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  1. #Introduction Good morning! I managed to survive the transition of power yesterday with my normal good cheer in tact by grabbing a new Jodi Picoult novel, some hot coffee, chocolate and staying in bed for most of the day! I'm new here. I'm a Criminology Professor. I love #books #restaurants #flute #comfortfoods #colorado #USLSoccer and being a #bbw I'm happily single & #childfreebychoice I'm part of the 92% who are too tired and too disappointed to care about much anymore. Save yourselves. 💜

  2. I said that I'd just turned 50, and don't have a moment's regret, in fact, I'm so relieved I didn't.

    She said most people haven't supported her and have just criticised her decision.

    It's shocking that so many people think women (and men) can't make their own personal reproductive life choices. But this can be the biggest decision people make, it's forever life-changing.
    Be true to yourself. Have courage in your convictions.

    Be happily #Childfree #ChildfreeByChoice

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  3. I was having a conversation with someone at work this morning. She's in her mid-30s, and she's splitting from her boyfriend because he wants children, and she doesn't.

    She's been bombarded with people saying, "You'll change your mind", and "You'll miss out".

    ‪I told her I was sorry it's come to that, but I really respect her decision. That she is being true to herself and that she can't change her mind for his sake, when she would end up resenting him.
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    #Childfree
    #ChildfreeByChoice

  4. Isn't it about time we stopped #gaslighting women about their personal reproductive & lifestyle choices?
    For years, people (mostly mothers) went on at me to have children, coming up with the usual crap about "regretting it", that'd I would "change my mind" and all that BS I'd heard a thousand times.
    They presumed to know me more than I know myself.

    Guess what?
    I recently turned 50 and do not regret being child-free for one single second.

    #ChildFree #ChildFreeByChoice

    theguardian.com/wellness/2024/

  5. I haven't been nagged at for being child-free by choice in quite some time. Now I'm 50, I thought it had ceased.

    But no, only a couple of days ago I was asked if I regretted it and told that "some women have children around 50."

    Fuck, no.

    Oh, and the number of regrets I have?
    Well......

    #ChildFree #ChildFreeByChoice #NoRegrets

  6. #introduction

    #Georgia native, married, #childfreebychoice, lived within 40 miles of #Atlanta all my life. My wife is an #audiobook #narrator and I direct her when she’s narrating.

    I have been a #software engineer, professional #SCUBA diver and freelance #photographer.

    I ride a #motorcycle, am an #AFOL, and a #coffee and #espresso enthusiast.

    I play #guitar, #ukulele and #banjo and am learning #piano. I do #HamRadio (N4XOK) and hunt #POTA and #SOTA activators.

  7. I've just seen another reason why I'm child-free by choice.
    What a waste of a lovely sunny Saturday afternoon.
    #childfree #childfreebychoice

  8. I’ll never cease to be surprised by some people’s audacity. I know the internet is anonymous, so I shouldn’t be. But I am.
    I wrote a piece about why I don’t have kids and how I realized I never wanted them.
    And some guy took it upon himself to tell me that women shouldn’t be allowed to get an education until they’ve had at least two babies.
    Yes, women should be forced to have babies or be deprived of education because, apparently, humanity is in danger of dying out.

    #childfreebychoice
    #childfree
    lifewithoutchildren.com/will-h

  9. @BintyMcFrazzles

    Having kids is not for everyone. Lots of women are pressured to be mothers only to live in regret.

    #ChildFree #ChildFreeByChoice

  10. I'm so happy to be (nearly) 50 and happily child-free by choice. At least now, people have stopped badgering me about my life choice. I have no regrets.

