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  1. @jeffowski

    We should read Thomas Wolfe every now and then...

    "Proud Death, proud Death, whom I have seen by darkness, at so many times, and always when you came to nameless men, what have you ever touched that you have not touched with love and pity, Death?

    Proud Death, wherever we have seen your face, you came with mercy, love, and pity, Death, and brought to all of us your compassionate sentences of pardon and release. For have you not retrieved from exile the desperate lives of men who never found their home?

    Have you not opened your dark door for us who never yet found doors to enter and given us a room who, roomless, doorless, unassuaged, were driven on forever through the streets of life?

    Have you not offered us your stern provender, Death, with which to stay the hunger that grew to madness from the food it fed upon, and given all of us the goal for which we sought but never found, the certitude, the peace, for which our overladen hearts contended, and made for us, in your dark house, an end of all the tortured wandering and unrest that lashed us on forever?

    Proud Death, proud Death, not for the glory that you added to the glory of the king, proud Death, nor for the honor that you imposed upon the dignities of famous men, proud Death, nor for the final magic that you have given to the lips of genius, Death, but because you come so gloriously to us who never yet knew glory, so proudly and sublimely to us whose lives were nameless and obscure, because you give to all of us—the nameless, faceless, voiceless atoms of the earth—the awful chrism of your grandeur, Death, because I have seen and known you so well, and have lived alone so long with Loneliness, your brother, I do not fear you any longer, friend, and have made this praise for you."

    (By: Thomas Wolfe, "DEATH THE PROUD BROTHER")

    #thomaswolfe #lonely #loneliness #nameless #einsamkeit #alleinsein #mai #tanzindenmai #death #faceless #voiceless #forgottenbooks #darkness

  2. @jeffowski

    We should read Thomas Wolfe every now and then...

    "Proud Death, proud Death, whom I have seen by darkness, at so many times, and always when you came to nameless men, what have you ever touched that you have not touched with love and pity, Death?

    Proud Death, wherever we have seen your face, you came with mercy, love, and pity, Death, and brought to all of us your compassionate sentences of pardon and release. For have you not retrieved from exile the desperate lives of men who never found their home?

    Have you not opened your dark door for us who never yet found doors to enter and given us a room who, roomless, doorless, unassuaged, were driven on forever through the streets of life?

    Have you not offered us your stern provender, Death, with which to stay the hunger that grew to madness from the food it fed upon, and given all of us the goal for which we sought but never found, the certitude, the peace, for which our overladen hearts contended, and made for us, in your dark house, an end of all the tortured wandering and unrest that lashed us on forever?

    Proud Death, proud Death, not for the glory that you added to the glory of the king, proud Death, nor for the honor that you imposed upon the dignities of famous men, proud Death, nor for the final magic that you have given to the lips of genius, Death, but because you come so gloriously to us who never yet knew glory, so proudly and sublimely to us whose lives were nameless and obscure, because you give to all of us—the nameless, faceless, voiceless atoms of the earth—the awful chrism of your grandeur, Death, because I have seen and known you so well, and have lived alone so long with Loneliness, your brother, I do not fear you any longer, friend, and have made this praise for you."

    (By: Thomas Wolfe, "DEATH THE PROUD BROTHER")

    #thomaswolfe #lonely #loneliness #nameless #einsamkeit #alleinsein #mai #tanzindenmai #death #faceless #voiceless #forgottenbooks #darkness

  3. @jeffowski

    We should read Thomas Wolfe every now and then...

    "Proud Death, proud Death, whom I have seen by darkness, at so many times, and always when you came to nameless men, what have you ever touched that you have not touched with love and pity, Death?

    Proud Death, wherever we have seen your face, you came with mercy, love, and pity, Death, and brought to all of us your compassionate sentences of pardon and release. For have you not retrieved from exile the desperate lives of men who never found their home?

    Have you not opened your dark door for us who never yet found doors to enter and given us a room who, roomless, doorless, unassuaged, were driven on forever through the streets of life?

