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Why Do We Trust the Wrong People? The Psychology Behind Deception

[Psychology Behind My Fiction Series – Blog 1 :: Questions about trust and deception were part of what inspired me while writing AN UNEXPECTED DETOUR]

Trust is a powerful force that shapes human relationships. We make many decisions based on trust. We trust collagues with responsibilities and we end up trusting strangers in sharing a ride, signing a contract, or following advice.

But history and personal experiences show that trust can be dangerously misplaced. Deception rarely arrives wearing a warning sign and that fascinates me…

People who betray us are seldom the ones we suspect. They are mostly the ones who appear the most convincing, the most helpful, or the most trustworthy. They understand what we want to hear and how we want to feel. This raises an uncomfortable question:

Why do intelligent humans ignore red flags?

This has more to do with emotions. Human beings tend to seek connection. We want to believe that people are who they appear to be. We want our relationships to be genuine. As soon as we invest emotionally in a person, our minds starts filtering information through that investment. We attach explanations with inconsistencies. We rationalize suspicious behavior. We convince ourselves that our instincts must be wrong simply because the mind knows that the alternative is too painful to accept.

As a writer and an observer of human behavior, this psychological conflict between trust and doubt has always fascinated me. Not all villains hiding in the shadows contribute to gripping stories. Sometimes stories are about ordinary people struggling to determine whom they can trust when appearances become unreliable.

When it comes to real life, deception happens minus the drama. It gets evident through omissions, half-truths, and carefully constructed narratives. And when the truth emerges, the emotional damage has already been done.

I feel that is why stories involving psychological suspense resonate so deeply with readers. They reflect the fear of realizing that someone we trusted was never who we believed them to be.

As an author, I am repeatedly drawn to these themes because they explore trust, vulnerability, manipulation, perception, and self-deception.

I was curious to delve deeper into trust and deception and those questions were part of what inspired me while writing AN UNEXPECTED DETOUR. The novel explores how relationships, assumptions, and hidden truths can shape lives in ways we never anticipate.

Some of our life’s biggest detours begin with a simple belief:

“I trust this person blindly.”

And that belief might turn out to be the greatest illusion of all.

— Pallabi Ghoshal
Author of AN UNEXPECTED DETOUR

Why Do We Trust the Wrong People? The Psychology Behind Deception

[Psychology Behind My Fiction Series – Blog 1 :: Questions about trust and deception were part of what inspired me while writing AN UNEXPECTED DETOUR]

Trust is a powerful force that shapes human relationships. We make many decisions based on trust. We trust collagues with responsibilities and we end up trusting strangers in sharing a ride, signing a contract, or following advice.

But history and personal experiences show that trust can be dangerously misplaced. Deception rarely arrives wearing a warning sign and that fascinates me…

People who betray us are seldom the ones we suspect. They are mostly the ones who appear the most convincing, the most helpful, or the most trustworthy. They understand what we want to hear and how we want to feel. This raises an uncomfortable question:

Why do intelligent humans ignore red flags?

This has more to do with emotions. Human beings tend to seek connection. We want to believe that people are who they appear to be. We want our relationships to be genuine. As soon as we invest emotionally in a person, our minds starts filtering information through that investment. We attach explanations with inconsistencies. We rationalize suspicious behavior. We convince ourselves that our instincts must be wrong simply because the mind knows that the alternative is too painful to accept.

As a writer and an observer of human behavior, this psychological conflict between trust and doubt has always fascinated me. Not all villains hiding in the shadows contribute to gripping stories. Sometimes stories are about ordinary people struggling to determine whom they can trust when appearances become unreliable.

When it comes to real life, deception happens minus the drama. It gets evident through omissions, half-truths, and carefully constructed narratives. And when the truth emerges, the emotional damage has already been done.

I feel that is why stories involving psychological suspense resonate so deeply with readers. They reflect the fear of realizing that someone we trusted was never who we believed them to be.

As an author, I am repeatedly drawn to these themes because they explore trust, vulnerability, manipulation, perception, and self-deception.

