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How To Avoid Soaring Blogging Overload: 4 Helpful Ways
Just a heads-up: This blog post might make you think I’m talking about you.
A couple of years ago, the following post debuted on this blog.
7 Common Mistakes To Avoid When Deciding Whether To Follow A Blog
It got people rethinking why they follow particular blogs. And that was my aim. Job done! Or so I thought.
It won’t come as a surprise that, having already read many posts this year where the writer outlines how they are already feeling overwhelmed and guilty about not being able to keep up with reading, commenting, and writing posts (and we’re only a few days into the 2026), I thought it a good point to say a few things that some bloggers find difficult to talk about.
Is this you?
Not only is following too many blogs something that can have an adverse effect on your mental health, but it can also have a negative effect on your writing and creativity.
Some people act immediately when they start to feel overwhelmed, stressed, or guilty about blogging, but sadly, some leave the world of blogging, sometimes without giving any notice of their intention to do so.
Of course, some people also give up blogging on a positive note.
As I already mentioned, following too many blogs is one of the biggest pitfalls of blogging because many bloggers believe they have to follow every blogger that follows them, read their posts and leave comments on every post. Sure, some of those bloggers only ever leave short, non-engaging comments more as proof they’ve visited, but sadly, some go on to abandon their blogs when it all becomes too much.
Let me be clear. If anyone suggests it’s only polite to follow the blogs of everyone who follows your blog, they are talking nonsense. If I took that advice, I’d be following over 7,000 blogs. Can you imagine how overwhelming that would be and the effect it would have on my mental health, especially if I felt I had to read and comment on every post?
Thankfully, I only read and comment on posts that interest me.
Before following any blog, ask yourself these questions.
1. How often are new posts published?
The frequency at which posts are published is important. Some bloggers publish a new post once a month; others publish weekly; some publish daily; and then there are those who publish more than one post a day.
I once followed a blog where the host was publishing up to five new posts daily.
I could have ignored how often she published new posts, but because I found some of her posts interesting and she was following my blog, I felt obliged not only to follow her blog but also to read and comment on all her posts. Yes, those comments were short and non-engaging because I was not able to keep up.
This led to guilt when I missed any of her posts, left comments only to prove I visited and to feeling overwhelmed by it all.
Check how often posts are published before pressing the ‘subscribe’ button. If posts are published daily, and that’s too much for you, consider not following or do not feel obliged to read all the posts.
If you receive email notifications for new posts, consider getting one email a week with the posts they publish. Yes, there’s an option for that. You can then choose which of those posts you want to read.
How To Change How often You receive New Post Notifications
On the ‘Manage Subscriptions‘ page of your blog (under the ‘Reader‘ button), click on the three dots (Kebab menu) next to any of the WordPress.com blogs you follow and choose how frequently you get email notifications of new posts.
The choices are Instantly, Daily or Weekly.
Click the three dots (kebab menu) then select how often you receive new post emailsConsider getting new post notifications via web and mobile notifications if getting email notifications become too overwhelming.
If you are happy with the frequency of new posts, by all means, subscribe and enjoy.
2. Is the content interesting enough?
Time is something many of us cannot manage when reading blogs, usually because we feel we do not have time to read everything, yet we feel obliged to and often leave a comment as proof. It’s a surefire way to get yourself on a slippery slope toward blogging burnout.
If none of the content interests you, don’t feel obliged to follow or read.
Don’t become a ‘ghost’ follower by subscribing to blogs you know you’ll never visit. After all, would you read a book on a subject that did not interest you? Be honest and ask yourself, ‘will I actually read this blog, or will it just add guilt to my unread list?‘
Time is precious, and wasting it on reading content you have no interest in is one of the main blogging mistakes you can make.
Spend time on reading content that interests you and which may inspire you to leave genuine, thoughtful comments.
Leaving a thoughtful, genuine comment occasionally far outweighs the impact of posting brief, unengaging comments on every post simply to show you were there. Make your comments count, ensuring that “thank you” isn’t the only response that resonates.
Thoughtful comments show you are interested and want to engage. Short, non-engaging comments simply prove you visited. They do not prove you read the post.
And remember that if a blog you follow publishes posts on various subjects, you are under no obligation to read everything they publish. Read only what interests you.
