#dailyprompt1913 — Public Fediverse posts

Let’s get real!

What bothers you and why?

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Hey there, lovely readers!

Today, we’re diving into the wonderful world of pet peeves.

Yep, we’re talking about those little things that just get under your skin and make you want to scream into a pillow.

What bothers you and why? Buckle up because we’re about to take a wilde ride through some common annoyances.

1. Slow Internet

Let’s kick things off with a classic: slow internet.

Is there anything more infuriating than watching the spinning wheel of death while trying to stream your favourite show?

Or worse, when you’re in the middle of an important Zoom meeting and your screen freezes in the most unflattering way possible.

Seriously, is it too much to ask for a stable connection in the 21st century?

2. Telemarketers

Next up, telemarketers.

These persistent callers have an uncanny ability to ring just as you’re sitting down for dinner or when you’re in the middle of a relaxing bath.

The worst part?

They always seem to have the most important and irrelevant offers just for you.

“Congratulations! You’ve been selected for a free cruise!” Thanks, but I’ll pass.

3. Overly Loud Chewing

Can we talk about loud chewers for a second?

There’s something about the sound of someone chomping away on their food that can drive even the most patient person up the wall.

It’s like they’re auditioning for a role in a sound effects department.

If I wanted to hear that, I’d turn on an ASMR video.

4. Endless Email Chains

How about those never-ending email chains?

You know the ones where everyone feels the need to hit “Reply All” with their two cents.

Before you know it, your inbox looks like a novel, and you’re stuck scrolling through 47 messages just to find the original point.

Can we all agree to use “Reply All” sparingly?

5. Misbehaving Technology

Technology is supposed to make our lives easier, right?

But when your printer decides to have a meltdown right before an important deadline or your phone battery dies at 20%, it feels like the universe is playing a cruel joke.

Don’t even get me started on autocorrect—no, I did not mean “ducking.”

6. Slow Walkers

And then there are the slow walkers.

You’re in a hurry, weaving through the crowd like a ninja, and then you get stuck behind someone who seems to be taking a leisurely Sunday stroll on a Tuesday morning.

It’s like they’re walking through molasses, and all you can do is smile politely and wait for an opening.

7. Leftovers with No Expiration Date

Here’s a fun one: leftovers in the fridge with no expiration date.

Is this container of spaghetti from last week or last month? Who knows!

It’s a game of culinary roulette, and the stakes are high.

Do you risk it, or do you toss it? The struggle is real.

So, there you have it—my list of things that bother me and why.

From slow internet to leftover roulette, these little annoyances can really test our patience.

But hey, they also give us something to laugh about (eventually).

What bothers you and why? Share your pet peeves in the comments below—I can’t wait to commiserate with you!

Home Decor Gone Wrong: Laughing Through the Chaos

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Home decor projects are supposed to transform our spaces into beautiful, cosy sanctuaries.

But sometimes, even with the best intentions, things go hilariously wrong.

Let’s dive into some funny stories of home decor mishaps and share tips on how to keep your cool when chaos ensues.

**1. The DIY Disaster**

– **Story**: Inspired by a trendy DIY project on Pinterest, you decide to create a stunning accent wall using reclaimed wood.

Halfway through, you realize you’ve miscalculated the amount of wood needed and now have a patchwork wall that looks more like a jigsaw puzzle than a rustic masterpiece.

– **Tip**: Measure twice, buy once. Always purchase a little extra material to account for mistakes.

And remember, imperfections add character!

**2. The Furniture Fiasco**

– **Story**: You fall in love with a massive vintage dresser at a flea market.

Without measuring your space, you buy it, only to find it won’t fit through your front door.

Now, it’s an unwelcome lawn ornament until you figure out what to do with it.

– **Tip**: Measure your doorways, hallways, and the intended space before purchasing large furniture.

If you’re unsure, bring a friend for a second opinion.

**3. The Paint Panic**

– **Story**: You decide to freshen up your living room with a bold new paint colour.

After a few hours of painting, you step back and realize your vibrant choice looks more like a fluorescent nightmare.

Your living room now resembles a neon sign.

– **Tip**: Always test paint colors on a small section of the wall first and view them at different times of the day.

If you make a mistake, don’t panic—paint is relatively easy to fix.

**4. The Curtain Catastrophe**

– **Story**: You order beautiful new curtains online, only to find out they’re too short for your windows.

Instead of elegant drapes, you’ve got awkward high-water curtains that make your windows look like they’re wearing capris.