    Have you not offered us your stern provender, Death, with which to stay the hunger that grew to madness from the food it fed upon, and given all of us the goal for which we sought but never found, the certitude, the peace, for which our overladen hearts contended, and made for us, in your dark house, an end of all the tortured wandering and unrest that lashed us on forever?

    Proud Death, proud Death, not for the glory that you added to the glory of the king, proud Death, nor for the honor that you imposed upon the dignities of famous men, proud Death, nor for the final magic that you have given to the lips of genius, Death, but because you come so gloriously to us who never yet knew glory, so proudly and sublimely to us whose lives were nameless and obscure, because you give to all of us—the nameless, faceless, voiceless atoms of the earth—the awful chrism of your grandeur, Death, because I have seen and known you so well, and have lived alone so long with Loneliness, your brother, I do not fear you any longer, friend, and have made this praise for you."

    (By: Thomas Wolfe, "DEATH THE PROUD BROTHER")

    #thomaswolfe #lonely #loneliness #nameless #einsamkeit #alleinsein #mai #tanzindenmai #death #faceless #voiceless #forgottenbooks #darkness

  4. @jeffowski

    We should read Thomas Wolfe every now and then...

    "Proud Death, proud Death, whom I have seen by darkness, at so many times, and always when you came to nameless men, what have you ever touched that you have not touched with love and pity, Death?

    Proud Death, wherever we have seen your face, you came with mercy, love, and pity, Death, and brought to all of us your compassionate sentences of pardon and release. For have you not retrieved from exile the desperate lives of men who never found their home?

    Have you not opened your dark door for us who never yet found doors to enter and given us a room who, roomless, doorless, unassuaged, were driven on forever through the streets of life?

    Have you not offered us your stern provender, Death, with which to stay the hunger that grew to madness from the food it fed upon, and given all of us the goal for which we sought but never found, the certitude, the peace, for which our overladen hearts contended, and made for us, in your dark house, an end of all the tortured wandering and unrest that lashed us on forever?

    Proud Death, proud Death, not for the glory that you added to the glory of the king, proud Death, nor for the honor that you imposed upon the dignities of famous men, proud Death, nor for the final magic that you have given to the lips of genius, Death, but because you come so gloriously to us who never yet knew glory, so proudly and sublimely to us whose lives were nameless and obscure, because you give to all of us—the nameless, faceless, voiceless atoms of the earth—the awful chrism of your grandeur, Death, because I have seen and known you so well, and have lived alone so long with Loneliness, your brother, I do not fear you any longer, friend, and have made this praise for you."

    (By: Thomas Wolfe, "DEATH THE PROUD BROTHER")

    #thomaswolfe #lonely #loneliness #nameless #einsamkeit #alleinsein #mai #tanzindenmai #death #faceless #voiceless #forgottenbooks #darkness

  5. @jeffowski

    We should read Thomas Wolfe every now and then...

    "Proud Death, proud Death, whom I have seen by darkness, at so many times, and always when you came to nameless men, what have you ever touched that you have not touched with love and pity, Death?

    Proud Death, wherever we have seen your face, you came with mercy, love, and pity, Death, and brought to all of us your compassionate sentences of pardon and release. For have you not retrieved from exile the desperate lives of men who never found their home?

    Have you not opened your dark door for us who never yet found doors to enter and given us a room who, roomless, doorless, unassuaged, were driven on forever through the streets of life?

    Have you not offered us your stern provender, Death, with which to stay the hunger that grew to madness from the food it fed upon, and given all of us the goal for which we sought but never found, the certitude, the peace, for which our overladen hearts contended, and made for us, in your dark house, an end of all the tortured wandering and unrest that lashed us on forever?

    Proud Death, proud Death, not for the glory that you added to the glory of the king, proud Death, nor for the honor that you imposed upon the dignities of famous men, proud Death, nor for the final magic that you have given to the lips of genius, Death, but because you come so gloriously to us who never yet knew glory, so proudly and sublimely to us whose lives were nameless and obscure, because you give to all of us—the nameless, faceless, voiceless atoms of the earth—the awful chrism of your grandeur, Death, because I have seen and known you so well, and have lived alone so long with Loneliness, your brother, I do not fear you any longer, friend, and have made this praise for you."

