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is it an autism thing to feel bad about sorting my junk drawer because i'm "disturbing the dig site"?
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is it an autism thing to feel bad about sorting my junk drawer because i'm "disturbing the dig site"?
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is it an autism thing to feel bad about sorting my junk drawer because i'm "disturbing the dig site"?
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I love Boyf and often do not appreciate that he has to try and navigate the *vast catalogue of Strangulated and Yip type noises* I often make and has to think:
" Is my Beloved Excited or Distressed right Now? "
And then act accordingly.
#NeuroSpicy #NeuroSpicyRelationships #Relationships #Love #LoveIs #Boyf
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How to Feel Less Exhausted by Group Conversations.
"Group conversations aren't always easy for introverts, highly sensitive people, or neurodivergent people.
In the article below, I share why group conversations feel so draining — and how to make them easier.'
From "Introvert, Dear"
https://introvertdear.com/news/how-to-feel-less-exhausted-by-group-conversations/
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#neurospicy #aspi and the emoji #spoon
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Hi all! I'm new to fediverse and social media. The blinking ads and reels slammed at my face overwhelmed me and pushed me away when I first tried to enter this realm.
For this first post, I've attached a close-up of my carpet. I got bullied when I posted carpet close-ups when I joined Instagram over 10 years ago as a kid. So I guess I'm kind of trying to close the circle so I can start something new. Long live carpets!
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:bear_love: Ello sweet and lovely Friendos 💜 and #NeuroSpicy 🌶 friends :neuro:
We're out for the splash 💦 walkies again. Arwen gets more sniffs in and an occasional water splashing may happen... 🐾
My mind is still quite busy. It is like it's wilder than usual, even though they did slightly up my #ADHD meds last week... Maybe I need to get adjusted to the new dosage?
While my mind is going fast, I do find that I can take some more moments to relax. As the move is coming closer, and more things are being crossed off the list, I can sometimes feel a wee bit at ease...
Until the anxiety kicks in again with all the worries that it's been stalking me with. As is moving to a new town wasn't hectic enough, let's throw in a dosage of #AuDHD to make it even more interesting/challenging.
But I've made it through all that life has thrown at me up till now... I admit, I didn't handle it all too well at times, but hey, I made it and I didn't give up!
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So, let's do this! 💪🏼 Day by day, until we made it to August... On July 31st I have to hand in the keys of the apartment and I'll close the door one last time... From that moment, it's hopefully time for me to find a new routine, take things a little easier and continue making my new house a home. (in case you missed it, 😉 I'm getting the keys July 1st at 12:30).
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Fankoos 🫶🏻 for your kindness and support! Your replies, boosts and likea really help to keep me more sane (as far as that's possible haha).
🧚🏼♀️ 🍀 💜 🐾
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:bear_love: Ello sweet and lovely Friendos 💜 and #NeuroSpicy 🌶 friends :neurodiversity:
The closer we're getting to July 1st, the more my brain seems to struggle.
For new friends here, that's the date I'm getting the keys to our new small house...We're moving to a whole new area! The house should *definitely* mean an improvement over our current apartment...
But it's just me and Arwen, so most of the organizing and arrangements (well, all of it actually) is on me.I've known this way in advance. And while it definitely helped me to prepare more leisurely, it doesn't take away the stress, anxiety and feelings of being overwhelmed...
I try to write about this a lot on my blog, cynnisblog.wordpress.com and I'm getting support from my parents and some really sweet friends. Online, I've been receiving kindness as well, which really helps too!
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But I am struggling, more than I dare to admit. I'm gonna miss oud current town and the ability to walk to many places. I'm gonna miss my routines, that seem to help me get through my days better. I'll have to rebuild, adapt, try out... And I wonder if I'll have enough energy left to do all that...
I feel I'm going through some autistic burnout. Many things feel harder than they normally would...
Many people praise me. And I love them for that! But it also makes me feel like a fraud...
I don't feel like I've got it all worked out so well. I don't feel like I'm handling it so perfectly. I don't feel brave and strong and adventurous...... I feel anxious, overwhelmed and scared...
I want to feel excited, as this could be such a good part of my journey. I want to feel full of energy and motivation. I want to feel happy and relaxed.
But... Those aren't always feelings associated with moving, or so I've been told 😉. And doing this on my own, most of it, is also harder than when you have a partner to share it with...
I want to thank you all for following me on my journey!!!
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Your support, your kindness, your understanding... It helps me more than I could express with words (or the many beautiful emojis this instance offers!). And I can't say it enough.
You're all awesome 💜 and you help me to keep me sane (as much as that's possible).