– **Tip**: Measure your windows’ height and width before ordering curtains.

If you’ve already made the mistake, consider adding a coordinating fabric panel at the bottom to lengthen them.

**5. The Assembly Agony**

– **Story**: That flat-pack furniture seemed like a bargain until you started assembling it.

Three hours in, you’re surrounded by an assortment of screws and mysterious parts, and the instructions might as well be in another language.

– **Tip**: Take your time, follow the instructions step by step, and don’t hesitate to ask for help.

Sometimes, an extra pair of hands makes all the difference.

**6. The Rug Riddle**

– **Story**: You buy a gorgeous area rug online, but when it arrives, it’s way too small for your living room.

Now, it looks like a tiny island in the middle of your sea of furniture.

– **Tip**: A rug should be large enough to fit under all major pieces of furniture in a room.

If you’re in doubt, bigger is usually better.

**7. The Lighting Lunacy**

– **Story**: In an effort to brighten up your home, you install new light fixtures.

But instead of a warm, inviting glow, you get blinding interrogation room lighting.

Now, every flaw in your decor (and skin) is painfully visible.

– **Tip**: Choose light bulbs with the right colour temperature for the mood you want to create.

Warm white (2700K-3000K) is usually best for living spaces.

**8. The Art Arrangement Anarchy**

– **Story**: Determined to create a gallery wall, you enthusiastically start hanging frames without a plan.

The result is a chaotic, uneven mess that looks more like a crime scene than an art display.

– **Tip**: Lay out your frames on the floor first to plan the arrangement.

Use a level and painter’s tape to mark the wall before hammering in nails.

**9. The Plant Predicament**

– **Story**: You add a touch of green with some houseplants, but within weeks, they’re wilted and sad.

Turns out, your green thumb is more like a black thumb.

– **Tip**: Choose plants that suit your home’s lighting conditions and your care abilities.

Start with low-maintenance plants like succulents or snake plants.

**10. The Accessory Overload**

– **Story**: Eager to decorate, you fill every surface with trinkets and decor pieces.

Instead of a stylish look, you end up with a cluttered mess that feels more like a flea market than a home.

– **Tip**: Less is more.

Choose a few key pieces that you love and let them shine. Regularly edit your decor to avoid overcrowding.

Embracing the Chaos

Home decor mishaps are part of the journey to creating a space that truly feels like home.

Embrace the chaos, laugh at the mistakes, and learn from them.

Each error is a step closer to your perfect sanctuary.

Share your funniest home decor fails in the comments, and let’s laugh through the chaos together!

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Unexpected Connections: A Whirlwind Tale of Travel, Beauty, and Serendipity!

Describe a random encounter with a stranger that stuck out positively to you.

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Picture this: I’m wandering through the bustling streets of a foreign city, lost in the whirlwind of sights and sounds that only travel can offer.

As I navigate the maze of cobblestone alleys and colourful market stalls, I find myself in the most unexpected of encounters – a random encounter with a stranger that would leave a lasting impression on me.

It all started with a chance meeting at a quaint café nestled in the heart of the city.

As I sipped on my espresso, lost in the pages of a gripping thriller from my book recommendations list, a stranger approached me with a warm smile and a twinkle in their eye.

Little did I know, this encounter would weave together elements of travel, beauty, and serendipity in the most delightful of ways.

We struck up a conversation that spanned topics ranging from our favourite movies to watch to our shared love of exploring new cultures through food.

As we exchanged recommendations for must-visit destinations and hidden gems off the beaten path, I couldn’t help but be drawn in by the stranger’s infectious enthusiasm for adventure and discovery.

But it wasn’t just our shared love of travel that bonded us – it was also our mutual appreciation for the finer things in life, like beautiful nails and makeup.

As we swapped tips and tricks for achieving the perfect manicure or mastering the art of a flawless cat-eye, I couldn’t help but marvel at the unexpected connection we had forged over something as seemingly trivial as beauty.

Our conversation took unexpected turns, delving into topics as diverse as women’s fashion, miniatures, and even the latest tech gadgets.

From discussing the latest trends in women’s shoes to geeking out over all things Xbox, it was a whirlwind of laughter, camaraderie, and shared passions that made me feel like I had known this stranger for a lifetime.

As the afternoon turned to evening and the café began to empty out, I realized that our chance encounter had turned into something truly magical.

It was a reminder that sometimes, the most meaningful connections come from the most unexpected places – whether it’s halfway across the world or right in your own backyard.

