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#SelfConfidence #Leadership #career
#Assertiveness #Assertive #Boundaries #Respect #Confident #Communication #StrongMindset

Many a times, at least from my socio-economic place, a No must be an ANGRY No. Anger Phobia makes us even more unsafe. To never have to be angry is a PRIVILEGE! #anger #AngerPhobia #spirituality #assertiveness #neurodivergence

Some neurotypical person may have to explain to me why the socially acceptable thing to do when someone calls you pretentious is to checks notes say thank you and lick their boot.

I'm autistic, so as we all know, I struggle to understand "common sense" things like that and am eager to learn so that I can be included in this delusionally toxic society of ours.

Some of that was likely sarcasm.

Things to keep in mind:

• If you're a woman, and someone calls you manipulative, they're afraid of the only power they've allowed you to keep.
• If you're an autist, and someone calls you pretentious, they are forcing you to do emotional labor to protect them, your attacker, from their own insecurity.

Never accept as feedback what is intended as abuse.

#SocialEngineering #BoundarySetting #EmotionalLabor #Sociology #Ontology #ActuallyAutistic #Neurodiversity #AutisticJoy #DoubleEmpathyProblem #Masking #IntersectionalFeminism #PowerDynamics #Assertiveness #InternalizedMisogyny

Some neurotypical person may have to explain to me why the socially acceptable thing to do when someone calls you pretentious is to checks notes say thank you and lick their boot.

I'm autistic, so as we all know, I struggle to understand "common sense" things like that and am eager to learn so that I can be included in this delusionally toxic society of ours.

Some of that was likely sarcasm.

Things to keep in mind:

• If you're a woman, and someone calls you manipulative, they're afraid of the only power they've allowed you to keep.
• If you're an autist, and someone calls you pretentious, they are forcing you to do emotional labor to protect them, your attacker, from their own insecurity.

Never accept as feedback what is intended as abuse.

#SocialEngineering #BoundarySetting #EmotionalLabor #Sociology #Ontology #ActuallyAutistic #Neurodiversity #AutisticJoy #DoubleEmpathyProblem #Masking #IntersectionalFeminism #PowerDynamics #Assertiveness #InternalizedMisogyny

Some neurotypical person may have to explain to me why the socially acceptable thing to do when someone calls you pretentious is to checks notes say thank you and lick their boot.

I'm autistic, so as we all know, I struggle to understand "common sense" things like that and am eager to learn so that I can be included in this delusionally toxic society of ours.

Some of that was likely sarcasm.

Things to keep in mind:

• If you're a woman, and someone calls you manipulative, they're afraid of the only power they've allowed you to keep.
• If you're an autist, and someone calls you pretentious, they are forcing you to do emotional labor to protect them, your attacker, from their own insecurity.

Never accept as feedback what is intended as abuse.

#SocialEngineering #BoundarySetting #EmotionalLabor #Sociology #Ontology #ActuallyAutistic #Neurodiversity #AutisticJoy #DoubleEmpathyProblem #Masking #IntersectionalFeminism #PowerDynamics #Assertiveness #InternalizedMisogyny

Some neurotypical person may have to explain to me why the socially acceptable thing to do when someone calls you pretentious is to checks notes say thank you and lick their boot.

I'm autistic, so as we all know, I struggle to understand "common sense" things like that and am eager to learn so that I can be included in this delusionally toxic society of ours.

Some of that was likely sarcasm.

Things to keep in mind:

• If you're a woman, and someone calls you manipulative, they're afraid of the only power they've allowed you to keep.
• If you're an autist, and someone calls you pretentious, they are forcing you to do emotional labor to protect them, your attacker, from their own insecurity.

Never accept as feedback what is intended as abuse.

#SocialEngineering #BoundarySetting #EmotionalLabor #Sociology #Ontology #ActuallyAutistic #Neurodiversity #AutisticJoy #DoubleEmpathyProblem #Masking #IntersectionalFeminism #PowerDynamics #Assertiveness #InternalizedMisogyny

Some neurotypical person may have to explain to me why the socially acceptable thing to do when someone calls you pretentious is to checks notes say thank you and lick their boot.

I'm autistic, so as we all know, I struggle to understand "common sense" things like that and am eager to learn so that I can be included in this delusionally toxic society of ours.

Some of that was likely sarcasm.

Things to keep in mind:

• If you're a woman, and someone calls you manipulative, they're afraid of the only power they've allowed you to keep.
• If you're an autist, and someone calls you pretentious, they are forcing you to do emotional labor to protect them, your attacker, from their own insecurity.

Never accept as feedback what is intended as abuse.