I was curious to delve deeper into trust and deception and those questions were part of what inspired me while writing AN UNEXPECTED DETOUR. The novel explores how relationships, assumptions, and hidden truths can shape lives in ways we never anticipate.

Some of our life’s biggest detours begin with a simple belief:

“I trust this person blindly.”

And that belief might turn out to be the greatest illusion of all.

— Pallabi Ghoshal
Author of AN UNEXPECTED DETOUR

How to Add Suspense into Writing Minus Jump Scares

Loud music, sudden twists, or shocking reveals are considered as sole elements of building suspense. What if I told you that the most powerful suspense doesn’t scream? It comes wrapped in hushed whispers. It dwells quietly in the reader’s chest and refuses to leave.

Hi. I am Pallabi Ghoshal. I write fiction, typically psychological thrillers, and there are not many episodes of jump scares in my books. You don’t need jump scares to make your readers feel uneasy. You need to build anticipation.

Real fear isn’t about what happens. It’s about what might happen.

That kind of suspense stays with readers long after they’ve completed reading the book. It is built slowly, deliberately, and invisibly.

1. Allow the Reader to Know More Than the Character

Let your reader have that piece of information your character doesn’t have. It might be the door that shouldn’t be opened. Let the reader sense the danger in a seemingly harmless situation.

This builds quiet tension. The reader leans forward, craving to tell the character, “Don’t do it.”

But still… the character does.

Suspense breathes in the gap between knowledge and action.

2. Silence is Sometimes an Excellent Tool

I watched a movie recently. It’s last scene told me that not every moment needs dialogue. Every scene doesn’t need explanation.

Sometimes, what you don’t say lands more impact than what you do.

A paused conversation. An unfinished sentence. A glance that’s never explained. When eyes speak paragraphs of emotions…

Sometimes, let the reader to fill in the blanks. What they imagine is often far more terrifying than anything you could write.

3. Slow Down the Moment

Some scenes need stretched time to strengthen suspense.

Why do we always need to rush through a crucial scene? Slow it down. Describe the creak of a dooe, the drumming of heartbeats, the stammer before a decision.

Awareness sharpens. Tension rises.

4. Build Emotional Stakes, Beyond Situational Ones

A loud event might keep your readers on the edge of their seats. Emotional investment will keep them hooked.

Why does one particular moment matter to your character? What were they about to lose?

Let readers care deeply about the outcome. You will see how the smallest uncertainty becomes unbearable for them. A closed door will no longer be just a door. It creates a boundary between safety and collapse.

5. Internalize Fear

Haunting suspense doesn’t come from external threats. It comes from within. Doubt. Guilt. Memory. Regret.

A character fighting something deep inside themselves takes decisions that carry weight. Every silence is loaded. The readers don’t just watch the story unfold. They experience it.

6. Please Don’t Resolve Too Quickly

This world demands instant answers, but suspense, my friend, lives in delay. Hold back. Let questions surface. Let discomfort exist without urgent resolution.

The longer a question remains unanswered, the deeper it roots itself in the reader’s mind. That’s where the real engagement happens. Not in trends and algorithms, but in connection.

Jump scares prompt reaction. But quiet suspense holds it.

It permeates into their thoughts. It stalks them into silence. It allows them to pause, reread, and wonder. All stories don’t shock you suddenly. Sometimes they will slowly make you uneasy and you won’t realize why.

And that kind of storytelling is beyond entertainment.

Thank you for reading patiently. This blog is a part of Blogchatter A2Z Challenge, 2026.

If you feel these tips have helped you or can help aspiring authors, please do share it ahead. You may explore how I implement these tips into my own books.

How to Add Suspense into Writing Minus Jump Scares

Loud music, sudden twists, or shocking reveals are considered as sole elements of building suspense. What if I told you that the most powerful suspense doesn’t scream? It comes wrapped in hushed whispers. It dwells quietly in the reader’s chest and refuses to leave.

Hi. I am Pallabi Ghoshal. I write fiction, typically psychological thrillers, and there are not many episodes of jump scares in my books. You don’t need jump scares to make your readers feel uneasy. You need to build anticipation.