3. Does the host look after their blog?
- Would you shop on a website with lots of broken links, a poor layout, or where you have difficulty finding what you are looking for?
- Would you follow a blog that is broken because the host keeps blaming WordPress or anybody else but themselves for the faults?
- Would you follow a poorly designed blog or one full of errors, broken links, and no sense of organisation?
- Would you follow a blog that no longer has security updates because of it’s outdated theme or has a comments section full of spam and unverified links?
I hope you answered ‘No’ to all of those questions.
Just as taking care of your home creates a warm, inviting, friendly, comfortable, and safe place for family and friends to visit, maintaining your blog is equally important. Bloggers who prioritise maintaining their blogs demonstrate their commitment to making a positive impression on visitors, showing that they truly care about their audience.
Unmaintained blogs present a significant security threat to visitors. Bloggers utilising unsupported WordPress themes are not receiving crucial security updates, jeopardising the safety of their audience, particularly when clicking links.
Consider carefully before following or engaging with any blog that presents itself as outdated, disorganised, unsafe, or uninviting due to its poor layout. This caution extends to blogs that permit hostile or inappropriate comments in the comment section.
4. What do you know about the hosts(s)?
- Who is the individual behind this blog?
- What is their name, and what is their geographical location?
- What topics do they cover in their writing?
These are critical questions to consider before deciding to follow any blog. Reflect thoroughly on the implications of following a blog that fails to provide sufficient information about its author(s). While their posts may appear engaging, the absence of identifiable information raises concerns regarding the safety and credibility of your decision to follow.
I have misjudged by following various blogs based on the appeal of their content, only to discover particulars of the hosts that were quite disconcerting. A more sensible approach would have been to inquire about the blog’s authorship and to consider why I should place my trust in them.
More often than not, some bloggers adopt a seemingly friendly manner to attract visitors, only to later reveal their true intentions, often by posting derogatory comments directed at you or fellow bloggers.
I’ve discovered that with time, I can quickly judge what people are like from their blog posts before deciding to follow their blogs. However, if I can’t find any information about who they are and what they blog about, I won’t follow.
A simple rule of thumb
If, after reading 3–5 posts, you’d be disappointed not to see the next post, it’s probably worth subscribing.
What has been your experience with following too many blogs? Have you felt overwhelmed? Do you prefer quantity or quality in blog subscriptions? How do you choose which blogs are worth your time? How important is it to know about the host behind a blog before following? What tips do you have for bloggers feeling overwhelmed by subscriptions? How do you balance reading, commenting, and writing?
You can follow me at the following sites.
The featured image on this blog post is sourced from Pixabay. AI reviewed spelling and grammar errors.
Copyright @ 2026 hughsviewsandnews.com – All rights reserved.
#BlogManagement #BlogSubscriptions #BloggingAdvice #BloggingBurnout #BloggingHelp #BloggingStress #BloggingTips #HowTo #MentalHealth #ReaderEngagement #WritingCommunity
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How To Avoid Soaring Blogging Overload: 4 Helpful Ways
Just a heads-up: This blog post might make you think I’m talking about you.
A couple of years ago, the following post debuted on this blog.
7 Common Mistakes To Avoid When Deciding Whether To Follow A Blog
It got people rethinking why they follow particular blogs. And that was my aim. Job done! Or so I thought.
It won’t come as a surprise that, having already read many posts this year where the writer outlines how they are already feeling overwhelmed and guilty about not being able to keep up with reading, commenting, and writing posts (and we’re only a few days into the 2026), I thought it a good point to say a few things that some bloggers find difficult to talk about.
Is this you?
Not only is following too many blogs something that can have an adverse effect on your mental health, but it can also have a negative effect on your writing and creativity.
Some people act immediately when they start to feel overwhelmed, stressed, or guilty about blogging, but sadly, some leave the world of blogging, sometimes without giving any notice of their intention to do so.
Of course, some people also give up blogging on a positive note.
As I already mentioned, following too many blogs is one of the biggest pitfalls of blogging because many bloggers believe they have to follow every blogger that follows them, read their posts and leave comments on every post. Sure, some of those bloggers only ever leave short, non-engaging comments more as proof they’ve visited, but sadly, some go on to abandon their blogs when it all becomes too much.