As I bid farewell to my newfound friend and continued on my journey, I couldn’t help but feel grateful for the serendipitous encounter that had brightened my day and left me with memories to cherish for a lifetime.

It was a testament to the power of travel, beauty, and human connection to bring people together in the most unexpected of ways.

So here’s to chance encounters, random strangers, and the beautiful moments that make life worth living.

Who knows what adventures await around the next corner – all we have to do is keep our hearts open and be ready to embrace the unexpected with open arms.

Cheers to serendipity, and may we all be lucky enough to experience the joy of a random encounter that leaves a positive and lasting impact on our lives.

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Superstitious? Me? Pfft… Unless the Universe is Listening.

Are you superstitious?

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Am I Superstitious? Let’s Just Say… It’s Complicated.

This morning, my son and his buddies threw out a dangerous question: “Are you superstitious?”

Now, logically, I want to say no. I don’t walk around tossing salt over my shoulder or fearing black cats. But if we’re being honest… I also refuse to say things like “Wow, nothing has gone wrong today!” because I know the universe is listening.

So, am I superstitious? Let’s just say I respect the possibility of unseen forces—but I’m also not afraid to test them.

Let’s break it down.

1. The ‘Don’t Jinx It’ Rule (AKA, I’m Not Stupid)

You ever confidently say something, only for life to immediately slap you in the face?

🔹 Example: “Ugh, I never get sick.” Boom—suddenly, I’m drowning in tissues and self-pity.
🔹 Pain Level: 9/10. Because why does the universe have to be so petty?

✅ How I Handle It: I knock on wood. Every time. Even if it’s fake. Even if people are watching. If I forget? You best believe I’m mentally whispering “no jinx, no jinx, no jinx” to undo the damage.

2. The ‘Something Feels Off’ Rule (My Sixth Sense is Real)

I don’t know if it’s energy, instinct, or just years of experience with people being sketchy, but if something feels wrong, I listen.

🔹 Example: Walking into a place and feeling an immediate, unexplainable sense of nope.
🔹 Pain Level: 10/10 if ignored. Because the ONE TIME I brushed it off, I ended up in a situation I never should have been in.

✅ How I Handle It: If my gut tells me to leave, I leave. No debating, no justifying. The last thing I need is to become the main character in a bad horror movie.

3. The ‘Ghosts? Prove Me Wrong’ Rule (I’m Ready for This Fight)

Unlike most people, I don’t fear ghosts, Ouija boards, or haunted places—I’m fascinated by them. Do I believe in spirits and the paranormal? Not really.

But am I willing to test it? Hell yes.

🔹 Example: While some people refuse to step foot in a haunted house, I’m the one saying, “Alright, if something’s here, show yourself.”
🔹 Pain Level: TBD. But honestly, if a ghost did prove me wrong, I’d be more excited than scared.

✅ How I Handle It: If the supernatural wants my attention, it better bring receipts. Until then, I’m keeping my skepticism and my curiosity wide open.

So, Am I Superstitious?

Let’s put it this way—I don’t live in fear of bad luck, but I also don’t poke the bear (except when it comes to ghosts, apparently).

If knocking on wood, trusting my instincts, and challenging the unknown keeps things interesting, then I’m all in.

Now, tell me—are you superstitious?

Or are you the type to laugh in the face of fate?

Drop your thoughts in the comments… but if your luck suddenly changes, don’t say I didn’t warn you.

NSFW Ink Dreams: Where Would You Put Yours?

What tattoo do you want, and where would you put it?

Some people want a discreet infinity symbol on their ankle.
Others want angel wings between their shoulder blades.
Me?

I want the Joker and Harley Quinn… tangled in sin… on my inner thigh.

Yes, you read that right. I already have six tattoos—each one a slice of my story—but this?
This one’s going to be my masterpiece.

Why settle for basic when your thighs are prime real estate for chaos, colour, and the promise of a little danger?

Why the Inner Thigh, though?

Well, darling, that’s easy.

It’s hidden… until it’s not.

It’s intimate. Naughty. A secret meant to be earned.

And every time I cross my legs or shift in bed, I’ll know there’s a beautiful madness resting just beneath my skin.

The Joker, smirking with toxic charm.
Harley, wide-eyed, wild, loyal in all the wrong ways.
The ultimate ride-or-die pair—etched into my flesh, just inches from all the fun.

Honestly? If you’re going to mark your body forever, make it interesting.
Make it tell a story… or whisper one between parted thighs.

