#damagedgoods — Public Fediverse posts
Live and recent posts from across the Fediverse tagged #damagedgoods, aggregated by home.social.
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"Damaged goods" is a lie, but discernment is not a sin:
http://ConservaTibbs.substack.com/p/damaged-goods-is-a-lie-but-discernment
We should not allow Boomers who are carrying guilt about the sexual revolution to shame us out of having wisdom.
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Beware! #DamagedGoods #GangofFour The change will do you good I always knew it would … Sometimes I′m thinking that I love you But I know it's only lust The sins of the flesh Are simply sins of lust Sweat's running down your neck #Music #Punk youtu.be/fRjsBh_R3TQ
Gang Of Four - Damaged Goods (... -
Beware! #DamagedGoods #GangofFour The change will do you good I always knew it would … Sometimes I′m thinking that I love you But I know it's only lust The sins of the flesh Are simply sins of lust Sweat's running down your neck #Music #Punk youtu.be/fRjsBh_R3TQ
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CW: CSA meta, we all hate child rapists
It feels bad that people love to hate child rapists but hate to love rape survivors.
We're "damaged goods" - broken, used, used up, no longer useful. Our existence is uncomfortable. And thus we get objectified yet again. It feels like being used as a pawn in debates.
Please, be mindful when posting about csa and rape cases. Consider putting content notes on it. We survivors are real people who really use the internet. Some of us really need cns to brace ourselves before reading even really good, informative and supportive material concerning the worst trauma we've been through.
We want to be in solidarity with our siblings who were also abused or raped as children and teens. And that's hard when we face barriers to even read social media posts about the topic.
I really appreciate it when people are thoughtful. Thank you.
#epstein #EpsteinFiles #csa #rape #feminism #survivor #RapeSurvivor #survivors #CSAsurvivor #MentalHealth #DamagedGoods #RapeCulture
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CW: CSA meta, we all hate child rapists
It feels bad that people love to hate child rapists but hate to love rape survivors.
We're "damaged goods" - broken, used, used up, no longer useful. Our existence is uncomfortable. And thus we get objectified yet again. It feels like being used as a pawn in debates.
Please, be mindful when posting about csa and rape cases. Consider putting content notes on it. We survivors are real people who really use the internet. Some of us really need cns to brace ourselves before reading even really good, informative and supportive material concerning the worst trauma we've been through.
We want to be in solidarity with our siblings who were also abused or raped as children and teens. And that's hard when we face barriers to even read social media posts about the topic.
I really appreciate it when people are thoughtful. Thank you.
#epstein #EpsteinFiles #csa #rape #feminism #survivor #RapeSurvivor #survivors #CSAsurvivor #MentalHealth #DamagedGoods #RapeCulture
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request for advice regarding family (for a person who's completely scarred from having a difficult family life growing up): how to stop seeing family as a burden? (like, the entire concept of "family".)
i grew up with difficult parents, where everything was governed by sacrifice, burden, obligation, etc. no one was happy, but everyone was trying hard. after trying really really hard to make my parents happy for many years, i realized that there was nothing i could do to make them happy, so i stopped.
i now live very far away, have my own life, and rarely see them. i still talk to them on the phone a fair bit (and it feels like a burden), but i can manage it.
recently my mom came to visit for a week, and as usual, i put my life on pause and spent all my waking hours taking her around and making sure she was happy. she was staying in the guest room of a friend of mine (who has a good relationship with her family) and my friend was shocked to hear that i would be relieved (instead of sad) when my mom left. she honestly couldn't understand it. it left me feeling guilty and ashamed.
but the truth is that i find it exhausting to be around my parents because it's 100% about their needs and i just have to meet their high expectations or fail. maybe it sounds selfish to say "when i'm with them, it's not about me", but that's exactly what i don't like about family: that it's just obligation. i don't feel anything positive afterwards. i guess i feel some satisfaction from a "job well done" after sending my mom back home with her having had a nice vacation, but that's all it is: i just feel like i fulfilled my duty and now i can go back to my life. i guess that's a horrible thing to think, right?
anyway, my friend can't believe that i see my parents this way. i also see having children this way: that it's just a 20 year slog of obligation, sacrifice, work, and doing things you don't want to do, to take care of someone who will probably be ungrateful in the end.
i'm obviously scarred by my difficult experience growing up (I have CPTSD), and i'm ok with not having children, but i do wonder if there's a healthier attitude i can have toward the entire idea of family. if anyone has any ideas on how i can change my perspective, i'm all ears.