Let me be clear. If anyone suggests it’s only polite to follow the blogs of everyone who follows your blog, they are talking nonsense. If I took that advice, I’d be following over 7,000 blogs. Can you imagine how overwhelming that would be and the effect it would have on my mental health, especially if I felt I had to read and comment on every post?
Thankfully, I only read and comment on posts that interest me.
Before following any blog, ask yourself these questions.
1. How often are new posts published?
The frequency at which posts are published is important. Some bloggers publish a new post once a month; others publish weekly; some publish daily; and then there are those who publish more than one post a day.
I once followed a blog where the host was publishing up to five new posts daily.
I could have ignored how often she published new posts, but because I found some of her posts interesting and she was following my blog, I felt obliged not only to follow her blog but also to read and comment on all her posts. Yes, those comments were short and non-engaging because I was not able to keep up.
This led to guilt when I missed any of her posts, left comments only to prove I visited and to feeling overwhelmed by it all.
Check how often posts are published before pressing the ‘subscribe’ button. If posts are published daily, and that’s too much for you, consider not following or do not feel obliged to read all the posts.
If you receive email notifications for new posts, consider getting one email a week with the posts they publish. Yes, there’s an option for that. You can then choose which of those posts you want to read.
How To Change How often You receive New Post Notifications
On the ‘Manage Subscriptions‘ page of your blog (under the ‘Reader‘ button), click on the three dots (Kebab menu) next to any of the WordPress.com blogs you follow and choose how frequently you get email notifications of new posts.
The choices are Instantly, Daily or Weekly.
Click the three dots (kebab menu) then select how often you receive new post emailsConsider getting new post notifications via web and mobile notifications if getting email notifications become too overwhelming.
If you are happy with the frequency of new posts, by all means, subscribe and enjoy.
2. Is the content interesting enough?
Time is something many of us cannot manage when reading blogs, usually because we feel we do not have time to read everything, yet we feel obliged to and often leave a comment as proof. It’s a surefire way to get yourself on a slippery slope toward blogging burnout.
If none of the content interests you, don’t feel obliged to follow or read.
Don’t become a ‘ghost’ follower by subscribing to blogs you know you’ll never visit. After all, would you read a book on a subject that did not interest you? Be honest and ask yourself, ‘will I actually read this blog, or will it just add guilt to my unread list?‘
Time is precious, and wasting it on reading content you have no interest in is one of the main blogging mistakes you can make.
Spend time on reading content that interests you and which may inspire you to leave genuine, thoughtful comments.
Leaving a thoughtful, genuine comment occasionally far outweighs the impact of posting brief, unengaging comments on every post simply to show you were there. Make your comments count, ensuring that “thank you” isn’t the only response that resonates.
Thoughtful comments show you are interested and want to engage. Short, non-engaging comments simply prove you visited. They do not prove you read the post.
And remember that if a blog you follow publishes posts on various subjects, you are under no obligation to read everything they publish. Read only what interests you.
3. Does the host look after their blog?
- Would you shop on a website with lots of broken links, a poor layout, or where you have difficulty finding what you are looking for?
- Would you follow a blog that is broken because the host keeps blaming WordPress or anybody else but themselves for the faults?
- Would you follow a poorly designed blog or one full of errors, broken links, and no sense of organisation?
- Would you follow a blog that no longer has security updates because of it’s outdated theme or has a comments section full of spam and unverified links?
I hope you answered ‘No’ to all of those questions.
Just as taking care of your home creates a warm, inviting, friendly, comfortable, and safe place for family and friends to visit, maintaining your blog is equally important. Bloggers who prioritise maintaining their blogs demonstrate their commitment to making a positive impression on visitors, showing that they truly care about their audience.
Unmaintained blogs present a significant security threat to visitors. Bloggers utilising unsupported WordPress themes are not receiving crucial security updates, jeopardising the safety of their audience, particularly when clicking links.
Consider carefully before following or engaging with any blog that presents itself as outdated, disorganised, unsafe, or uninviting due to its poor layout. This caution extends to blogs that permit hostile or inappropriate comments in the comment section.
4. What do you know about the hosts(s)?
- Who is the individual behind this blog?
- What is their name, and what is their geographical location?
- What topics do they cover in their writing?
These are critical questions to consider before deciding to follow any blog. Reflect thoroughly on the implications of following a blog that fails to provide sufficient information about its author(s). While their posts may appear engaging, the absence of identifiable information raises concerns regarding the safety and credibility of your decision to follow.