More Tattoos. More Mischief. More Me.

My body is already a canvas of secrets and symbols.

Not just to look.
But to wonder.
To imagine what else might be hiding underneath the lace and leather.

So, yes—my Joker and Harley thigh piece is still in the works.
But the rest of my skin? Hungry. Ready. Waiting for the needle to tell another scandalous tale.

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My Secret Obsession: Dark Romance Audiobooks & The Voices That Make Me Swoon

What’s something most people don’t know about you?

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What’s Something Most People Don’t Know About Me?

If you asked Chat Ludlow, the commanding king of the dark Fae and richest man on Earth, what most people don’t know about him, he’d probably smirk and say, “Everything. They only see what I let them.”

That, my friends, is what I’m aiming for here—a little mystery, a little intrigue, and a lot of fun.

So, what’s something most people don’t know about me?

Well, I’m not just a dark romance enthusiast—oh no. I’ve got layers, much like Chat’s intricate plans to make Belle his forever (cue the swoon).

My Secret Obsession? Dark Romance Audiobooks 🎧

Yup, you read that right. While I live for crafting my own sizzling stories, I’ve got another obsession that’s just as intense: dark romance audiobooks. And not just any narrators will do—no, no.

My go-tos are the deliciously deep voices of Aiden Snow and Teddy Hamilton.

There’s something about the way they bring the tension, passion, and raw emotion of a story to life that keeps me hooked for hours.

Think of it as the Chat Ludlow experience—dangerous, seductive, and oh-so-intoxicating. Much like Belle, I can’t help but swoon every time those voices take over my headphones.

Just like how Chat’s deep, commanding voice sends Belle into a fluster, audiobooks narrated by these legends have the power to take any romance to the next level.

If you’re not already obsessed, trust me—you’re missing out on the ultimate audio romance experience.

Why Audiobooks? Because They Let You Escape.

Life, much like the worlds Chat and Belle navigate, can get overwhelming.

Between work, life, and the chaos in between, we all need a way to escape. And for me, that’s pressing play on a dark romance audiobook and letting those velvety voices take me into another world.

It’s a bit like falling headfirst into one of Chat’s steamy power games—except this time, it’s Aiden Snow telling me all the dirty details, and I don’t have to lift a finger.

When you listen to Aiden Snow or Teddy Hamilton, it’s like having your very own Chat Ludlow right in your ear, whispering all those dangerously sweet nothings.

What’s not to love? You can dive into a world of Fae kings, ruthless CEOs, and unrelenting passion—all while folding your laundry (because multitasking is key, am I right?).

Everyone loves a good escape.

Whether you’re listening to a podcast or, like me, you’re falling for a brooding fictional alpha on audio, there’s something magical about immersive experiences.

What This Says About Me (and Chat)

Now, I know what you’re thinking—What does an obsession with dark romance audiobooks have to do with writing or being Chat Ludlow’s obsession?

Well, everything, actually. People expect you to be a certain way based on what you create, but there’s always more beneath the surface.

For example, Chat may come off as a dominant, ruthless man in control of everything, but underneath it all, he’s fiercely in love with Belle—someone who softens his edges and makes him vulnerable.

Similarly, when I’m not writing, I’m melting into the worlds created by my favourite narrators, where love, danger, and passion intertwine in a way that’s just so satisfying.

Your Turn: What Don’t People Know About You?

Okay, now it’s your turn. I’ve spilled my secret—dark romance audiobooks narrated by the dreamy Aiden Snow and Teddy Hamilton. Chef’s kiss, right?

What’s something about you that people don’t expect?

Do you also escape into stories when life gets overwhelming, or is there another secret passion you’re hiding?

Drop a comment below and tell me your favourite audiobook narrator or what surprising hobby you’re obsessed with.

You never know—you might just find a fellow audiobook addict (and I’ll definitely be here fangirling alongside you).

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The Weight

I think I actually needed this prompt today.

So yesterday started out as a beautiful and productive day. The last two days had found me doing spring cleaning. I went through alot of junk and sent it to the trash bin, rearranged the living room and bedroom and did a deep clean. My moden took a crap and needed replaced and Spectrum was quick to show up and replace it.I then repaired my stereo rack cabinet as I broke a castor on it while rolling it around. I had originally put straight castors on it so yesterday I changed them out for swivels. In so doing I had to take the stereo systems completely apart and rewire it as I put it back together.

