equality.

    #intersectionality
    #cdnpoli #canada #mexico #fascism #antifa #antifascist #elbowsup #bcpoli #vancouver #burnaby #canlab #bcgreens #bcndp #ecosocialism #abpoli

  6. @r.gilmore

    Xactly, and as white men #darvo everyone with being under attack, when it's only the extent of our connection to #patriarchy--particularly the #whitepatriarchy--reminding is all that we can spot entitlement whenever people feel like they're losing something, when others just demand equality.

    #intersectionality
    #cdnpoli #canada #mexico #fascism #antifa #antifascist #elbowsup #bcpoli #vancouver #burnaby #canlab #bcgreens #bcndp #ecosocialism #abpoli

  7. @r.gilmore

    Xactly, and as white men #darvo everyone with being under attack, when it's only the extent of our connection to #patriarchy--particularly the #whitepatriarchy--reminding is all that we can spot entitlement whenever people feel like they're losing something, when others just demand equality.

    #intersectionality
    #cdnpoli #canada #mexico #fascism #antifa #antifascist #elbowsup #bcpoli #vancouver #burnaby #canlab #bcgreens #bcndp #ecosocialism #abpoli

  8. @r.gilmore

    Xactly, and as white men #darvo everyone with being under attack, when it's only the extent of our connection to #patriarchy--particularly the #whitepatriarchy--reminding is all that we can spot entitlement whenever people feel like they're losing something, when others just demand equality.

    #intersectionality
    #cdnpoli #canada #mexico #fascism #antifa #antifascist #elbowsup #bcpoli #vancouver #burnaby #canlab #bcgreens #bcndp #ecosocialism #abpoli

  9. On Terf Island a Policeman kicking a guy in the head on the ground is a hero and a middle aged man attacking a trans girl is the victim....

    #GoldersGreen #TerfIsland #GrahamLinehan #ZackPolanski #UKPol #UKPolitics #UKLaw #ACAB #DARVO

  10. On Terf Island a Policeman kicking a guy in the head on the ground is a hero and a middle aged man attacking a trans girl is the victim....

    #GoldersGreen #TerfIsland #GrahamLinehan #ZackPolanski #UKPol #UKPolitics #UKLaw #ACAB #DARVO

  11. On Terf Island a Policeman kicking a guy in the head on the ground is a hero and a middle aged man attacking a trans girl is the victim....

    #GoldersGreen #TerfIsland #GrahamLinehan #ZackPolanski #UKPol #UKPolitics #UKLaw #ACAB #DARVO

  12. On Terf Island a Policeman kicking a guy in the head on the ground is a hero and a middle aged man attacking a trans girl is the victim....

    #GoldersGreen #TerfIsland #GrahamLinehan #ZackPolanski #UKPol #UKPolitics #UKLaw #ACAB #DARVO

  13. On Terf Island a Policeman kicking a guy in the head on the ground is a hero and a middle aged man attacking a trans girl is the victim....

    #GoldersGreen #TerfIsland #GrahamLinehan #ZackPolanski #UKPol #UKPolitics #UKLaw #ACAB #DARVO

  14. Sure enough, there's a hashtag for #DARVO ...

    "Deny, Attack, Reverse Victim & Offender"

    en.wikipedia.org/wiki/DARVO

    #Trump #MAGA #narcissism

  15. Sure enough, there's a hashtag for #DARVO ...

    "Deny, Attack, Reverse Victim & Offender"

    en.wikipedia.org/wiki/DARVO

    #Trump #MAGA #narcissism

  16. Sure enough, there's a hashtag for #DARVO ...

    "Deny, Attack, Reverse Victim & Offender"

    en.wikipedia.org/wiki/DARVO

    #Trump #MAGA #narcissism

  17. Sure enough, there's a hashtag for ...

    "Deny, Attack, Reverse Victim & Offender"

    en.wikipedia.org/wiki/DARVO

  18. Sure enough, there's a hashtag for #DARVO ...

    "Deny, Attack, Reverse Victim & Offender"

    en.wikipedia.org/wiki/DARVO

    #Trump #MAGA #narcissism

  19. @el_on_libera

    report, report, report the #vatniks #vatnik accounts

    their game is always straight boring mediocre #DARVO

    (deny, attack, reverse victim and offender: the west is to blame for #russia invading #ukraine, somehow, amazingly)

    ukraine is always #nazi, somehow, amazingly, while #putin engages in #genocide #ethnofascism #imperialism mass murder: the real #nazism

    we do not need #kremlin #disinfo on the #fediverse, but it keeps cropping up. it requires your reporting

  20. @el_on_libera

    report, report, report the #vatniks #vatnik accounts

    their game is always straight boring mediocre #DARVO

    (deny, attack, reverse victim and offender: the west is to blame for #russia invading #ukraine, somehow, amazingly)

    ukraine is always #nazi, somehow, amazingly, while #putin engages in #genocide #ethnofascism #imperialism mass murder: the real #nazism

    we do not need #kremlin #disinfo on the #fediverse, but it keeps cropping up. it requires your reporting

  21. @el_on_libera

    report, report, report the #vatniks #vatnik accounts

    their game is always straight boring mediocre #DARVO

    (deny, attack, reverse victim and offender: the west is to blame for #russia invading #ukraine, somehow, amazingly)

    ukraine is always #nazi, somehow, amazingly, while #putin engages in #genocide #ethnofascism #imperialism mass murder: the real #nazism

    we do not need #kremlin #disinfo on the #fediverse, but it keeps cropping up. it requires your reporting

  22. @el_on_libera

    report, report, report the #vatniks #vatnik accounts

    their game is always straight boring mediocre #DARVO

    (deny, attack, reverse victim and offender: the west is to blame for #russia invading #ukraine, somehow, amazingly)

    ukraine is always #nazi, somehow, amazingly, while #putin engages in #genocide #ethnofascism #imperialism mass murder: the real #nazism

    we do not need #kremlin #disinfo on the #fediverse, but it keeps cropping up. it requires your reporting

  23. [teeth grinding]

    People sure love to accuse you of being "triggered" when you call out their manipulative bullshit, don't they?