I have misjudged by following various blogs based on the appeal of their content, only to discover particulars of the hosts that were quite disconcerting. A more sensible approach would have been to inquire about the blog’s authorship and to consider why I should place my trust in them.
More often than not, some bloggers adopt a seemingly friendly manner to attract visitors, only to later reveal their true intentions, often by posting derogatory comments directed at you or fellow bloggers.
I’ve discovered that with time, I can quickly judge what people are like from their blog posts before deciding to follow their blogs. However, if I can’t find any information about who they are and what they blog about, I won’t follow.
A simple rule of thumb
If, after reading 3–5 posts, you’d be disappointed not to see the next post, it’s probably worth subscribing.
What has been your experience with following too many blogs? Have you felt overwhelmed? Do you prefer quantity or quality in blog subscriptions? How do you choose which blogs are worth your time? How important is it to know about the host behind a blog before following? What tips do you have for bloggers feeling overwhelmed by subscriptions? How do you balance reading, commenting, and writing?
You can follow me at the following sites.
The featured image on this blog post is sourced from Pixabay. AI reviewed spelling and grammar errors.
Copyright @ 2026 hughsviewsandnews.com – All rights reserved.
#BlogManagement #BlogSubscriptions #BloggingAdvice #BloggingBurnout #BloggingHelp #BloggingStress #BloggingTips #HowTo #MentalHealth #ReaderEngagement #WritingCommunity
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How To Avoid Soaring Blogging Overload: 4 Helpful Ways
Just a heads-up: This blog post might make you think I’m talking about you.
A couple of years ago, the following post debuted on this blog.
7 Common Mistakes To Avoid When Deciding Whether To Follow A Blog
It got people rethinking why they follow particular blogs. And that was my aim. Job done! Or so I thought.
It won’t come as a surprise that, having already read many posts this year where the writer outlines how they are already feeling overwhelmed and guilty about not being able to keep up with reading, commenting, and writing posts (and we’re only a few days into the 2026), I thought it a good point to say a few things that some bloggers find difficult to talk about.
Is this you?
Not only is following too many blogs something that can have an adverse effect on your mental health, but it can also have a negative effect on your writing and creativity.
Some people act immediately when they start to feel overwhelmed, stressed, or guilty about blogging, but sadly, some leave the world of blogging, sometimes without giving any notice of their intention to do so.
Of course, some people also give up blogging on a positive note.
As I already mentioned, following too many blogs is one of the biggest pitfalls of blogging because many bloggers believe they have to follow every blogger that follows them, read their posts and leave comments on every post. Sure, some of those bloggers only ever leave short, non-engaging comments more as proof they’ve visited, but sadly, some go on to abandon their blogs when it all becomes too much.
Let me be clear. If anyone suggests it’s only polite to follow the blogs of everyone who follows your blog, they are talking nonsense. If I took that advice, I’d be following over 7,000 blogs. Can you imagine how overwhelming that would be and the effect it would have on my mental health, especially if I felt I had to read and comment on every post?
Thankfully, I only read and comment on posts that interest me.
Before following any blog, ask yourself these questions.
1. How often are new posts published?
The frequency at which posts are published is important. Some bloggers publish a new post once a month; others publish weekly; some publish daily; and then there are those who publish more than one post a day.
I once followed a blog where the host was publishing up to five new posts daily.
I could have ignored how often she published new posts, but because I found some of her posts interesting and she was following my blog, I felt obliged not only to follow her blog but also to read and comment on all her posts. Yes, those comments were short and non-engaging because I was not able to keep up.
This led to guilt when I missed any of her posts, left comments only to prove I visited and to feeling overwhelmed by it all.
Check how often posts are published before pressing the ‘subscribe’ button. If posts are published daily, and that’s too much for you, consider not following or do not feel obliged to read all the posts.
If you receive email notifications for new posts, consider getting one email a week with the posts they publish. Yes, there’s an option for that. You can then choose which of those posts you want to read.
How To Change How often You receive New Post Notifications
On the ‘Manage Subscriptions‘ page of your blog (under the ‘Reader‘ button), click on the three dots (Kebab menu) next to any of the WordPress.com blogs you follow and choose how frequently you get email notifications of new posts.
