#codependence — Public Fediverse posts
Live and recent posts from across the Fediverse tagged #codependence, aggregated by home.social.
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Dr. Stan Tatkin: “The purpose of a relationship is fundamentally grounded in safety and security: not love, not attraction, not romance. If you’re not providing that need to ensure each other’s sense of #safety and #security, it defies the whole psychobiological purpose of being with another person.”
#quotes #assertive #positive #self #selfStudy #learning #joy #disappoint #couple #intimate #relationship #relationships #friendship #support #empathy #protection #codependence #concern #Tatkin
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CW: Mental Health, Codependency, Gaslighting
After doing the work in #therapy to recognize #codependence, #anxiety, #depression, and bad #copingmechanisms, is anyone else out there #triggered just by being around folks who haven’t done the work?
Just got so frustrated with my over bearing, codependent mother-in-law for not listening to my husband and I and she had the nerve to tell me I needed to calm down. The #gaslighting will not be tolerated. No ma’am.
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CW: Bitterness
“Not #forgiving is like drinking rat poison and then waiting for the rat to die.”
― Anne #Lamott, in "Traveling Mercies: Some Thoughts on #Faith" #forgiveness #grudges #revenge #spite #people #relationship #codependence #addiction #simpleEnglish #mentalHealth #quotes #resentment #bitterness #mentalHealth -
Anne #Lamott: “We can’t arrange peace or lasting improvement for the people we love most in the world. […] Help is the sunny side of #control. Stop helping so much. Don’t get your help and #goodness all over everybody.”
https://www.ted.com/talks/anne_lamott_12_truths_i_learned_from_life_and_writing/transcript?language=en&subtitle=en #people #relationships #friendship #support #empathy #protection #codependence 🐻#benevolence #kindness #addiction #simpleEnglish #mentalHealth -
#introduction, cont’d
My #Spiritual path has included #Addiction, #Codependence, and #Recovery, #Depression and thoughts of #Suicide, luckily punctuated my #OOBE #OutOfBodyExperiences proving to me anyway #AstralTravel is real.
I’ve practiced #Channeling, am a #ReikiMaster-Teacher able to Initiate others, former volunteer w #DistantHealingNetwork
I’ve been a moderator for #SelfInjury support groups, made a lot of friends diagnosed #DID and suspect I’m #Multiple too.