Real fear isn’t about what happens. It’s about what might happen.

That kind of suspense stays with readers long after they’ve completed reading the book. It is built slowly, deliberately, and invisibly.

1. Allow the Reader to Know More Than the Character

Let your reader have that piece of information your character doesn’t have. It might be the door that shouldn’t be opened. Let the reader sense the danger in a seemingly harmless situation.

This builds quiet tension. The reader leans forward, craving to tell the character, “Don’t do it.”

But still… the character does.

Suspense breathes in the gap between knowledge and action.

2. Silence is Sometimes an Excellent Tool

I watched a movie recently. It’s last scene told me that not every moment needs dialogue. Every scene doesn’t need explanation.

Sometimes, what you don’t say lands more impact than what you do.

A paused conversation. An unfinished sentence. A glance that’s never explained. When eyes speak paragraphs of emotions…

Sometimes, let the reader to fill in the blanks. What they imagine is often far more terrifying than anything you could write.

3. Slow Down the Moment

Some scenes need stretched time to strengthen suspense.

Why do we always need to rush through a crucial scene? Slow it down. Describe the creak of a dooe, the drumming of heartbeats, the stammer before a decision.

Awareness sharpens. Tension rises.

4. Build Emotional Stakes, Beyond Situational Ones

A loud event might keep your readers on the edge of their seats. Emotional investment will keep them hooked.

Why does one particular moment matter to your character? What were they about to lose?

Let readers care deeply about the outcome. You will see how the smallest uncertainty becomes unbearable for them. A closed door will no longer be just a door. It creates a boundary between safety and collapse.

5. Internalize Fear

Haunting suspense doesn’t come from external threats. It comes from within. Doubt. Guilt. Memory. Regret.

A character fighting something deep inside themselves takes decisions that carry weight. Every silence is loaded. The readers don’t just watch the story unfold. They experience it.

6. Please Don’t Resolve Too Quickly

This world demands instant answers, but suspense, my friend, lives in delay. Hold back. Let questions surface. Let discomfort exist without urgent resolution.

The longer a question remains unanswered, the deeper it roots itself in the reader’s mind. That’s where the real engagement happens. Not in trends and algorithms, but in connection.

Jump scares prompt reaction. But quiet suspense holds it.

It permeates into their thoughts. It stalks them into silence. It allows them to pause, reread, and wonder. All stories don’t shock you suddenly. Sometimes they will slowly make you uneasy and you won’t realize why.

And that kind of storytelling is beyond entertainment.

Thank you for reading patiently. This blog is a part of Blogchatter A2Z Challenge, 2026.

If you feel these tips have helped you or can help aspiring authors, please do share it ahead. You may explore how I implement these tips into my own books.

How to Add Suspense into Writing Minus Jump Scares

Loud music, sudden twists, or shocking reveals are considered as sole elements of building suspense. What if I told you that the most powerful suspense doesn’t scream? It comes wrapped in hushed whispers. It dwells quietly in the reader’s chest and refuses to leave.

Hi. I am Pallabi Ghoshal. I write fiction, typically psychological thrillers, and there are not many episodes of jump scares in my books. You don’t need jump scares to make your readers feel uneasy. You need to build anticipation.

Real fear isn’t about what happens. It’s about what might happen.

That kind of suspense stays with readers long after they’ve completed reading the book. It is built slowly, deliberately, and invisibly.

1. Allow the Reader to Know More Than the Character

Let your reader have that piece of information your character doesn’t have. It might be the door that shouldn’t be opened. Let the reader sense the danger in a seemingly harmless situation.

This builds quiet tension. The reader leans forward, craving to tell the character, “Don’t do it.”

But still… the character does.

Suspense breathes in the gap between knowledge and action.

2. Silence is Sometimes an Excellent Tool

I watched a movie recently. It’s last scene told me that not every moment needs dialogue. Every scene doesn’t need explanation.

Sometimes, what you don’t say lands more impact than what you do.

A paused conversation. An unfinished sentence. A glance that’s never explained. When eyes speak paragraphs of emotions…

Sometimes, let the reader to fill in the blanks. What they imagine is often far more terrifying than anything you could write.