The choices are Instantly, Daily or Weekly.
Click the three dots (kebab menu) then select how often you receive new post emailsConsider getting new post notifications via web and mobile notifications if getting email notifications become too overwhelming.
If you are happy with the frequency of new posts, by all means, subscribe and enjoy.
2. Is the content interesting enough?
Time is something many of us cannot manage when reading blogs, usually because we feel we do not have time to read everything, yet we feel obliged to and often leave a comment as proof. It’s a surefire way to get yourself on a slippery slope toward blogging burnout.
If none of the content interests you, don’t feel obliged to follow or read.
Don’t become a ‘ghost’ follower by subscribing to blogs you know you’ll never visit. After all, would you read a book on a subject that did not interest you? Be honest and ask yourself, ‘will I actually read this blog, or will it just add guilt to my unread list?‘
Time is precious, and wasting it on reading content you have no interest in is one of the main blogging mistakes you can make.
Spend time on reading content that interests you and which may inspire you to leave genuine, thoughtful comments.
Leaving a thoughtful, genuine comment occasionally far outweighs the impact of posting brief, unengaging comments on every post simply to show you were there. Make your comments count, ensuring that “thank you” isn’t the only response that resonates.
Thoughtful comments show you are interested and want to engage. Short, non-engaging comments simply prove you visited. They do not prove you read the post.
And remember that if a blog you follow publishes posts on various subjects, you are under no obligation to read everything they publish. Read only what interests you.
3. Does the host look after their blog?
- Would you shop on a website with lots of broken links, a poor layout, or where you have difficulty finding what you are looking for?
- Would you follow a blog that is broken because the host keeps blaming WordPress or anybody else but themselves for the faults?
- Would you follow a poorly designed blog or one full of errors, broken links, and no sense of organisation?
- Would you follow a blog that no longer has security updates because of it’s outdated theme or has a comments section full of spam and unverified links?
I hope you answered ‘No’ to all of those questions.
Just as taking care of your home creates a warm, inviting, friendly, comfortable, and safe place for family and friends to visit, maintaining your blog is equally important. Bloggers who prioritise maintaining their blogs demonstrate their commitment to making a positive impression on visitors, showing that they truly care about their audience.
Unmaintained blogs present a significant security threat to visitors. Bloggers utilising unsupported WordPress themes are not receiving crucial security updates, jeopardising the safety of their audience, particularly when clicking links.
Consider carefully before following or engaging with any blog that presents itself as outdated, disorganised, unsafe, or uninviting due to its poor layout. This caution extends to blogs that permit hostile or inappropriate comments in the comment section.
4. What do you know about the hosts(s)?
- Who is the individual behind this blog?
- What is their name, and what is their geographical location?
- What topics do they cover in their writing?
These are critical questions to consider before deciding to follow any blog. Reflect thoroughly on the implications of following a blog that fails to provide sufficient information about its author(s). While their posts may appear engaging, the absence of identifiable information raises concerns regarding the safety and credibility of your decision to follow.
I have misjudged by following various blogs based on the appeal of their content, only to discover particulars of the hosts that were quite disconcerting. A more sensible approach would have been to inquire about the blog’s authorship and to consider why I should place my trust in them.
More often than not, some bloggers adopt a seemingly friendly manner to attract visitors, only to later reveal their true intentions, often by posting derogatory comments directed at you or fellow bloggers.
I’ve discovered that with time, I can quickly judge what people are like from their blog posts before deciding to follow their blogs. However, if I can’t find any information about who they are and what they blog about, I won’t follow.
A simple rule of thumb
If, after reading 3–5 posts, you’d be disappointed not to see the next post, it’s probably worth subscribing.
What has been your experience with following too many blogs? Have you felt overwhelmed? Do you prefer quantity or quality in blog subscriptions? How do you choose which blogs are worth your time? How important is it to know about the host behind a blog before following? What tips do you have for bloggers feeling overwhelmed by subscriptions? How do you balance reading, commenting, and writing?
You can follow me at the following sites.
The featured image on this blog post is sourced from Pixabay. AI reviewed spelling and grammar errors.
Copyright @ 2026 hughsviewsandnews.com – All rights reserved.