    (By: Thomas Wolfe, "DEATH THE PROUD BROTHER")

    #thomaswolfe #lonely #loneliness #nameless #einsamkeit #alleinsein #mai #tanzindenmai #death #faceless #voiceless #forgottenbooks #darkness

  6. (Ältere) Texte über #Alleinsein und #Einsamkeit lesend sitze ich hier und kann ... kann meine #Tränen nur schwer zurüchkhalten. Es ist schwierig für mich, meinen eigenen Anteil am Geschehen zu erkennen (ist ja sowieso nur meine eigene #Schuld, nur meine eigene) ...

  7. Moin Toots

    Pensioniert sein heisst:

    - sich nach dem Frühstück nochmal hinlegen
    - bis um 9:30 noch keinen Plan zu haben
    - den noch Arbeitenden nicht auf den Wecker gehen
    - Tätigkeiten zu 95% selber ausdenken und initiiren
    - lernen Ruhepausen zu machen
    - lernen mit #Alleinsein * klar zu kommen
    - weniger Geld
    - mehr Eiweiss essen und trinken nicht vergessen
    - öfter mal in den Spiegel gucken
    - lernen den eigenen Bedürfnissen zu folgen
    - weniger grübeln

    * Alleinsein ist was anderes als Einsamkeit

  8. Kurzfristig, aber trotzdem noch rechtzeitig!

    Morgen (am Mittwoch), den 11.06.2025 - 20:00 Uhr findet von #VoltSachsen eine Policy Debate zum Thema: #Einsamkeit statt!

    Kommt gerne vorbei und lasst uns darüber sprechen, was in der Politik gemacht werden sollte und wo es systemische Probleme gibt.

    Lasst uns nicht allein sein, sondern gemeinsam an unseren gemeinsamen und positiven Zukunft arbeiten. Mit viel Optimismus und Tatentrag!

    Termin:
    Policy Debatte: Einsamkeit
    Mittwoch, 11. Juni · 8:00 bis 9:00PM
    Zeitzone: Europe/Brussels
    Google Meet-Teilnahmeinformationen
    Link für Videoanruf: meet.google.com/amv-tfef-gmx
    Oder telefonisch: ‪(DE) +49 40 8081619350‬ PIN: ‪948 594 581‬#
    Weitere Telefonnummern: tel.meet/amv-tfef-gmx?pin=6351

    Insta Volt Sachsen Beitrag:
    instagram.com/p/DKu-MWIsA9p/?u

    #PolicyDebatte #Volt #VoltDeutschland #Allein #Alleinsein #PolicyDebate #Debatte #Diskussion #Austausch #Probleme #Politik #Gemeinsam #Zusammen #Zusammenhalt #Corona #GemeinsamAllein #einsam #ausgeschlossen

  9. Anna Miller hat heute im Magazin der NZZaS einen schönen Text zur „Schönheit des Alleinseins“ geschrieben:

    nzz.ch/nzz-am-sonntag-magazin/ ($)

    Wie es scheint, bin ich gerade mit meinem Blogbeitrag zum selben Thema, den ich am Freitag veröffentlicht habe, sehr „zeitgeistig“ unterwegs 😅

    text.tchncs.de/gisiger/alleine

    #Solitude #Einsamkeit #Alleinsein #Freundschaft

  10. ARD: Allein sein können – Kompetenz für ein selbstwirksames Leben


    Zeit mit sich allein zu verbringen ist entscheidend, um sich selbst zu verstehen, auszuprobieren und innerlich zu wachsen.

    Psychologinnen und Therapeuten halten Alleinsein für eine bedeutende Fähigkeit. Sie kann davor schützen, in Abhängigkeiten zu geraten oder in Einsamkeit. Sich eine "Me Time" zu nehmen, heißt, sich bewusst zurückzuziehen.

    Wie lernt man das in Zeiten ständiger Ablenkungen und Vorbehalten gegenüber dem Alleinsein?

