#codependence — Public Fediverse posts
Live and recent posts from across the Fediverse tagged #codependence, aggregated by home.social.
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Here’s the part most people never see:
Traditional marriage — the structure, not the individuals inside it — is built on relational assumptions that naturally produce #codependence.
Not because anyone intends harm, but because the #architecture itself requires certain roles to function.https://survivorliteracy.com/2026/05/15/traditional-marriage-as-a-codependence-architecture/
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Dr. Stan Tatkin: “The purpose of a relationship is fundamentally grounded in safety and security: not love, not attraction, not romance. If you’re not providing that need to ensure each other’s sense of #safety and #security, it defies the whole psychobiological purpose of being with another person.”
#quotes #assertive #positive #self #selfStudy #learning #joy #disappoint #couple #intimate #relationship #relationships #friendship #support #empathy #protection #codependence #concern #Tatkin
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Dr. Stan Tatkin: “The purpose of a relationship is fundamentally grounded in safety and security: not love, not attraction, not romance. If you’re not providing that need to ensure each other’s sense of #safety and #security, it defies the whole psychobiological purpose of being with another person.”
#quotes #assertive #positive #self #selfStudy #learning #joy #disappoint #couple #intimate #relationship #relationships #friendship #support #empathy #protection #codependence #concern #Tatkin
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Dr. Stan Tatkin: “The purpose of a relationship is fundamentally grounded in safety and security: not love, not attraction, not romance. If you’re not providing that need to ensure each other’s sense of #safety and #security, it defies the whole psychobiological purpose of being with another person.”
#quotes #assertive #positive #self #selfStudy #learning #joy #disappoint #couple #intimate #relationship #relationships #friendship #support #empathy #protection #codependence #concern #Tatkin
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Dr. Stan Tatkin: “The purpose of a relationship is fundamentally grounded in safety and security: not love, not attraction, not romance. If you’re not providing that need to ensure each other’s sense of #safety and #security, it defies the whole psychobiological purpose of being with another person.”
#quotes #assertive #positive #self #selfStudy #learning #joy #disappoint #couple #intimate #relationship #relationships #friendship #support #empathy #protection #codependence #concern #Tatkin
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Dr. Stan Tatkin: “The purpose of a relationship is fundamentally grounded in safety and security: not love, not attraction, not romance. If you’re not providing that need to ensure each other’s sense of #safety and #security, it defies the whole psychobiological purpose of being with another person.”
#quotes #assertive #positive #self #selfStudy #learning #joy #disappoint #couple #intimate #relationship #relationships #friendship #support #empathy #protection #codependence #concern #Tatkin
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CW: Mental Health, Codependency, Gaslighting
After doing the work in #therapy to recognize #codependence, #anxiety, #depression, and bad #copingmechanisms, is anyone else out there #triggered just by being around folks who haven’t done the work?
Just got so frustrated with my over bearing, codependent mother-in-law for not listening to my husband and I and she had the nerve to tell me I needed to calm down. The #gaslighting will not be tolerated. No ma’am.
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CW: Mental Health, Codependency, Gaslighting
After doing the work in #therapy to recognize #codependence, #anxiety, #depression, and bad #copingmechanisms, is anyone else out there #triggered just by being around folks who haven’t done the work?
Just got so frustrated with my over bearing, codependent mother-in-law for not listening to my husband and I and she had the nerve to tell me I needed to calm down. The #gaslighting will not be tolerated. No ma’am.
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CW: Mental Health, Codependency, Gaslighting
After doing the work in #therapy to recognize #codependence, #anxiety, #depression, and bad #copingmechanisms, is anyone else out there #triggered just by being around folks who haven’t done the work?
Just got so frustrated with my over bearing, codependent mother-in-law for not listening to my husband and I and she had the nerve to tell me I needed to calm down. The #gaslighting will not be tolerated. No ma’am.
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CW: Mental Health, Codependency, Gaslighting
After doing the work in #therapy to recognize #codependence, #anxiety, #depression, and bad #copingmechanisms, is anyone else out there #triggered just by being around folks who haven’t done the work?