#BlogManagement #BlogSubscriptions #BloggingAdvice #BloggingBurnout #BloggingHelp #BloggingStress #BloggingTips #HowTo #MentalHealth #ReaderEngagement #WritingCommunity
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How To Avoid Soaring Blogging Overload: 4 Helpful Ways
Just a heads-up: This blog post might make you think I’m talking about you.
A couple of years ago, the following post debuted on this blog.
7 Common Mistakes To Avoid When Deciding Whether To Follow A Blog
It got people rethinking why they follow particular blogs. And that was my aim. Job done! Or so I thought.
It won’t come as a surprise that, having already read many posts this year where the writer outlines how they are already feeling overwhelmed and guilty about not being able to keep up with reading, commenting, and writing posts (and we’re only a few days into the 2026), I thought it a good point to say a few things that some bloggers find difficult to talk about.
Is this you?
Not only is following too many blogs something that can have an adverse effect on your mental health, but it can also have a negative effect on your writing and creativity.
Some people act immediately when they start to feel overwhelmed, stressed, or guilty about blogging, but sadly, some leave the world of blogging, sometimes without giving any notice of their intention to do so.
Of course, some people also give up blogging on a positive note.
As I already mentioned, following too many blogs is one of the biggest pitfalls of blogging because many bloggers believe they have to follow every blogger that follows them, read their posts and leave comments on every post. Sure, some of those bloggers only ever leave short, non-engaging comments more as proof they’ve visited, but sadly, some go on to abandon their blogs when it all becomes too much.
Let me be clear. If anyone suggests it’s only polite to follow the blogs of everyone who follows your blog, they are talking nonsense. If I took that advice, I’d be following over 7,000 blogs. Can you imagine how overwhelming that would be and the effect it would have on my mental health, especially if I felt I had to read and comment on every post?
Thankfully, I only read and comment on posts that interest me.
Before following any blog, ask yourself these questions.
1. How often are new posts published?
The frequency at which posts are published is important. Some bloggers publish a new post once a month; others publish weekly; some publish daily; and then there are those who publish more than one post a day.
I once followed a blog where the host was publishing up to five new posts daily.
I could have ignored how often she published new posts, but because I found some of her posts interesting and she was following my blog, I felt obliged not only to follow her blog but also to read and comment on all her posts. Yes, those comments were short and non-engaging because I was not able to keep up.
This led to guilt when I missed any of her posts, left comments only to prove I visited and to feeling overwhelmed by it all.
Check how often posts are published before pressing the ‘subscribe’ button. If posts are published daily, and that’s too much for you, consider not following or do not feel obliged to read all the posts.
If you receive email notifications for new posts, consider getting one email a week with the posts they publish. Yes, there’s an option for that. You can then choose which of those posts you want to read.
How To Change How often You receive New Post Notifications
On the ‘Manage Subscriptions‘ page of your blog (under the ‘Reader‘ button), click on the three dots (Kebab menu) next to any of the WordPress.com blogs you follow and choose how frequently you get email notifications of new posts.
The choices are Instantly, Daily or Weekly.
Click the three dots (kebab menu) then select how often you receive new post emailsConsider getting new post notifications via web and mobile notifications if getting email notifications become too overwhelming.
If you are happy with the frequency of new posts, by all means, subscribe and enjoy.
2. Is the content interesting enough?
Time is something many of us cannot manage when reading blogs, usually because we feel we do not have time to read everything, yet we feel obliged to and often leave a comment as proof. It’s a surefire way to get yourself on a slippery slope toward blogging burnout.
If none of the content interests you, don’t feel obliged to follow or read.
Don’t become a ‘ghost’ follower by subscribing to blogs you know you’ll never visit. After all, would you read a book on a subject that did not interest you? Be honest and ask yourself, ‘will I actually read this blog, or will it just add guilt to my unread list?‘
Time is precious, and wasting it on reading content you have no interest in is one of the main blogging mistakes you can make.
Spend time on reading content that interests you and which may inspire you to leave genuine, thoughtful comments.
Leaving a thoughtful, genuine comment occasionally far outweighs the impact of posting brief, unengaging comments on every post simply to show you were there. Make your comments count, ensuring that “thank you” isn’t the only response that resonates.
Thoughtful comments show you are interested and want to engage. Short, non-engaging comments simply prove you visited. They do not prove you read the post.
And remember that if a blog you follow publishes posts on various subjects, you are under no obligation to read everything they publish. Read only what interests you.
