finally got around to learning about dbus. still can't send busctl commands but can with gdbus.
why? i still mess up the terms object, service, interface and whatever so I'll stick to whats working atm
bustle and d-spy helped out, esp when i didn't know what "got s, expected ssv" meant. staring into body in d-spy finally let me knew
that and that it wouldn't let me enter wrong value. wanted to send int but didn't know how until more staring