#SocialEngineering #BoundarySetting #EmotionalLabor #Sociology #Ontology #ActuallyAutistic #Neurodiversity #AutisticJoy #DoubleEmpathyProblem #Masking #IntersectionalFeminism #PowerDynamics #Assertiveness #InternalizedMisogyny

Psychologie des Business Ghosting: Manipulation mit Schweigen - Ghosting, ein aus der Privatsphäre bekanntes Phänomen, kann auch für Unternehmen wie auch Mitarbeiter ein großes Problem darstellen und psychologische Schäden verursachen. Wie geht man damit um?
#Assertiveness #Communication #CorporateCulture #Manipulation #NegativeEmotions #Psychology #Rhetoric #Team

https://berufebilder.de/psychologie-ghosting-manipulation-schweigen/

Psychologie des Business Ghosting: Manipulation mit Schweigen - Ghosting, ein aus der Privatsphäre bekanntes Phänomen, kann auch für Unternehmen wie auch Mitarbeiter ein großes Problem darstellen und psychologische Schäden verursachen. Wie geht man damit um? #Assertiveness #Communication #CorporateCulture #Manipulation #NegativeEmotions #Psychology #Rhetoric #Team

https://berufebilder.de/psychologie-ghosting-manipulation-schweigen/

A quotation from Nassim Nicholas Taleb

Alas, one cannot assert authority by accepting one’s own fallibility. Simply, people need to be blinded by knowledge — we are made to follow leaders who can gather people together because the advantages of being in groups trump the disadvantages of being alone. It has been more profitable for us to bind together in the wrong direction than to be alone in the right one. Those who have followed the assertive idiot rather than the introspective wise person have passed us some of their genes. This is apparent from a social pathology: psychopaths rally followers.

Nassim Nicholas Taleb (b. 1960) Lebanese-American essayist, statistician, risk analyst, aphorist
The Black Swan, Part 2, ch. 12 “Epistemocracy, a Dream” (2007)

Sourcing, notes: wist.info/taleb-nassim-nichola…

#quote #quotes #quotation #qotd #blackswan #advantage #assertiveness #authority #fallibility #followers #groups #introspection #leaders #leadership #psychopath #selfconfidence #selfcriticism #tribalism

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#Assertiveness #Communication #Marketing #NegativeEmotions #Psychology #Sales

https://berufebilder.de/erfolg-arbeiten-selbstdarstellung-eigenpraesentation/

#MiddleKingdom & boomerang effect
"hav'g moved fr prior humiliation to a posit'n of strength, #China is vengeful.. Their #assertiveness has positioned them w'in a place of global prominence, albeit thru largely unchecked #aggression.. wrt mgt & utilisation of #MekongRiver, China has been acting in a #dominant manner w/o transparency.. e Middle Kingdom was e ctr of civilisation. Acting in e interests of greater good thru civility reps e most beneficial aspect of humankind"
https://www.bangkokpost.com/opinion/opinion/2889953/middle-kingdom-and-boomerang-effect

"Though Trump is a small-timer at this point, Cohn (who’s surrounded on their first date by various mobsters) correctly identifies him as a dreamer determined to do whatever it takes to be Rockefeller-grade rich, as well as something of an empty vessel into which he can pour all his evil. Pour he does, gradually taking Trump under his wing and indoctrinating him in the ways of unabashed cutthroat nastiness.

"To succeed, Cohn instructs, Trump must follow three surefire rules: attack, attack, attack; deny everything and admit nothing; and never acknowledge defeat and always claim victory.”

Nick Schager writes about ‘The Apprentice’ movie: https://www.thedailybeast.com/obsessed/trump-rapes-and-pillages-his-way-through-scathing-apprentice-movie

#RoyCohn #Trump #DonaldTrump #TheApprentice #trumpism #aggressivity #aggressive #assertiveness #masculinity #manliness #Russia #treason #AmericanDream #USPol #USPolitics #GOP #law #justice #villains #villainy #ambition #success #greed #learning #initiation #reputation #believe #USA #MAGA #misogyny #sexualViolence #rapeCulture #beliefs #supremacy

Plädoyer für Introvertierte: Leise Revolution? - Introvertierte, leise Menschen werden in unserer Gesellschaft, in der Extraversion das Normale zu sein scheint, oft nicht genügend beachtet. Ich will einen Beitrag dazu leisten, dass leise Menschen sich trauen, selbstbewusst zu sich zu stehen. #Assertiveness #ChrisWolf #Image #Marketing #PositiveMindset #SocialMedia

https://berufebilder.de/plaedoyer-introvertierte-leise-revolution/

I need to stop agreeing to things that are suddenly sprung on me without fair warning or time required to properly consider the implications. I also need to do everything else on this list:
https://ccbhc.org/13-ways-to-stop-being-a-people-pleaser/
#peoplepleasing #boundaries #assertiveness #selfesteem #confidence #mentalhealth

What's the difference between being assertive & being aggressive?
Your gender
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Cartoon by Judy #Horacek https://horacek.com.au/ #quotes #humour #cartoons #assertiveness #anger #maleFragility #sociology #patriarchy #feminism via @ulrike https://the.curlybracket.net/2022/03/23/workshops.html

Implementation of the Bellman's rule "What I tell you three times is true" (from Lewis Carroll's "The Hunting of the Snark", 1876). The #Haskell code is here: https://snrk.de/truth-isnt-truth/

This is a great tool for fact checking.
This is a great tool for fact checking.
This is a great tool for fact checking.

#TheHuntingOfTheSnark, #LewisCarroll, #WhatITellYouThreeTimesIsTrue, #BellmansRule, #thrice, #threeTimes, #truth, #facts, #assertion, #assertiveness, #proof, #FactChecking

I'm Malarvilie, former #historyteacher & SLT. I provide #leadershipdevelopment coaching & training and #coaching skills courses for educational professionals.
I'm also working with some fab educators on a range of projects. I'm 1/3 of the #LoudModerates and co-founder of #TheCoachingCollaborative & #EduCoachesAssemble!
I'm passionate about developing leaders #assertiveness #emotionalintelligence & #humanityinleadership skills.
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