Just got so frustrated with my over bearing, codependent mother-in-law for not listening to my husband and I and she had the nerve to tell me I needed to calm down. The #gaslighting will not be tolerated. No ma’am.
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CW: Mental Health, Codependency, Gaslighting
After doing the work in #therapy to recognize #codependence, #anxiety, #depression, and bad #copingmechanisms, is anyone else out there #triggered just by being around folks who haven’t done the work?
Just got so frustrated with my over bearing, codependent mother-in-law for not listening to my husband and I and she had the nerve to tell me I needed to calm down. The #gaslighting will not be tolerated. No ma’am.
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Hi, All!
I wonder if you would be willing to share any insights or experiences you might have navigating the following (boosts appreciated)
1. #Codependence / enmeshment within a romantic partnership and the resulting loss of self / self knowledge / being in touch with your own desires
2. Navigating partnership in which one person is dealing with chronic #disability
Thanks!
#askFedi -
Hi, All!
I wonder if you would be willing to share any insights or experiences you might have navigating the following (boosts appreciated)
1. #Codependence / enmeshment within a romantic partnership and the resulting loss of self / self knowledge / being in touch with your own desires
2. Navigating partnership in which one person is dealing with chronic #disability
Thanks!
#askFedi -
Hi, All!
I wonder if you would be willing to share any insights or experiences you might have navigating the following (boosts appreciated)
1. #Codependence / enmeshment within a romantic partnership and the resulting loss of self / self knowledge / being in touch with your own desires
2. Navigating partnership in which one person is dealing with chronic #disability
Thanks!
#askFedi -
Hi, All!
I wonder if you would be willing to share any insights or experiences you might have navigating the following (boosts appreciated)
1. #Codependence / enmeshment within a romantic partnership and the resulting loss of self / self knowledge / being in touch with your own desires
2. Navigating partnership in which one person is dealing with chronic #disability
Thanks!
#askFedi -
Hi, All!
I wonder if you would be willing to share any insights or experiences you might have navigating the following (boosts appreciated)
1. #Codependence / enmeshment within a romantic partnership and the resulting loss of self / self knowledge / being in touch with your own desires
2. Navigating partnership in which one person is dealing with chronic #disability
Thanks!
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I'm trying so hard to work my way through The Artist's Way right now. *So hard*.
But I also have a ton of responsibilities to people who genuinely need support, plus it's the holidays and that's always stressful, plus this entire year has been a flaming shit dumpster, plus I have a deep-seated need to feel like a good person by sacrificing myself for others (apparently).
So that's all going great. 💀
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I'm trying so hard to work my way through The Artist's Way right now. *So hard*.
But I also have a ton of responsibilities to people who genuinely need support, plus it's the holidays and that's always stressful, plus this entire year has been a flaming shit dumpster, plus I have a deep-seated need to feel like a good person by sacrificing myself for others (apparently).
So that's all going great. 💀
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I'm trying so hard to work my way through The Artist's Way right now. *So hard*.
But I also have a ton of responsibilities to people who genuinely need support, plus it's the holidays and that's always stressful, plus this entire year has been a flaming shit dumpster, plus I have a deep-seated need to feel like a good person by sacrificing myself for others (apparently).
So that's all going great. 💀
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I'm trying so hard to work my way through The Artist's Way right now. *So hard*.
But I also have a ton of responsibilities to people who genuinely need support, plus it's the holidays and that's always stressful, plus this entire year has been a flaming shit dumpster, plus I have a deep-seated need to feel like a good person by sacrificing myself for others (apparently).
So that's all going great. 💀
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I'm trying so hard to work my way through The Artist's Way right now. *So hard*.
But I also have a ton of responsibilities to people who genuinely need support, plus it's the holidays and that's always stressful, plus this entire year has been a flaming shit dumpster, plus I have a deep-seated need to feel like a good person by sacrificing myself for others (apparently).