Fankoos 🫶🏻
🧚🏼♀️ 🍀 💜 🐾
#PixysJourney #NewHouse #Moving #AllNew #AuDHD #ActuallyAutistic
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Ello sweet and lovely Friendos 💜 and #NeuroSpicy 🌶 friends :neurodiversity:
Ugh... I had a bad and a short night. Silly dreams. So restless. Too much in my head. Not even the melatonin could help me 😔.
Today at 9 I'll get a small inspection of the building coop. It's scheduled for 1:30 (way too long for my liking...) and they'll check the apartment for things that will need to be done.
This is *not* about the new renters, they can later add work towards it as well... 😔It might all be OK enough and it may mean I get loads to do... I feel rather insecure about it, to be honest... Wish I wasn't alone for this...
So yeah, my brain is all over the place and it already was scrambled much... So much to do, so much to remember and arrange...
I mentioned it before and will definitely mention it again... I'll be glad when it's August. The apartment will be gone then. The move should be all done then 😉 (probably still unpacking, but I can do that at my own pace then). I *should* have stuff sorted then and *hopefully* I can start getting used to the new routine...
I'm excited to move, to a new part of the journey through life. 🌸 Just hate that it means there's so many changes!
Hope you'll all have a great day. 🌈 And thank you for your support, it really helps me!
🧚🏼♀️ 🍀 💜 🐾
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I have been working on my commitment to being as weird as I imagined I would be at this age. It's likely been the most freeing practice of my life. It's basically just unmasking, in terms of neurospiciness, and it feels like thriving.
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Neurospicy? Struggling? Good news: you're not alone. #createit22 #writers #artists #creatives
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Fine. I’m a freak.
Watch out @skinnylatte they’re trying to pidgeonhole you, too!
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Yesterday, we took a ride along the East Lancashire Railway. My father-in-law used to fire the engines of steam locomotives (in the late 1950s/early 1960s), so this must have brought back fond memories for him. He often tells us about cooking breakfasts on a shovel and goes into great detail when describing the trains he used to help operate. The driver kindly took him onto the footplate, where he could get a closer look at the controls.
Our thoroughly enjoyable journey from Rawtenstall to Heywood (and back) was powered by Tornado. As the Legends of Steam III event was taking place this weekend, there were plenty of rail enthusiasts present 🚂
#trains #steamtrains #history #neurodivergent #ActuallyAutistic #adhd #AuDHD #neurospicy
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Me whenever there are too many thoughts buzzing around inside my neurospicy noggin 👎
#neurospicy #neurodivergent #AuDHD #ActuallyAutistic #ADHD #NotTheBees
CW for image: very disturbing screenshot from the remake of The Wicker Man
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When Your Brain Is The Butt Of The Joke: SNLs Sunday Supper Sketch
It is not a reflection on loneliness, but it reinforces what CAUSES loneliness.
Archive: ia: https://s.faithcollapsing.com/rn9c2
https://ideatrash.net/2025/12/when-your-brain-is-the-butt-of-the-joke-snls-sunday-supper-sketch.html#craft-of-writing #neurospicy #television #writing-the-other #adhd #audhd #autism #comedy #punching-down #representation #saturday-night-live #snl #writing -
Music is such a great alternative to direct communication sometimes, especially (but not exclusively) if you're a neurospicy person who experiences any level of alexithymia, verbal shutdowns, or emotional dysregulation.
We often cannot tell people how we're doing or feeling if they ask us.
Even if we know how we're feeling, have the ability to form the words, and have the emotional regulation to describe everything, there are so many other factors that might make it too difficult, even overwhelming, to do so.
By comparison, sharing a song -- even one without any lyrics -- can do the audio equivalent of showing the answer more than we can tell it with words.
We need to remember to do this more often.
#NeurospicyThoughts #neurospicy #neurodivergent #alexithymia #EmotionalDysregulation #VerbalShutdown #music
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Do you crave cool?
Here it is.
Does not matter if you love #edm #techno or not...
@switchangel codes music line by line, her narration is part of this cool #trance track she magics line by line.Whether you're a #codemonkey a #music #geek or just a #neurospicy unicorn
You will thank me for this gem.
Love it!
https://youtu.be/GWXCCBsOMSg?si=x2n3UonVu7qIhGw- -
It was a shitty day.
Team #Neurospicy: 0
Team #Neurotypical: 1#ADHD #life #work #normativity
But I gotta go … Jon Blund and Ole Lukøje are waiting.
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I just.. I'm severely unnerved by incurious people.
They just seem to float through life never asking any questions ever and HOW DOES THAT EVEN WORK?
'No Thoughts Head Empty' is a meme for crying out loud!
Is this a Neurospicy thing?
Do all the Neurotypicals just not think to ask questions ??
I feel quite quite mentally unstable just considering it.