    This would be my nightmare.
    "I regret having children, it has stripped my life of meaning. Everything that made my life what it was has been burnt to ash and I know other women feel the same, says 34-year-old Laura"

    #ChildFree #ChildFreeByChoice

    inews.co.uk/inews-lifestyle/re

  11. The pub garden is so much nicer now that the annoying family who ignored their shouting/screaming kid left.
    #ChildFree #ChildFreeByChoice

  12. CW: this may piss you off if you are child free or it might piss you off if you have children but for different reasons lmao

    I know better than to get into this with the people who posted this on LinkedIn but I need to vent somewhere so welcome to my TED Rant, you lucky fucks! 😆

    This pisses me off to no end. First of all, it's an incredibly white, privileged, non-disabled point of view. If you're from a marginalised group, or even multiply-marginalised, your child-free day definitely does NOT look like this. But hey, even if we leave that out and the only difference really is whether you have a brood or not, it's still absurd. And it's a shitty ass viewpoint that implies that child-free people do fuck-all during their days.

    We have pets, we have hobbies, we have interests, we might have caretaking duties, we are often asked to work longer "because we don't have families" (fun fact: kids are not the only way to have a family, but I digress). We also have to plan things, make appointments, etc. My days — and none of my child-free friends' days — have never looked like that.

    But you know what? If my days really did look like the people who made these image assume, hell, I'd probably also have children to fill that hole. 😏😜

    fwiw I do not have any issues with people having kids but I do have issues with the way some of them look down on us, infantilise us, and belittle us simply for choices that we've made — that was very likely open to them as well. It's not my fault you hate your life so how about you don't invent a false narrative for mine to make yourself feel superior?

    #ChildFree #ChildFreeByChoice

  13. Not been out on a Sunday afternoon in the pub for quite a while.
    I've forgotten how awful it is and how much parents fail to even vaguely try to stop their children screaming and running around.
    #childfree #childfreebychoice

  14. @noodlemaz
    Me, too.
    When I "encounter" children, it in no way makes me feel broody, it just reinforces I made the right decision to not reproduce.
    #ChildFreeByChoice #ChildFree #HappilyChildfree #ChildFreeLife

  15. Nothing more underlines I made the right decision to never reproduce than when I'm in an airport on on a plane.
    #childfree #childfreebychoice

  16. Why, when we're on holiday in #Lanzarote, are all the children who are screaming, running around and being general shits always British? It's never the Spanish children. I'm not saying they're immaculately behaved, but they're dealt with appropriately and quickly.
    They always sit, well-behaved when having dinner in an evening and not running around, laying on floors and getting under people's feet and creating a racket.
    Thank goodness I'm child-free. No regrets.
    #childfree #childfreebychoice

  17. One for my much loved and missed friend Mark Calderwood - but you can giggle along with us!

    #fun #halloween #FoodAllergies #ChildfreeByChoice #giggle

  18. Of course, eating meat has a massive impact on the planet, but no one ever seems to speak of the number one issue:
    There are simply too many people on the planet!
    #ChildFree #ChildFreeByChoice #ClimateChange

    bbc.co.uk/news/science-environ

  19. Tried to watch Maybe Baby for the Dabney Coleman/Jane Curtin pairing but my middle finger hurt after not even 15 minutes because the pro-baby propaganda was so cringey. “Every woman should be a mother” fuck all the way off up your own ass. #ChildfreeByChoice

  20. Some really sad stories from people who were child-free by choice, but ended up having children for a variety of reasons; from coercion (even rape) and accidents to 'simple' regret.

    As a child-free woman myself, my heart goes out to these people, as I have never regretted my choice for a single second.

    So if you're on the fence about having children, or actually made the choice to stay child-free, this is worth a read.

    bit.ly/43g8at8

    #ChildFree #ChildFreeByChoice #ChildFreeLife

  21. With so many new people joining Mastodon, I thought I’d do a re-#introduction.

    I’ve been a Silicon Valley tech lawyer for 18 (!) years and was a journalist before that. I mostly post about #SanFrancisco, #whippets (and #greyhounds and other #sighthounds), #music, being a #vegetarian and #childfreebychoice (woo!), #running, #knitting, #sobriety, and #music.

    This account is pseudonymous because I’ve been A Woman on the Internet for 30+ (!!!) years, IYKYK. Posts auto-delete after 2 weeks.

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