So that's all going great. 💀
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#20books № 13: OKAY FINE I've only seen the film BUT I think about it enough to include the #book here also what are you the 20books police get a life far out
https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/17605621-behind-the-candelabra
#Liberace #narcissism #enmeshment #PsychologicalAbuse #autobiography #biopic #books #TrueStory #codependence #SelfObject
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#20books № 13: OKAY FINE I've only seen the film BUT I think about it enough to include the #book here also what are you the 20books police get a life far out
https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/17605621-behind-the-candelabra
#Liberace #narcissism #enmeshment #PsychologicalAbuse #autobiography #biopic #books #TrueStory #codependence #SelfObject
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#20books № 13: OKAY FINE I've only seen the film BUT I think about it enough to include the #book here also what are you the 20books police get a life far out
https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/17605621-behind-the-candelabra
#Liberace #narcissism #enmeshment #PsychologicalAbuse #autobiography #biopic #books #TrueStory #codependence #SelfObject
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Can anyone recommend any books on #codependency / #codependence that don't mention the 12 Steps, God, or a higher power?
It doesn't feel like it should be a big ask, but every list I can find has this one book at the top that opens with a Bible quote... :D
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Can anyone recommend any books on #codependency / #codependence that don't mention the 12 Steps, God, or a higher power?
It doesn't feel like it should be a big ask, but every list I can find has this one book at the top that opens with a Bible quote... :D
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Can anyone recommend any books on #codependency / #codependence that don't mention the 12 Steps, God, or a higher power?
It doesn't feel like it should be a big ask, but every list I can find has this one book at the top that opens with a Bible quote... :D
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Can anyone recommend any books on #codependency / #codependence that don't mention the 12 Steps, God, or a higher power?
It doesn't feel like it should be a big ask, but every list I can find has this one book at the top that opens with a Bible quote... :D
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Can anyone recommend any books on #codependency / #codependence that don't mention the 12 Steps, God, or a higher power?
It doesn't feel like it should be a big ask, but every list I can find has this one book at the top that opens with a Bible quote... :D
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This afternoon, I have been researching #codependence, #domesticviolence, #substanceabuse, and what constitutes stalking in the state of California. My heart is completely shattered.I have also been looking into #burnerphones.
I can also include #homophobia, #bankruptcy and #borderlinepersonalitydisorder, but I am trying to keep things simple right now.
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This afternoon, I have been researching #codependence, #domesticviolence, #substanceabuse, and what constitutes stalking in the state of California. My heart is completely shattered.I have also been looking into #burnerphones.
I can also include #homophobia, #bankruptcy and #borderlinepersonalitydisorder, but I am trying to keep things simple right now.
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This afternoon, I have been researching #codependence, #domesticviolence, #substanceabuse, and what constitutes stalking in the state of California. My heart is completely shattered.I have also been looking into #burnerphones.
I can also include #homophobia, #bankruptcy and #borderlinepersonalitydisorder, but I am trying to keep things simple right now.
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This afternoon, I have been researching #codependence, #domesticviolence, #substanceabuse, and what constitutes stalking in the state of California. My heart is completely shattered.I have also been looking into #burnerphones.
I can also include #homophobia, #bankruptcy and #borderlinepersonalitydisorder, but I am trying to keep things simple right now.
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This afternoon, I have been researching #codependence, #domesticviolence, #substanceabuse, and what constitutes stalking in the state of California. My heart is completely shattered.I have also been looking into #burnerphones.
I can also include #homophobia, #bankruptcy and #borderlinepersonalitydisorder, but I am trying to keep things simple right now.
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Is #Marriage Worth It?
Can long-term #do more harm than good? Where is the line between #intimacy and #codependence? -
Is #Marriage Worth It?
Can long-term #do more harm than good? Where is the line between #intimacy and #codependence? -
Is #Marriage Worth It?
Can long-term #do more harm than good? Where is the line between #intimacy and #codependence? -
Is #Marriage Worth It?
Can long-term #do more harm than good? Where is the line between #intimacy and #codependence? -
Sorry, this is paywalled content.
This describes both of my #EggshellParents and my childhood, along with #alcoholism (dad) and #codependence (mom, me).
I barely made it out alive, and didn't escape its destructive effects until my #marriage blew up and brought everything I'd repressed to a roiling boil.