Hearing a knock on the door I open it and find a package waiting for me. My new microphone arrived which had me stoked with anticipation and you guessed it, it was the next thing on my agenda. Plug it in to the reel to reel and poof! my barks sound loud and proud. This magical day was smooth sailing and I couldn’t wait to get into my DAW and play around.

And then it happened…I walked out to check the mail and one letter awaited. It was from Social Security.

I’ve never had a lot of luck dealing with the government and this letter was not the exception. They informed me they were taking half of next months check in back payments and further checks are being cut by $200 a month. Growl and bark? bet your sweet tooth that’s what I was doing. No way to get ahold of them before Monday so I had a hissy fit. Life felt like someone had flushed a toilet and it was swirling down the drain in ungodly speed.

I lost all hope in the future as the only income I have is my retirement and it is not top tier level by any means. After complaining to our father about this and making it clear I wasn’t blaming him but was upset I asked for his help. Around ten minutes later a calmness overtook me and I started looking into any info I could for this insane problem.

I found it online. I had been sent notifications to submit proof of income which I hadn’t seen. When on the state’s site they hide them under some drop down and don’t offer any way to direct you to them. Hopefully Monday I can get this all straightened out and only half to deal with the cut in next months payment. Thank you Lord for the guidance and compassion you always provide.

Now I’m off to refill the beautiful black bean breakfast cup and try to understand the use of midis and vst’s which is way harder than I thought it would be. As for the microphone…let’s just say my bark is much more worse than my bite. 😂😂😂

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Culinary Adventures: When Food Abroad Bites Back!

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Prepare your taste buds and buckle up for a gastronomic rollercoaster ride as we explore the wild world of culinary adventures abroad. From mouth-watering delicacies to unexpected surprises, join me as we delve into the delightful and sometimes downright daring realm of international cuisine.

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1. The Spicy Spectacle

You pride yourself on your tolerance for heat, so when the friendly street vendor in Bangkok offers you a taste of their “mild” curry, you confidently accept with a smile. But as the first fiery bite hits your tongue like a flamethrower in a chili factory, you quickly realize that you may have underestimated the true meaning of “Thai spicy.” Cue the frantic gulps of water and the impromptu fire-breathing performance that leaves your fellow diners both impressed and slightly concerned for your well-being.

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2. The Mystery Meat Mishap

You’re feeling adventurous, so when the menu at that quaint little bistro in Paris lists “escargot” as the house specialty, you decide to throw caution to the wind and give it a try. But as you take your first tentative bite of the slimy delicacy, you can’t shake the sinking feeling that you may have just eaten something that was alive mere moments ago. Cue the existential crisis and the fervent vow to stick to more familiar fare for the remainder of your culinary adventures.

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3. The Cultural Conundrum

You’re determined to immerse yourself in the local culture, so when your gracious host in Tokyo presents you with a steaming bowl of what can only be described as “mystery soup,” you graciously accept with a smile and a bow. But as you tentatively take a sip and try to identify the various unidentifiable floating objects, you realize that sometimes, cultural immersion comes with a side of gastrointestinal distress. Cue the polite nods and the silent prayers for a speedy recovery as you struggle to maintain your composure in the face of culinary adversity.

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4. The Street Food Fiasco

You’ve heard rave reviews about the street food scene in Marrakech, so when you stumble upon a bustling market teeming with tantalizing smells and exotic flavors, you can’t resist the siren call of the street vendors. But as you dig into your first bite of falafel, you quickly realize that street food adventures come with their own set of risks – namely, the inevitable battle with food poisoning that leaves you regretting every culinary decision you’ve ever made.

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5. The Sweet Surprise

Amidst the chaos and confusion of culinary mishaps abroad, sometimes you stumble upon a hidden gem that restores your faith in the power of international cuisine. Whether it’s a piping hot plate of pad thai in Bangkok or a decadent slice of tiramisu in Rome, these unexpected delights serve as a delicious reminder that sometimes, the best culinary adventures are the ones that catch you by surprise.

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So there you have it, fellow foodies – a humorous glimpse into the world of culinary adventures abroad, where every bite is an adventure and every meal is a memory. Remember, no matter how many culinary mishaps you encounter along the way, it’s all part of the delicious journey. Until next time, happy eating and may your taste buds be forever adventurous!

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Jot down the first thing that comes to your mind.