3. Does the host look after their blog?
- Would you shop on a website with lots of broken links, a poor layout, or where you have difficulty finding what you are looking for?
- Would you follow a blog that is broken because the host keeps blaming WordPress or anybody else but themselves for the faults?
- Would you follow a poorly designed blog or one full of errors, broken links, and no sense of organisation?
- Would you follow a blog that no longer has security updates because of it’s outdated theme or has a comments section full of spam and unverified links?
I hope you answered ‘No’ to all of those questions.
Just as taking care of your home creates a warm, inviting, friendly, comfortable, and safe place for family and friends to visit, maintaining your blog is equally important. Bloggers who prioritise maintaining their blogs demonstrate their commitment to making a positive impression on visitors, showing that they truly care about their audience.
Unmaintained blogs present a significant security threat to visitors. Bloggers utilising unsupported WordPress themes are not receiving crucial security updates, jeopardising the safety of their audience, particularly when clicking links.
Consider carefully before following or engaging with any blog that presents itself as outdated, disorganised, unsafe, or uninviting due to its poor layout. This caution extends to blogs that permit hostile or inappropriate comments in the comment section.
4. What do you know about the hosts(s)?
- Who is the individual behind this blog?
- What is their name, and what is their geographical location?
- What topics do they cover in their writing?
These are critical questions to consider before deciding to follow any blog. Reflect thoroughly on the implications of following a blog that fails to provide sufficient information about its author(s). While their posts may appear engaging, the absence of identifiable information raises concerns regarding the safety and credibility of your decision to follow.
I have misjudged by following various blogs based on the appeal of their content, only to discover particulars of the hosts that were quite disconcerting. A more sensible approach would have been to inquire about the blog’s authorship and to consider why I should place my trust in them.
More often than not, some bloggers adopt a seemingly friendly manner to attract visitors, only to later reveal their true intentions, often by posting derogatory comments directed at you or fellow bloggers.
I’ve discovered that with time, I can quickly judge what people are like from their blog posts before deciding to follow their blogs. However, if I can’t find any information about who they are and what they blog about, I won’t follow.
A simple rule of thumb
If, after reading 3–5 posts, you’d be disappointed not to see the next post, it’s probably worth subscribing.
What has been your experience with following too many blogs? Have you felt overwhelmed? Do you prefer quantity or quality in blog subscriptions? How do you choose which blogs are worth your time? How important is it to know about the host behind a blog before following? What tips do you have for bloggers feeling overwhelmed by subscriptions? How do you balance reading, commenting, and writing?
You can follow me at the following sites.
The featured image on this blog post is sourced from Pixabay. AI reviewed spelling and grammar errors.
Copyright @ 2026 hughsviewsandnews.com – All rights reserved.
#BlogManagement #BlogSubscriptions #BloggingAdvice #BloggingBurnout #BloggingHelp #BloggingStress #BloggingTips #HowTo #MentalHealth #ReaderEngagement #WritingCommunity
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79 Ways To Kill Your Blog
Have you ever killed your blog?
Did you know that a blog can be killed in ways other than just deleting it?
While not all of the items on the following list will kill your blog instantly, some are what some call slow burners, where the killing of your blog will take much longer.
Are you thinking of killing your blog?Are you responsible for doing any of these to your blog?
- Don’t have an ‘about me’ page on your blog.
- The ‘about me’ page takes visitors more than a minute to find.
- The ‘about me’ page starts with these words – ‘this is an example of an about me page…’
- The number of followers is more important to you than what you write and publish.
- Publishing too many poor-quality posts due to rushing them.
- Believe you have to publish content several times daily; otherwise, nobody will visit your blog.
- Have links on your blog that you have no idea are broken or can not be bothered to fix.
- You do not respond to comments.
- You do not respond to questions or queries.
- Don’t allow anyone to leave comments on your blog.
- Ignore your readers.
- Do not treat visitors to your blog as guests.
- Don’t give yourself a name by which you can be addressed in the comments section.
- Do not read other blogs.
- Do not leave comments on other blogs.
- Believe that blogging is going to make you rich.
- Believe your blog will make money within the first year.
- Leave links with no relevance (usually to your own posts) on the posts of other bloggers when not invited to do so.
- Don’t believe you need to promote your blog.