#AdultChildrenOfAlcoholicsAndDysfunctionalFamilies #ACA saved my life in 2012 https://adultchildren.org/
https://www.stylist.co.uk/relationships/family-friends/eggshell-parents/789578
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Sorry, this is paywalled content.
This describes both of my #EggshellParents and my childhood, along with #alcoholism (dad) and #codependence (mom, me).
I barely made it out alive, and didn't escape its destructive effects until my #marriage blew up and brought everything I'd repressed to a roiling boil.
#AdultChildrenOfAlcoholicsAndDysfunctionalFamilies #ACA saved my life in 2012 https://adultchildren.org/
https://www.stylist.co.uk/relationships/family-friends/eggshell-parents/789578
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CW: Bitterness
“Not #forgiving is like drinking rat poison and then waiting for the rat to die.”
― Anne #Lamott, in "Traveling Mercies: Some Thoughts on #Faith" #forgiveness #grudges #revenge #spite #people #relationship #codependence #addiction #simpleEnglish #mentalHealth #quotes #resentment #bitterness #mentalHealth -
Anne #Lamott: “We can’t arrange peace or lasting improvement for the people we love most in the world. […] Help is the sunny side of #control. Stop helping so much. Don’t get your help and #goodness all over everybody.”
https://www.ted.com/talks/anne_lamott_12_truths_i_learned_from_life_and_writing/transcript?language=en&subtitle=en #people #relationships #friendship #support #empathy #protection #codependence 🐻#benevolence #kindness #addiction #simpleEnglish #mentalHealth -
#introduction, cont’d
My #Spiritual path has included #Addiction, #Codependence, and #Recovery, #Depression and thoughts of #Suicide, luckily punctuated my #OOBE #OutOfBodyExperiences proving to me anyway #AstralTravel is real.
I’ve practiced #Channeling, am a #ReikiMaster-Teacher able to Initiate others, former volunteer w #DistantHealingNetwork
I’ve been a moderator for #SelfInjury support groups, made a lot of friends diagnosed #DID and suspect I’m #Multiple too.
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#introduction, cont’d
My #Spiritual path has included #Addiction, #Codependence, and #Recovery, #Depression and thoughts of #Suicide, luckily punctuated my #OOBE #OutOfBodyExperiences proving to me anyway #AstralTravel is real.
I’ve practiced #Channeling, am a #ReikiMaster-Teacher able to Initiate others, former volunteer w #DistantHealingNetwork
I’ve been a moderator for #SelfInjury support groups, made a lot of friends diagnosed #DID and suspect I’m #Multiple too.
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#introduction, cont’d
My #Spiritual path has included #Addiction, #Codependence, and #Recovery, #Depression and thoughts of #Suicide, luckily punctuated my #OOBE #OutOfBodyExperiences proving to me anyway #AstralTravel is real.
I’ve practiced #Channeling, am a #ReikiMaster-Teacher able to Initiate others, former volunteer w #DistantHealingNetwork
I’ve been a moderator for #SelfInjury support groups, made a lot of friends diagnosed #DID and suspect I’m #Multiple too.
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#introduction, cont’d
My #Spiritual path has included #Addiction, #Codependence, and #Recovery, #Depression and thoughts of #Suicide, luckily punctuated my #OOBE #OutOfBodyExperiences proving to me anyway #AstralTravel is real.
I’ve practiced #Channeling, am a #ReikiMaster-Teacher able to Initiate others, former volunteer w #DistantHealingNetwork
I’ve been a moderator for #SelfInjury support groups, made a lot of friends diagnosed #DID and suspect I’m #Multiple too.
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#introduction, cont’d
My #Spiritual path has included #Addiction, #Codependence, and #Recovery, #Depression and thoughts of #Suicide, luckily punctuated my #OOBE #OutOfBodyExperiences proving to me anyway #AstralTravel is real.
I’ve practiced #Channeling, am a #ReikiMaster-Teacher able to Initiate others, former volunteer w #DistantHealingNetwork
I’ve been a moderator for #SelfInjury support groups, made a lot of friends diagnosed #DID and suspect I’m #Multiple too.