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🌫️ Cuando los recuerdos pesan y todo se siente relativo

A veces hay días que se sienten eternos.
No porque duren más… sino porque duelen más.
Y es en esos momentos cuando los recuerdos aparecen como fantasmas 👻,
como si vinieran a recordarnos lo que ya no está.

🕰️ ¿El tiempo realmente pasa o solo lo sentimos?

Dicen que el tiempo lo cura todo,
pero también dicen que todo es relativo.
Entonces… ¿en qué quedamos?

A veces parece que el tiempo se estira como chicle,
y otras veces pasa volando sin que podamos agarrarlo.
¿Será que el tiempo no existe como creemos?
¿O será que solo existe en nuestra cabeza? 🤯

👁️‍🗨️ Todo es relativo… incluso la vida misma

Hay un punto donde, si lo pensás bien, nada tiene un valor absoluto.
Nos enseñan que ciertas cosas “valen” mucho: el éxito, el dinero, una obra de arte, una relación…
Pero si nadie le da valor, ¿realmente vale algo por sí sola?

🖼️ ¿El arte es arte aunque nadie lo vea?

Imaginá esto: alguien pinta un cuadro increíble, pero nadie lo ve.
¿Sigue siendo arte?
O solo se convierte en arte cuando alguien lo observa y lo valora.

💬 Nos dicen que el valor está en uno mismo,
pero vivimos en un mundo donde todo parece medirse por validación externa.
¿Podemos separar una cosa de la otra?

🎨 El Destino de Van Gogh y Tesla: Almas Incomprendidas 💔

¿Te has puesto a pensar que Van Gogh se fue de este mundo sin un peso en el bolsillo? 😔 Sus cuadros, esos que ahora todos admiran, solo empezaron a venderse cuando ya había cerrado sus ojos para siempre… Qué triste, ¿no? En vida nadie vio lo que realmente era: un artista con el alma rota 🖌️ Y ahora sus obras valen millones que nunca pudo disfrutar. Si tan solo lo hubieran valorado antes, quizás su historia tendría otro final…

Y Tesla… ay Tesla 💭⚡ Otro genio cuya luz se apagó en soledad y pobreza. Con toda esa mente brillante, terminó sus días sin reconocimiento, sin que nadie entendiera lo que nos estaba regalando.

Es como si el mundo fuera cruel con quienes ven más allá 🌧️ El verdadero valor de alguien muchas veces solo se descubre cuando ya no está… cuando ya es tarde para decirle «gracias por existir». A veces me pregunto cuántos genios estarán hoy a nuestro lado sin que los veamos… 💫

📉 Incluso los valores… ¿son moda?

En los últimos años me di cuenta de algo fuerte:
hasta los valores se han vuelto una tendencia.

Por ejemplo, respetar al otro fue algo que se impulsó mucho durante un tiempo.
Era lo correcto, lo que se esperaba… estaba «in».
Pero ahora, parece que eso quedó fuera de moda.
Hoy en día, la discriminación, la burla, la falta de empatía…
están en tendencia. Y eso da miedo 🧊

¿Desde cuándo tener valores depende de lo que esté de moda?

😶‍🌫️ No es lo que hacés… es quién lo hace

Desde muy chica me di cuenta de algo:
no es lo que hacés o dejás de hacer… es quién lo hace.

No es lo mismo si algo lo dice o hace una persona popular,
a que lo haga alguien común y corriente.

✨ La misma acción puede ser aplaudida o cancelada
dependiendo de cuántos seguidores tengas o si caés bien al algoritmo social del momento.

Todo eso también es relativo.
Y duele, porque deja en claro que la justicia y el juicio también vienen con filtro.

🔁 Reflexión final

A veces necesitamos recordar que sentirnos perdidos también es parte del camino.
Cuestionar lo que nos enseñaron, desarmar las verdades absolutas,
y permitirnos no tener todas las respuestas.

Porque en esta vida, donde todo es relativo…
lo único constante es lo que elegimos creer y sentir ❤️‍🔥

¿Te ha pasado sentir que todo pierde sentido por un rato?
Te leo en los comentarios 💭👇

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My Reflection of 2024

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Albeit it being March 2025, at the time of writing this article, let’s take a walk down memory lane.

2024 started with me being in the Obstetrics & Gynaecology (O&G) Department and ended with me being in the Medical Department.

Each department has its own sweet memory of which I shall cherish when I reflect upon my days as a House Officer.

2024 was also the year I took a 6-week-break from my journey as a House Officer, unintentionally, while I was in the Surgical Posting which was a good break indeed. It felt more like a school holiday and I returned home and was being pampered by my family and loved ones.

