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boost encouraged :boost_ok:
i don't know how many Tops, Masters, Mistresses, Dom/mes, etc follow me but question for those who do
what are your thoughts on brats?
i personally don't mind they exist, but none of mine would dare. i'm the type to give book reports on non-fiction for bratty behavior
#bdsm #topquestions #kink #domme #dominance #submission #bdsmcommunity #bdsmlife #dommelife #kinkster #kinkcommunity #powerexchange #dominantlife #femdom #toppride #kinklife #kinkpositive #bdsmlifestyle #safesaneconsensual #ssc
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CW: Kink, chastity, Locktober
With Locktober chastity mania looming, I think it's important to remember it's not *every* domme's cup of tea.
Chastity is so often a part of the discussion around female dominance, that people seem to it's a requisite. But dominant women aren't a hive mind and chastity is not a femdom essential!
So much of the writing out there is either about the benefits of chastity, or a how-to guide. So, I wrote an article outlining why it's not really my thing just to add a splash of diversity.
Thoughts from either side of the slash appreciated in the comments for a variety of perspectives.
https://www.silkenclaws.com/male-chastity-not-a-femdom-essential/
#kink #BDSM #femdom #chastity #sexblog #BDSMlifestyle #BDSMcommunity
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CW: Punishment, kink, power exchange
BDSM MYTH: Punishment = Beatings.
It's not true! Punishment is defined by the intent to modify behavior. It's not about physical pain, but creating an unpleasant consequence. And what's unpleasant is entirely an individual thing.
I'm in the processing of writing a comprehensive guide on effective punishment, and it just surprises me how common this misconceptions is.
#kink #BDSM #femdom #Dominant #submissive #BDSMcommunity #BDSMlifestyle #powerexchange
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I had a long frustrating conversation with someone yesterday who didn't understand the difference between 'domme' and 'therapist'.
Dominance is not a fix for personal issues. While a dynamic can help with structure and accountability for what you're already working on, a dom won't magically fix things for you.
To really enable someone else to have control over you, you need to have at least some control over yourself first.
#kink #BDSM #femdom #BDSMcommunity #BDSMlifestyle #powerexchange
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CW: D/s, kink, relationships
People are not projects. If a sub doesn't see you as a person, they're not going to start, no matter what you do. Basic empathy and decency isn't something you can 'train'.
Saw another newbie domme on Reddit making that mistake recently and I think it's a common pitfall. It's a weird variant of the 'but I can fix him' trope.
No, you can't. Don't try.
#kink #thoughts #relationships #BDSMcommunity #BDSMlifestyle #powerexchange #femdomblog #femdom
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WHAT IS KINK? An essay in thread form.
This thread is about kink and sexuality. It is primarily text with a bit of imagery, but there are some who may be offended by the subject matter itself. So out of respect for the Mastodon community, I’ll be putting the rest of this thread behind Content Warnings.
#kink #kinky #kinkster #kinktalk #BDSM #BDSMCommunity #BDSMTalk #BDSMPractice #sex #SexTalk #sexuality #sensuality #pervert #KinkyMastodon
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CW: Kink, latex, *no* ulterior motives *whatsoever*
My sub informed me he is putting on a latex catsuit purely FOR THE GOOD OF THE CATSUIT and absolutely NO OTHER REASON.
This seems plausible. I suspect no ulterior motives.
#latex #kink #submissive #Dominant #sub #BDSM #BDSMcommunity #BDSMlifestyle
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Auf Sexabled gibt es übrigens nicht nur Platz für meine eigenen Beiträge. Das Themengebiet #behinderung und #sexualität ist viel zu komplex, die Erfahrungen und Perspektiven sind zu divers, als dass ich sie alleine ausfüllen könnte. Deshalb gibt es Gastbeitrage.
Der folgende Beitrag ist so ein Gastbeitrag. Es geht um einen Abend in einem SM-Club.
#bdsm #fetisch# #dating #inklusion #inkluencer #disability #bdsmcommunity #bdsmlife
https://sexabled.de/2019/10/31/friends-with-benefits-ein-abend-im-grande-opera/
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Der Artikel im Vice Magazin, der ebenfalls noch unter meinem #deadname veröffentlicht wurde, wird für mich wahrscheinlich immer ein Maßstab dafür bleiben, wie man als Journalist*in und Fotograf*in mit Menschen mit #behinderung arbeiten sollte. Sowohl der Journalist, als auch der Fotograf, bekamen dafür einen Preis.
Inhaltlich geht es erneut um #bdsm, aber auch um meinen persönlichen Hintergrund.
#bdsm #bdsmcommunity #bdsmlife #disability #inkluencer
https://www.vice.com/de/article/qv7aa7/bdsm-mit-behinderung-so-lebt-christian-seinen-fetisch-aus