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request for advice regarding family (for a person who's completely scarred from having a difficult family life growing up): how to stop seeing family as a burden? (like, the entire concept of "family".)
i grew up with difficult parents, where everything was governed by sacrifice, burden, obligation, etc. no one was happy, but everyone was trying hard. after trying really really hard to make my parents happy for many years, i realized that there was nothing i could do to make them happy, so i stopped.
i now live very far away, have my own life, and rarely see them. i still talk to them on the phone a fair bit (and it feels like a burden), but i can manage it.
recently my mom came to visit for a week, and as usual, i put my life on pause and spent all my waking hours taking her around and making sure she was happy. she was staying in the guest room of a friend of mine (who has a good relationship with her family) and my friend was shocked to hear that i would be relieved (instead of sad) when my mom left. she honestly couldn't understand it. it left me feeling guilty and ashamed.
but the truth is that i find it exhausting to be around my parents because it's 100% about their needs and i just have to meet their high expectations or fail. maybe it sounds selfish to say "when i'm with them, it's not about me", but that's exactly what i don't like about family: that it's just obligation. i don't feel anything positive afterwards. i guess i feel some satisfaction from a "job well done" after sending my mom back home with her having had a nice vacation, but that's all it is: i just feel like i fulfilled my duty and now i can go back to my life. i guess that's a horrible thing to think, right?
anyway, my friend can't believe that i see my parents this way. i also see having children this way: that it's just a 20 year slog of obligation, sacrifice, work, and doing things you don't want to do, to take care of someone who will probably be ungrateful in the end.
i'm obviously scarred by my difficult experience growing up (I have CPTSD), and i'm ok with not having children, but i do wonder if there's a healthier attitude i can have toward the entire idea of family. if anyone has any ideas on how i can change my perspective, i'm all ears.
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Damaged Goods Compilation Vol.2 fundraiser album & tees are available now!
FYI, next Bandcamp Friday 2025 is the 1st of August
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Newsom calls Trump ‘damaged goods’ and ‘more unhinged’ than ever
https://thehill.com/homenews/campaign/4433234-newsom-calls-trump-damaged-goods-2024/
#NewsomTrump #DamagedGoods #Unhinged #2024Election #CampaignNews #PoliticalRivalry #Politics #News
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~ Flyer Friday ~
no capitalist hardcore here
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#FlyerFriday #GigFlyer #EphemeralArt #DamagedGoods #SecretVenue #Leeds12 #BrainrotterRecords #UrbanSprawl #Antagonizm #Motive #Inflicter -
Damaged Goods: Free-TV-Premiere im Juli bei One #DamagedGoods
https://www.serienjunkies.de/news/damaged-goods-free-premiere-juli-118734.html?utm_source=mastodon&utm_medium=social&utm_campaign=News%20(118734)#sjnews -
~ Flyer Friday ~
good times ahead in May and June
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#FlyerFriday #GigFlyers #EphemeralArt #DamagedGoods #SecretVenue #DeafInstitute #BrudenellSocialClub #BelgraveMusicHall #Lughole #LOOP #Soundheads #APlaceToBuryStrangers #NoiseAnnoysFestival #Firefriend -
Gang of Four - Damaged Goods
The British band's debut single from 1978.Another postpunk band with a very original sound.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fRjsBh_R3TQ
#postpunk #gangoffour #postpunkexplosion #musicfromthe70ies #damagedgoods
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Gang of Four - Damaged Goods
The British band's debut single from 1978.Another postpunk band with a very original sound.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fRjsBh_R3TQ
#postpunk #gangoffour #postpunkexplosion #musicfromthe70ies #damagedgoods
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@fcktheworld587 @mahdoge I'm pissed cause I misread and thought you said shirt lol real talk tho she bashed too much Molly when she was younger and that's why she's the way she is now #damagedgoods