Sadly, it was also the time I regained all my weight that I have successfully lost along my journey as a House Officer and have more or less kept it on since then.

The struggle to lose weight has returned and amidst the busyness, I still somehow managed to eat which certainly did not help with my weight management.

2024 was also the year I met my partner and best friend as well as his family. My circle of loved ones have been expanded of which I am truly grateful and blessed. Despite being in a long distance relationship, we both try our best to make time for each other everyday which was not at all hard and leaned onto each other for moral support. It made my journey even easier and lovelier.

In short, 2024 flew by rather quickly just like every year. But, it was a beautiful year, one that’s filled with love and multiple odd and funny experiences as well as important ones.

There were challenges as well. The year would not be complete or interesting without it. However, I pulled through or else I would not be writing this reflection today.

As for 2025?

I’m hopeful and I know , it’s going to be another interesting and beautiful year.

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• My First Night Shift In Surgery | Housemanship Diaries
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• My Downfall In Surgery Which Led To My Extension – Housemanship Diaries
• 1 Year Of Housemanship Update – Housemanship Diaries
• Another Good Advice I Will Remember For The Longest Time – Housemanship Diaries
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Controlling My Food Choices and Portion

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I’ve always been a foodie.

I enjoy my going on food trips with my family or friends. If I’m bored or sleepy, I would look for a snack, which again is well, food.

Thus, over the years, the weight started piling up and towards the end of primary school, I noticed that my weight posed an issue. As a child, I was overweight. 

I recalled visiting the doctor once when I was in primary school coz I was unwell and he made me stand on the weighing scale and perhaps he did say more but at a young age, all I remembered was him yelling “Your child is FAT. FAT. FAT. FAT. F-A-T, FAT!”, all throughout my checkup and as I was leaving his office with my mom.

It felt like as if I had committed a felony. When in reality, he was trying to point out on how unhealthy it is for me, somehow in a rather direct way.

Over the years, I’ve struggled with my weight. It was never constant and always up and down. I’ve tried various diets which didn’t stuck long. 

The only time I properly lost weight was when I started my housemanship journey. Amidst me eating at the wrong time, somehow the weight just magically went off. Firstly, perhaps I was too occupied with work to eat properly, hence, unknowingly I tend to practice intermittent fasting almost everyday and secondly, my movements have increased dramatically. Walking above 15k steps per day was a norm.

However, as I progressed throughout my postings, I learnt how to fit eating back into my busy schedule and the weight started piling back slowly.

I brought the matter up to a dear friend and she mentioned that perhaps, I could try controlling my food portion. I reflected and realised that all these while, I’ve been consuming food in the usual portion which didn’t had an effect on me previously as I was constantly on the move.

Thus, if there is something I seriously need to pay more attention to, it would be my food choices as well as the portion. Food is extremely delicious and good. Sadly, I would say that I fall into the category of “Live to Eat” rather than “Eat to Live”.

Hence, it’s time for me to take charge and make a change towards my food choices and start my journey towards a healthier life.

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Surviving A Month Of Tagging In My Fourth Posting – Surgery | Housemanship Diaries

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I tagged for almost a month here.

The tagging timing in the Surgical Posting is from 7am till 10pm which is same as with other postings, except Obstetrics & Gynaecology (O&G).

In the Surgical Posting, we all have to complete a compulsory 14-Day-Tagging period irregardless of having “off-tagged”. Entering the Surgical Department as a senior or fourth poster, we are allocated to special shifts such as night shifts in ward or night shifts in ethe emergency department (ETD).

This serves as an advantage to us seniors as we do not have to work the morning shift for one week straight prior to having an off day. It is also better as it allows us to recuperate in between by not having to go to work extremely early.

However, the disadvantage is that our tagging period is somewhat extended.

As I mentioned before, we are required to complete a 14-Day-Tagging period. The night shift is not counted. Hence, the tagging duration can go up to 3 weeks.

For me, it extended up to 4 weeks due to my medical leaves (MC).

During my first week of tagging, I took a day of medical leave due to extreme fatigue and in the second week, I took 3 days of medical leaves due to extreme fatigue and COVID-19.

At the time of writing this article, I am on a 6 weeks medical leave due to my ATFL injury.

Sometimes I wonder, if I will ever exit this posting and proceed with my last which is medical.

Back to the tagging part, thus my tagging period lasted for a month.