3. Slow Down the Moment

Some scenes need stretched time to strengthen suspense.

Why do we always need to rush through a crucial scene? Slow it down. Describe the creak of a dooe, the drumming of heartbeats, the stammer before a decision.

Awareness sharpens. Tension rises.

4. Build Emotional Stakes, Beyond Situational Ones

A loud event might keep your readers on the edge of their seats. Emotional investment will keep them hooked.

Why does one particular moment matter to your character? What were they about to lose?

Let readers care deeply about the outcome. You will see how the smallest uncertainty becomes unbearable for them. A closed door will no longer be just a door. It creates a boundary between safety and collapse.

5. Internalize Fear

Haunting suspense doesn’t come from external threats. It comes from within. Doubt. Guilt. Memory. Regret.

A character fighting something deep inside themselves takes decisions that carry weight. Every silence is loaded. The readers don’t just watch the story unfold. They experience it.

6. Please Don’t Resolve Too Quickly

This world demands instant answers, but suspense, my friend, lives in delay. Hold back. Let questions surface. Let discomfort exist without urgent resolution.

The longer a question remains unanswered, the deeper it roots itself in the reader’s mind. That’s where the real engagement happens. Not in trends and algorithms, but in connection.

Jump scares prompt reaction. But quiet suspense holds it.

It permeates into their thoughts. It stalks them into silence. It allows them to pause, reread, and wonder. All stories don’t shock you suddenly. Sometimes they will slowly make you uneasy and you won’t realize why.

And that kind of storytelling is beyond entertainment.

Thank you for reading patiently. This blog is a part of Blogchatter A2Z Challenge, 2026.

If you feel these tips have helped you or can help aspiring authors, please do share it ahead. You may explore how I implement these tips into my own books.

How to Add Suspense into Writing Minus Jump Scares

Loud music, sudden twists, or shocking reveals are considered as sole elements of building suspense. What if I told you that the most powerful suspense doesn’t scream? It comes wrapped in hushed whispers. It dwells quietly in the reader’s chest and refuses to leave.

Hi. I am Pallabi Ghoshal. I write fiction, typically psychological thrillers, and there are not many episodes of jump scares in my books. You don’t need jump scares to make your readers feel uneasy. You need to build anticipation.

Real fear isn’t about what happens. It’s about what might happen.

That kind of suspense stays with readers long after they’ve completed reading the book. It is built slowly, deliberately, and invisibly.

1. Allow the Reader to Know More Than the Character

Let your reader have that piece of information your character doesn’t have. It might be the door that shouldn’t be opened. Let the reader sense the danger in a seemingly harmless situation.

This builds quiet tension. The reader leans forward, craving to tell the character, “Don’t do it.”

But still… the character does.

Suspense breathes in the gap between knowledge and action.

2. Silence is Sometimes an Excellent Tool

I watched a movie recently. It’s last scene told me that not every moment needs dialogue. Every scene doesn’t need explanation.

Sometimes, what you don’t say lands more impact than what you do.

A paused conversation. An unfinished sentence. A glance that’s never explained. When eyes speak paragraphs of emotions…

Sometimes, let the reader to fill in the blanks. What they imagine is often far more terrifying than anything you could write.

3. Slow Down the Moment

Some scenes need stretched time to strengthen suspense.

Why do we always need to rush through a crucial scene? Slow it down. Describe the creak of a dooe, the drumming of heartbeats, the stammer before a decision.

Awareness sharpens. Tension rises.

4. Build Emotional Stakes, Beyond Situational Ones

A loud event might keep your readers on the edge of their seats. Emotional investment will keep them hooked.

Why does one particular moment matter to your character? What were they about to lose?

Let readers care deeply about the outcome. You will see how the smallest uncertainty becomes unbearable for them. A closed door will no longer be just a door. It creates a boundary between safety and collapse.

5. Internalize Fear

Haunting suspense doesn’t come from external threats. It comes from within. Doubt. Guilt. Memory. Regret.

A character fighting something deep inside themselves takes decisions that carry weight. Every silence is loaded. The readers don’t just watch the story unfold. They experience it.

