#aspie — Public Fediverse posts
Live and recent posts from across the Fediverse tagged #aspie, aggregated by home.social.
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El tractor parado y el oso cargando como una bestia 😅 está claro que al patrón le sale más barato el #gofio del oso que el gasoil del tractor 😅💪🐻
(The tractor's stopped here and the big farm bear's carrying loads like a beast 😅 It's clear the bear's owner finds the bear's #gofio cheaper than the tractor's diesel 😅💪🐻)
#farm #farming #rural_life #rural #agroecology #naturism #farmbear #aspie #autistic
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Le trajeron un regalo de todo corazón para el oso 🐻🐮
(A present for the big farm bear from a very, very good human)
#farm #farming #rural_life #rural #agroecology #naturism #farmbear #aspie #autistic
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RE: https://mas.to/@PatternChaser/116919119903407560
If you enjoy video games, then know that the entire industry runs on #neurospice. Everything good that comes put of it is due to some #aspie obsession or #adhd random insight.
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El supervisor comprobando que todo está en orden y bajo control 🐓🚨🫏🐻
(The farm supervisor checking that everything is in order on the farm)
#farm #farming #rural_life #rural #agroecology #naturism #farmbear #aspie #autistic
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El supervisor dando instrucciones al oso🐓📣🐻
(The supervisor giving instructions to the big farm bear)
#farm #farming #rural_life #rural #agroecology #naturism #farmbear #aspie #autistic
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Notre petit #autiste a compris le principe d'une #devinette
Plusieurs fois par jour: il pose donc des #questions mais sans avoir de réponses cohérentes. C'est à nous de trouver le gag dans la #réponse et c'est un #jeu très créatif et amusant.Par exemple: qu'est-ce qui a 25 pattes ?
Des suggestions?
#énigme #jeux #enfant #enfants #famille #ass #asperger #aspi #aspiepower #aspie #autisme #autistique #neurodivers #neurodiversité #tousdifférents #jeuxdemots #funpun #humour
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Hora de cuidar y echar de comer a los amigos del oso 🐻
(It’s time to look after and feed the big farm bear’s friends)
#farm #farming #rural_life #rural #agroecology #naturism #farmbear #aspie #autistic
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La tormenta Therese pega fuerte 🐻⛈️
(The storm Therese punchs harder)
#farm #farming #rural_life #rural #agroecology #naturism #farmbear #aspie #autistic #SanMateo
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Tareas del patrón para hoy: Poner al oso a cargar troncos 🐻🪵
(Today owner's chores --> The big farm bear carrying logs)
#farm #farming #rural_life #rural #agroecology #naturism #farmbear #aspie #autistic
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A alguien le ha pasado que se haya dejado de recibir notificaciones en la página web de Mastodon con Firefox? La campana de pronto ya no se activa cuando alguien comenta o marca como favorita o impulsa una publicación 🐻❓
(Bear question: has anyone else noticed that they are no longer receiving notifications on the Mastodon website with Firefox? The bell suddenly stopped working.)
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El oso nervioso esperando por los Reyes Magos (aunque mas ilusionado por conocer sus camellos) 🐻🐪🐪🐪
(The nervous big farm bear waiting for the Three Wise Men, although always more happy to meet their camels)
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Alguien le puede explicar al oso para que sirve el circulo que aparece cuando se pone un texto alternativo a una foto? gracias 🐻❓
(Would someone be so kind as to the big farm bear what the circle that appears when you add alternative text to a photo is for? Thank you)
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En esta foto que tomó el patrón a toda la familia de osos junta, es dificil distinguir quién de todos es este oso? 🐻x9
(Owner took a photo of the bear family gathering and now is it now difficult to tell which one of them will be the big farm bear?)
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I think, after 20 years since my diagnosis as an #Aspie, I'm finally able to "pass" as a #neurotypical successfully if I choose.
I just had an epiphany that, to me at least, might be the "key" to unlocking this secret - small talk's banality IS important! #Gossip MATTERS! It's mandatory! We're about to get all #philosophy up in here!
See, you know how we all have two faces - the one that we show to the world, and the one that we keep to ourselves or our closest companions? The Outer Self and the Inner Self?
That's what's called the "#Human Condition", also known as the "Hedgehog's Dilemma" (reference - https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hedgehog%27s_dilemma ).
So summarize all of that for you, the long and short of it is this:
We are individuals that want to "join" with others (think "relationships" of all sorts).
That creates two concepts - The #Self, and The #Other
We want and desire for The Self and The Other to be one, to be merged, joined, ultimately. But, there's a couple of problems with that.
There's the fear of LOSING The Self when joining with The Other.
And, there's the fear of rejection from The Other. From being cast aside, forgotten, ignored.
So The Self, in defense of itself, creates The Wall. The Wall divides us, keeps us separated, but safe.
It's a translucent wall - and we control the opacity. Through it, we choose how much of The Self to show to The Other, how much we risk rejection, or fear of being absorbed and losing our individuality.
And that's where "small talk" comes into play. By using "small talk", #neurotypical people clear the opacity of their wall; risking vulnerability (just a little!) to The Other. Showing just a LITTLE bit more of The Self.
Every "small talk" conversation should be thought of in these terms:
The Self: "Oh Hi, Other! I'm a person! A real human with needs, desires, feelings, emotions. Are you?"
The Other: "Hey there Self, yeah I too am a real human with needs, desires, feelings, emotions! We should totally chill more often!"
The Self: "A'ight, lets hang, my man!"
The Other: "True Dawg, True. For sho!"
I have no idea why that turned into a #racist remake of the movie Friday at the end, but the point is this.
Every bit of small talk, every communication between you and another person about the minuscule happenings in your life, in their life... it's tiny peeks through The Wall. It allows for a collection of "mini-risks", that allow neurotypicals to "gel" and learn to start to trust each other, to build stronger bonds.
To really start to merge... just a little closer to each other.
Now that I know that... I don't think I'll see any public gatherings, informal meetings, get-togethers the same way again.
Or, to sum it all up in a horribly culturally-appropriating way:
"Chillin' wit yer homies makes you a pack, yo!
Family."
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El patrón encontró hoy al oso dormido como un tronco... ojalá pudiera recordar, ¿qué estaba soñando? 🐻 🪵 💤
(Owner found the big farm bear today sleeping like a log... I would like to remember, what would the bear be dreaming about?)
#farm #farming #rural_life #rural #naturism #farmbear #aspie #autistic