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CW: ableist blood relative
First reason why I don't consider my spawner (or what some would call a mother) part of family.
Family understands my low spoon state and gets the clue that even the most basic tasks like cleaning or cooking or even feeding animals is impossible to me, simply because of NO SPOONS.
She does not, and says I'm lazy.
Family understands that my room is my safezone, allows me to regenerate spoons and generally I feel best doing my work there.
She does not, and she prefers to label me as an internet addict (it will shock you but just because I'm in front of my laptop doesn't mean I'm on the internet), she again prefers to call me lazy and says it's somehow a bad thing I will spend most of my life in this room.
#neurospicy #neurodivergent #ActuallyAutistic #spoonie #SupportNeeds #MentalHealth #JoinIn
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Query for queer and/or neurodivergent and/or disabled Minecrafters playing Minecraft Java
What mods / plugins do you consider essential, both server side and client side? :minecraft_grass_dirt: :minecraft_heart: :minecraft_bee: :minecraft_diamond: :minecraft_sword:
#Minecraft #MinecraftJava #ModdedMinecraft #ForgeMC #FabricMC #QuiltMC #PaperMC #SpigotMC #queer #LGBTQ+ #LGBTQIA+ #disabled #disability #accessibility #neurodivergent #neurodivergence #neurospicy
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I love Boyf and often do not appreciate that he has to try and navigate the *vast catalogue of Strangulated and Yip type noises* I often make and has to think:
" Is my Beloved Excited or Distressed right Now? "
And then act accordingly.
#NeuroSpicy #NeuroSpicyRelationships #Relationships #Love #LoveIs #Boyf
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I love Boyf and often do not appreciate that he has to try and navigate the *vast catalogue of Strangulated and Yip type noises* I often make and has to think:
" Is my Beloved Excited or Distressed right Now? "
And then act accordingly.
#NeuroSpicy #NeuroSpicyRelationships #Relationships #Love #LoveIs #Boyf
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Neurospicy perk - Unflinching concentration:
With this perk, you can hyperfocus on an interesting subject so deeply that you will not notice any negative effects from things such as hunger, thirst, pain, or even the passage of time.
Note, however, that these stats continue to get worse over time; you just won't notice it.After a period of hyperfocus ends, all of the debuffs that occurred during it will set in all at once.
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Every other Wednesday is always a special day right now because we get a new #inpatient song and today's is a bit special in a lot of ways, the beat is a pure earworm, the video is one of the funniest things I've seen this year and the lyrics hiding between the beats are a near perfect description of being a bit #neurospicy
I give you Inpatient (Ren & Chris Webby) - Neurodivergent
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adhd moment: I am currently dehydrated and aware of it. I can feel the dryness in my mouth. I have a bottle of water, like, literally inches from my hand. it's been there for like the last hour. writing this post about being thirsty is easier than making myself open and drink the water.
edit: okay I drank the water and wow that feels so good why did that take me so long
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L'enfant connaît le nom (et un peu de trivia) de toutes les lunes des planètes telluriques du système solaires (naines ou pas), les noms des lunes plus grandes des planètes gazeuses (lunes galiléennes, par exemple).
On est à donf, elle les récite pour s'endormir 🥰
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Hier, l’enfant est revenu de son cours de natation en pleurs en disant que c’était la pire journée de sa vie.
Sa relation avec l’eau a toujours été compliqué à cause de ses hypersensibilités (poke le TSA). Du coup, on lui a acheté des lunettes et un pince-nez pour limiter l’intrusion de l’eau et depuis, ça l’a aidé à se sentir mieux.
Sauf que hier, le maître nageur a changé (troisième fois en quatre séances alors qu’on m’avait assuré que ça serait toujours la même personne 😬) et il lui a dit qu’elle devait enlever le pince-nez et apprendre à gérer sa respiration.
Bon, vous imaginez bien que, pour une ptite louloute autiste qui doit déjà se concentrer sur les mouvements pour les reproduire, ça a été la cata. Elle a bu souvent la tasse et est ressortie totalement découragée.
Heureusement, son père et moi avons été là pour la soutenir, lui rappeler qu’elle est très courageuse et qu’on est fière d’elle. Le mari a même pris la décision d’aller voir le maître nageur la semaine prochaine pour lui parler du handicap de l’enfant et lui demander de la laisser utiliser le pince-nez.
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Ça fait un mois que l’enfant est sur sa (toute petite) broderie sans réussir à la finir. Pendant le même temps sa copine en a déjà fait 6. Je crois qu’elle a hérité de mes fonctions exécutives complètement aux fraises 😔
Elle a beaucoup de mal à terminer ses coloriages, ses bricolages, c’est déprimant.
#NeuroSpicyKid