6. Please Don’t Resolve Too Quickly

This world demands instant answers, but suspense, my friend, lives in delay. Hold back. Let questions surface. Let discomfort exist without urgent resolution.

The longer a question remains unanswered, the deeper it roots itself in the reader’s mind. That’s where the real engagement happens. Not in trends and algorithms, but in connection.

Jump scares prompt reaction. But quiet suspense holds it.

It permeates into their thoughts. It stalks them into silence. It allows them to pause, reread, and wonder. All stories don’t shock you suddenly. Sometimes they will slowly make you uneasy and you won’t realize why.

And that kind of storytelling is beyond entertainment.

Thank you for reading patiently. This blog is a part of Blogchatter A2Z Challenge, 2026.

If you feel these tips have helped you or can help aspiring authors, please do share it ahead. You may explore how I implement these tips into my own books.

How to Add Suspense into Writing Minus Jump Scares

Loud music, sudden twists, or shocking reveals are considered as sole elements of building suspense. What if I told you that the most powerful suspense doesn’t scream? It comes wrapped in hushed whispers. It dwells quietly in the reader’s chest and refuses to leave.

Hi. I am Pallabi Ghoshal. I write fiction, typically psychological thrillers, and there are not many episodes of jump scares in my books. You don’t need jump scares to make your readers feel uneasy. You need to build anticipation.

Real fear isn’t about what happens. It’s about what might happen.

That kind of suspense stays with readers long after they’ve completed reading the book. It is built slowly, deliberately, and invisibly.

1. Allow the Reader to Know More Than the Character

Let your reader have that piece of information your character doesn’t have. It might be the door that shouldn’t be opened. Let the reader sense the danger in a seemingly harmless situation.

This builds quiet tension. The reader leans forward, craving to tell the character, “Don’t do it.”

But still… the character does.

Suspense breathes in the gap between knowledge and action.

2. Silence is Sometimes an Excellent Tool

I watched a movie recently. It’s last scene told me that not every moment needs dialogue. Every scene doesn’t need explanation.

Sometimes, what you don’t say lands more impact than what you do.

A paused conversation. An unfinished sentence. A glance that’s never explained. When eyes speak paragraphs of emotions…

Sometimes, let the reader to fill in the blanks. What they imagine is often far more terrifying than anything you could write.

3. Slow Down the Moment

Some scenes need stretched time to strengthen suspense.

Why do we always need to rush through a crucial scene? Slow it down. Describe the creak of a dooe, the drumming of heartbeats, the stammer before a decision.

Awareness sharpens. Tension rises.

4. Build Emotional Stakes, Beyond Situational Ones

A loud event might keep your readers on the edge of their seats. Emotional investment will keep them hooked.

Why does one particular moment matter to your character? What were they about to lose?

Let readers care deeply about the outcome. You will see how the smallest uncertainty becomes unbearable for them. A closed door will no longer be just a door. It creates a boundary between safety and collapse.

5. Internalize Fear

Haunting suspense doesn’t come from external threats. It comes from within. Doubt. Guilt. Memory. Regret.

A character fighting something deep inside themselves takes decisions that carry weight. Every silence is loaded. The readers don’t just watch the story unfold. They experience it.

6. Please Don’t Resolve Too Quickly

This world demands instant answers, but suspense, my friend, lives in delay. Hold back. Let questions surface. Let discomfort exist without urgent resolution.

The longer a question remains unanswered, the deeper it roots itself in the reader’s mind. That’s where the real engagement happens. Not in trends and algorithms, but in connection.

Jump scares prompt reaction. But quiet suspense holds it.

It permeates into their thoughts. It stalks them into silence. It allows them to pause, reread, and wonder. All stories don’t shock you suddenly. Sometimes they will slowly make you uneasy and you won’t realize why.

And that kind of storytelling is beyond entertainment.

Thank you for reading patiently. This blog is a part of Blogchatter A2Z Challenge, 2026.

If you feel these tips have helped you or can help aspiring authors, please do share it ahead. You may explore how I implement these tips into my own books.