- Refuse to use social media to boost your blog posts.
- Refuse to keep up to date with blogging technology and changes.
- Think readers will find you rather than you find your readers.
- Do not use enough ‘white space’ between the paragraphs in your blog posts.
- The paragraphs in your posts are too long and blocky (more than 5 sentences long).
- Have no way readers can contact you on your blog other than by leaving a comment. (No ‘contact me’ page).
- Do not thank people for sharing your posts on their blogs.
- Do not use images and/or photos in any posts.
- Use images, photos and words (including lyrics) on your blog which are copyrighted and not free to use.
- Do not ask permission to use photos and/or images owned by other bloggers before using them.
- Ignore all copyright advice.
- Respond to constructive, negative comments in an unprofessional and unfriendly manner.
- Allow other bloggers to spam your blog with links that have nothing to do with the post’s content.
- Keep begging other bloggers to reblog your posts, visit, or follow your blog.
- Leave robotic praise comments on other blogs.
- Leave worthless comments on other blogs which clearly show you’ve not read the post.
- Do not take time to edit posts before publishing them.
- Do not preview your posts before publishing them.
- Inundate followers with too many posts in a short space of time instead of scheduling them out.
- Respond to comments left by trolls in the comments section of your blog, where all can read them.
- Allow trolls to leave comments on your blog.
- Allow trolls to attack other bloggers who have left comments.
- Personally attack other bloggers in the comments section on your own or different blogs.
- Steal the ideas of other bloggers and publish them on your blog as if the content is original and has been written by you.
- Fail to maintain and housekeep your blog regularly.
- Keep reblogging or rescheduling your own posts which are less than a few months old.
- Do not have a ‘landing’ page that will keep visitors returning.
- Ignore advice and feedback from other bloggers.
- Believe that blogging will only take up a few minutes of your time every week.
- Wake up dreading opening your blog because of all the comments you need to reply to.
- Keep telling your readers that you are giving blogging up, and keep coming back.
- Allow blogging to stress you out.
- Allow blogging to make you feel guilty.
- Your blog and/or blog posts are poorly laid out.
- Choose a font and background combination that makes it hard for visitors to read your posts.
- Fail to categorise all your blog posts (including reblogs).
- Fail to add ‘tags’ to your blog posts.
- Don’t understand ‘pingbacks’ and how to use them.
- Have no ‘search’ bar on your blog.
- Have a menu that is too top-heavy, making it overwhelming to readers.
- Fail to add your blog details to your Gravatar.
- Fail to connect your social media accounts to your blog.
- Have pop-up boxes on your blog that can not be removed unless somebody subscribes to your mailing list.
- Have pop-up boxes on your blog that appear every time someone visits, or until they subscribe to your mailing list.
- Keep suffering from blog envy when you read a post you’d wish you’d written.
- Regularly publish posts that tell your readers to buy your book(s) or other products and services you offer rather than allow them to decide if they want to buy them.
- You believe that blogging is all about the number of blog posts you can publish daily rather than what you are writing about.
- You think you have the power to read and comment on every new blog post on all the blogs you follow.
- Fail to update your readers that you are about to take a blogging break and how long it will last.
- Lose motivation and a desire to continue blogging when your blog stats take a nosedive.
- Believe that everyone will enjoy reading every post you write and publish.
- Believe that all your followers will read and comment on all your posts.
- Get upset when your blog loses followers.
- Argue with bloggers and readers for failing to read and comment on all your blog posts.
- Follow other blogs in the hope that they will follow back, then unfollow them again.
- Believe all your readers will agree with everything you say in your blog posts.
- Think nobody will dare to disagree with what you have to say by leaving a constructive comment telling you why they disagree.
- Criticise other bloggers behind their backs (in the comments section of your own blog or on other blogs) for wanting to help other bloggers.
- Maintain too many blogs, thus spreading yourself too thinly.
- Fail to take some time away from blogging (knowing that you need to) because you believe the blogging world can not survive without you.
What about you? What would you add to the list? How would you kill your blog other than by deleting it?
This is an updated version of a post I wrote and published in 2017.
You can find the answers to solving many of the above issues by clicking on ‘blogging tips’ in the menu at the top of my blog, but feel free to leave any questions in the comments section. I’m always happy to help.
Whatever you do, keep blogging fun!
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