    Audio: Web | MP4

    Info: Der Beitrag ist zwar nicht mehr ganz frisch, aber ich denke des das ein wichtiges und interessantes Thema ist.

    #Hintergrund #Mensch #metime #Gesellschaft #Alleinsein #Gesellschaft #Rückzug #SWR #ARD #2025-04-18

  11. 'Viele Menschen sind der Dating-Apps müde, sie haben "Dating Fatigue". Verabredungen kosten zu viel Zeit und Energie, Ablehnung tut weh, und einen passenden Partner findet man nicht.'

    ⏫ Das fasst es wohl gut zusammen. 🤔

    Quelle:
    'Dating Fatigue: "Ich dachte: Es gibt nichts Schlimmeres, als 35 und Single zu sein"'
    -> Original hinter Paywall: zeit.de/zeit-magazin/leben/202
    -> Archiv ohne Paywall: archive.is/gF9Tu

    #Dating #Beziehung #Partnerschaft #Einsamkeit #Alleinsein #DatingFatigue #Zeit

  12. Udo Rauchfleisch beleuchtet ein Problem, das in den letzten Jahrzehnten immer drängender geworden ist, aber kaum angemessen diskutiert wird: Einsamkeit. Eine Rezension

    Udo Rauchfleisch beleuchtet ein Problem, das in den letzten Jahrzehnten immer drängender geworden ist: Einsamkeit. Eine Rezension (Rezension zu Einsamkeit von Udo Rauchfleisch)#Einsamkeit #Alleinsein #Alter #Anonymität #Beziehung #Isolation #Krankheit #Psychologie #Gesundheit #Tod #Trennung #Vereinsamung #PsychologieHirnforschung #Kultur
    »Einsamkeit«: Wir werden einsamer

  13. Marie Luise Ritter präsentiert ihre Gedanken und Gefühle zum Thema Alleinsein. Ihr Buch ist abwechslungsreich, aber auch ein wenig unentschieden. Eine Rezension

    Marie Luise Ritter schreibt über das Alleinsein. Ihr Buch ist lebendig erzählt, aber auch ein wenig unentschieden. Eine Rezension (Rezension zu Vom Glück, allein zu sein von Marie Luise Ritter)#Alleinsein #Luiseliebt #Blog #Single #Reise #Liebe #Frau #Selbstfindung #Achtsamkeit #Meditation #Glück #Lebenshilfe #Zufriedenheit #Allein #Einsamkeit #Psychologie #PsychologieHirnforschung #Kultur
    »Vom Glück, allein zu sein«: Vom Aufbrechen und Ankommen

  14. Sich selbst nicht genügen und etwas mit sich anfangen können, dazu von der Simplizität des Lebens überfordert sein, wird inzwischen als Krankheit betrachtet. Nur wer sich durch Ablenkung betäubt ist gesund? Bedenklich.

    #Einsamkeit #Alleinsein

  15. "Viele Menschen suchen in dieser eiskalten Welt einen Rückzugsraum, die #Familie. Das Problem ist: Es gibt kaum Alternativen zur Kleinfamilie, zum Beispiel größere Verantwortungsgemeinschaften oder Kollektive. Und wenn man nichts anderes findet als die Kleinfamilie, idealisiert man sie entweder als einen Ort der Liebe – oder man bleibt allein." - Sarah Diehl

    taz.de/Autorin-Sarah-Diehl-ueb #Alleinsein #Einsamkeit #Frauen

  16. @necrosis Find ich gut, dass das Thema aufgebracht wird!

    Ich denke, ein wichtiger Punkt (der in dem Beitrag auch erwähnt wird) ist: #Alleinsein sollte endlich nicht mehr als "gesellschaftlich inakzeptabel" gelten; einsame Leute sollten sich nicht auch noch Vorwürfe machen müssen, dass sie "nichts erreicht" haben. Alleine leben hat auch Vorteile (und auch Nachteile, ganz klar), aber eine Stigmatisierung ist ein Problem, das wir uns als Gesellschaft selbst einbrocken, ohne Not.

    #Einsamkeit

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