    #DARVO #capitalism #abuse #manipulation #greed #gaslighting #blame
  24. "What the Epstein case is doing...is showing many more people that the men most likely to talk about protecting 'their' girls & women are the ones most likely to feel entitled to do to girls & women whatever they please....

    " (T)he same patterns apply to ICE killings, racist policing violence, xenophobic expulsions, government abandonment of the most vulnerable people in our society, the course of genocidal wars around the world, and more."

    damemagazine.com/2026/02/12/in

    #Epstein
    #Trump
    #ICE
    #DARVO

  25. "What the Epstein case is doing...is showing many more people that the men most likely to talk about protecting 'their' girls & women are the ones most likely to feel entitled to do to girls & women whatever they please....

    " (T)he same patterns apply to ICE killings, racist policing violence, xenophobic expulsions, government abandonment of the most vulnerable people in our society, the course of genocidal wars around the world, and more."

    damemagazine.com/2026/02/12/in

    #Epstein
    #Trump
    #ICE
    #DARVO

  26. "What the Epstein case is doing...is showing many more people that the men most likely to talk about protecting 'their' girls & women are the ones most likely to feel entitled to do to girls & women whatever they please....

    " (T)he same patterns apply to ICE killings, racist policing violence, xenophobic expulsions, government abandonment of the most vulnerable people in our society, the course of genocidal wars around the world, and more."

    damemagazine.com/2026/02/12/in

    #Epstein
    #Trump
    #ICE
    #DARVO

  27. "What the Epstein case is doing...is showing many more people that the men most likely to talk about protecting 'their' girls & women are the ones most likely to feel entitled to do to girls & women whatever they please....

    " (T)he same patterns apply to ICE killings, racist policing violence, xenophobic expulsions, government abandonment of the most vulnerable people in our society, the course of genocidal wars around the world, and more."

    damemagazine.com/2026/02/12/in

    #Epstein
    #Trump
    #ICE
    #DARVO

  28. "What the Epstein case is doing...is showing many more people that the men most likely to talk about protecting 'their' girls & women are the ones most likely to feel entitled to do to girls & women whatever they please....

    " (T)he same patterns apply to ICE killings, racist policing violence, xenophobic expulsions, government abandonment of the most vulnerable people in our society, the course of genocidal wars around the world, and more."

    damemagazine.com/2026/02/12/in

    #Epstein
    #Trump
    #ICE
    #DARVO

  29. CW: Political Race Theory

    This article that describes the old practice of #racebaiting--a technique frequently used to disrupt #black folks' progress. I had to deal with it numerous times in #corporateamerica and it's deployed by #karens and other "nice" #whitesupremancists frequently. I would say that it's related to #DARVO because that's the classic response when #whitesupremacists are confronted.

    levelman.com/donald-trump-is-g

    #blackbrillianceMatters #BlackMastodon #trumpliesmatter #whiteliesmatter

  30. CW: Political Race Theory

    This article that describes the old practice of #racebaiting--a technique frequently used to disrupt #black folks' progress. I had to deal with it numerous times in #corporateamerica and it's deployed by #karens and other "nice" #whitesupremancists frequently. I would say that it's related to #DARVO because that's the classic response when #whitesupremacists are confronted.

    levelman.com/donald-trump-is-g

    #blackbrillianceMatters #BlackMastodon #trumpliesmatter #whiteliesmatter

  31. CW: Political Race Theory

    This article that describes the old practice of #racebaiting--a technique frequently used to disrupt #black folks' progress. I had to deal with it numerous times in #corporateamerica and it's deployed by #karens and other "nice" #whitesupremancists frequently. I would say that it's related to #DARVO because that's the classic response when #whitesupremacists are confronted.

    levelman.com/donald-trump-is-g

    #blackbrillianceMatters #BlackMastodon #trumpliesmatter #whiteliesmatter

  32. CW: Political Race Theory

    This article that describes the old practice of #racebaiting--a technique frequently used to disrupt #black folks' progress. I had to deal with it numerous times in #corporateamerica and it's deployed by #karens and other "nice" #whitesupremancists frequently. I would say that it's related to #DARVO because that's the classic response when #whitesupremacists are confronted.

    levelman.com/donald-trump-is-g

    #blackbrillianceMatters #BlackMastodon #trumpliesmatter #whiteliesmatter

  33. CW: Political Race Theory

    This article that describes the old practice of #racebaiting--a technique frequently used to disrupt #black folks' progress. I had to deal with it numerous times in #corporateamerica and it's deployed by #karens and other "nice" #whitesupremancists frequently. I would say that it's related to #DARVO because that's the classic response when #whitesupremacists are confronted.

    levelman.com/donald-trump-is-g

    #blackbrillianceMatters #BlackMastodon #trumpliesmatter #whiteliesmatter