Going to work as a tagger, I would leave home around 5:45am – 6am. Partly because I’m just tired and felt like I needed more rest because there will always be an active issue in ward and I am only able to return home at 10pm.

In the evening around 7pm, I would go for dinner after handing over to the night colleagues and completing my tasks and on-call reviews for the day. Most of the time, it would be our first meal of the day.

Some days, we would be done by 8-9pm and on some days, earlier. Most of us, upon completing, would head for dinner and head home or to just head home straightaway.

This is wrong of course but we were simply exhausted and burnt-out during the tagging period. Thus, we grab the opportunity while we could.

Towards the end of my tagging period, I started bringing packed dinner boxes and reheating them as work prior going back.

Surviving the tagging period in the Surgical Posting was hard and tiring but eventually, it did came to an end.

Thus, if you have yet to enter the Surgical Posting, the tagging period is indeed tiring as with any posting. However, try to learn as much as you can and take comfort in the fact that it does come to an end.

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Sometime ago, I wrote about “The Small Change I Hope My Blog Would Make“, whereby I mentioned that with every article written and uploaded on this website would spread some form of comfort and positivity, especially within the community of junior doctors.

Perhaps I’m just simply being optimistic. I have to. That keeps me going, even on difficult days to the point it has become a default reflex for me.

Nonetheless, I love to write and sometimes I do get lost that I tend to deviate from the topic at times and divert back to the main topic at hand.

Living in this world which has its flaws and problems at every corner, I try to see the good aspect of things and thus, I try to end my articles on a good note or some encouragement, which is mainly directed at me actually. However, I never know who may be reading my written articles and perhaps just need some encouragement and kind words at the moment.

It serves as a “happy ending” just like a fairytale in which I escape in one too many times.

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Utterly boring.

As far as I could recall, I have always associated studying with music.

Perhaps it is because while growing up, my mom had always filled the house with music and made me sit at a corner to study whether I liked it or not, I had to study.

Eventually, I’ve grown used to, to studying with music or reading with music.

In high school, I discovered the kind of music that I like as well as the suitable time for me to study.

Thus, music and studying goes hand-in-hand or I will not be able to focus.

Eventually, I shift to Podcasts and Audiobooks while I am going about doing my chores or cooking, I am either listening to these or music.

Even my daily morning writing has jazz or lo-fi playing in the background.

There are days of course when I do not feel like listening to my music or is simply not in the mood for other musics.

Thus, “lo-fi” or “jazz” are my go-to. Still musical nevertheless.

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The first thing that comes to my mind? What if it is completely uninteresting? Worse, what if nothing comes to mind? What if my brain is entirely empty? Oh no! That doesn’t leave us with much to discuss. This might be pretty weak as a writing prompt, eh?

Fortunately for me and my tiny old person brain, there was a thought that came to mind as I read the prompt. Unfortunately for you, my readers and only friends* it is nothing interesting. Just before I sat down at my desk and brought up wordpress.com, I had finished my daily exercise. 46 minutes of running (jogging, pronounced “yogging” with a soft J**) in place. The thought that was going through my head at that very moment was…

Holy crap my legs are dead. 46 minutes of jogging (yogging) in place is tough to pull off.

That is it. That was the first thing that came into my sad little brain. I wish it could have been something more interesting and exciting and intellectually stimulating but alas, no. My sincere apologies, friends.

*This is not a movie quote. It’s a paraphrase of a movie quote. A Clockwork Orange. In my teens and early 20’s it was a huge movie for me. When I was a little older I had a friend who had dealt with some bad things when she was young and it changed my perspective on the movie. It was triggering for her, though we didn’t use that term back then, and I saw it in a new light. Once I met Jen and Bellana I suddenly understood her problem with it and felt like even more of a fucking idiot for not having seen it before. The movie includes A LOT of violence against women and girls and now that I had a woman and a girl who were more important to me than anything else in the entire universe I understood that I could never watch that movie again. Now the movie is triggering for me too, in a different way but still pretty painful. Never again. Never ever. I still find myself quoting a few lines now and then because they are so completely burned into my brain, and the language created for the story is pretty unique and amazing. The treatment of the women in the story though… yikes. What the fuck was I thinking when I was a kid? How could I have been so blind and selfish? Never again.

**This is also a paraphrase of a movie quote. Anchorman. This one is something I can watch over and over again. Yeah there is a lot of misogyny in the story, but it literally exists to show how stupid men were toward women back in the 70’s. I mean, 60% of the time it’s accurate every time.

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